Jill

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💫 Trans rights are human rights 💫
🌏 Accessibility is for everyone! 🌎

Humanist. Ace. Director of Nerdery. Doggo snuggler. Kitty scritcher. Unschooler. Overthinker.

Officially NerdJoy.social admin (npub1zjn…5tfr)
Fanfic [@Sanguine_Squid](https://NerdJoy.social/@Sanguine_Squid )

Pronouns: she/her
Cover image description: A full concert arena with the crowd's fan lights lit up in a rainbow
Profile image description: A flower with 5 purple and 5 white petals
Location: usually Minnesota

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2026-07-19 14:27:13 UTC

Kiddo is nearing teenage years so fast and I am eager to see the maturing adult he will become.
But I'm also SAD about how he won't be a kid much longer.
This feels like the infant-to-preschooler crisis all over again. Being a parent to an infant is different from being a parent to a preschooler. Now a parent to a kid vs a parent to a teenager.
I'm not ready.

2026-07-08 12:21:26 UTC

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I am pretty sure it was @npub18du…2dz9 introducing me on here to different Jackson Wang solo songs, including 200 Ways.
And maybe Pandora suggesting that song, too.

2026-07-01 19:25:48 UTC

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thank you for this practical advice. 🙂

2026-07-01 17:23:27 UTC

I need a knowledgeable person to explain to me what the challenges are for installing solar panels on the vertical side of my house instead of the roof.
I understand the structure and angle of using an existing roof as the basis for solar panel installation is easiest. But, the south side of our home cooks in the sun all year round and is not shaded, so it would be the better choice, sun exposure wise, for us.
What structural considerations/additions do we need to know?
#solar #solarPanels

2026-07-01 14:25:01 UTC

#GetFediHired #MNastodon #Minnesota
Are you or is someone you know located in Minnesota and looking for a job as a software developer? Come join my team!
This role is for someone newer to the software development industry who knows C#/C++/C/.Net. Our office is located in Saint Cloud.
Message me for the job application link!

2026-06-27 14:26:31 UTC

Knowing Jackson, he was probably all for it, but what Harper's Bazaar fashion editor APPROVED the idea of "let's have Jackson Wang sitting on a toilet"?! 🤣
I *do* like his red hair, though. And the corner with pictures of so many of his life moments.
https://www.instagram.com/p/DaE48NQka-N/?img_index=2
#JacksonWang
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2026-06-25 15:54:24 UTC

How to nerd-snipe a Jill:
Give me a brand-themed PPT template that isn't really a template and then an architecture slide that has a decade-old company branding style that I need to give to an external consultant.
Take mostly good architecture slide, remove usable but old company branding theme, cobble together a new brand theme, apply that to the slide, and then modify slide details.
I have, like, 4 different PPTX documents open plus our branding standards PDF.
For ONE (1) slide.

2026-06-17 13:43:44 UTC

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You know I've got the #FountainPen fascination down bad when I see a character use a capped pen with a nib and I immediately wonder whay kind of fountain pen it is. 🧐
#cdrama #HereWeMeetAgain

2026-06-17 01:26:05 UTC

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#cdrama #HereWeMeetAgain
I am literally CACKLING right now! The one girl Zhong Ling keeps "accidentally" killing off Xiang Yuan's player - who is on the same team! - to force her to go on a romantic movie date with some other guy. So Xu Yanshi decides to "accidentally" kill off the Zhong Ling's character. 🤣🤣🤣 "Sorry. I made a mistake." 😇

2026-06-16 17:42:29 UTC

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Grandpa says he won't give her any financial help, yet sets her up with free rent in a luxury condo? 🤔
#cdrama #HereWeMeetAgain

2026-06-16 03:12:53 UTC

I needed another modern #cdrama to watch and somehow had #HereWeMeetAgain on my Viki watch list.
It has K.O. from #LoveO2O as the ML! And their industry is satnav! 🤓 Bonus winding mountain switchback roads and pretty Xi'an cityscapes.
K.O. was gay in Love O2O but not gay in this one. There is a different gay man in this one - a coworker.
(I thought the K.O. storyline was sweet, honestly.)

2026-06-07 17:02:25 UTC

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that sounds like a lot of fun! What inks did you get?

2026-05-02 04:58:58 UTC

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Oops I accidentally ordered an &TEAM lightstick.

2026-05-02 04:38:21 UTC

No hats, but I think these outfits definitely qualify as #KPopCowboys
(I am tentatively thinking EJ is my bias? Maybe.)
&TEAM 'Run Wild' @ BUZZ RHYTHM 02
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42Q3kcjsIAE
#kpop #jpop #andTeam #엔팀

2026-04-25 17:45:53 UTC

I've been using my new Pilot Prera #FountainPen I bought in Seoul and like it a lot so far, as I figure out how to fill the barrel.
With the piston/plunger design, at first I could only fill the barrel up 30% with ink, as the rest seemed to be air. I made a little bit of a mess as I tried different ways to get just the air out. Now I can fill it up about 75% with ink, which is progress!
https://NerdJoy.social/@JillsJoy/116396379762023522

2026-04-25 02:06:00 UTC

I know the animated cells are a turn off for some, but I am rewatching the first two seasons of the #kdrama #YumisCells in preparation for the new 3rd season.
Ahn Bo-Hyun is still my favorite. The outfit he wears on their blind date? Cute!
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2026-04-06 13:40:54 UTC

After a week of scritchy-scratching with a standard ball point pen, getting to be home and using my smooth flowing #FountainPen is DIVINE.

2026-01-25 20:21:49 UTC

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yes and no. The deciding factor for me was supporting queer women professional sports. Fascists hate that.

2026-01-25 20:01:04 UTC

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During the moment of silence, a chant of "ICE OUT NOW" roared through the crowd about 50 times.
#MNastodon #PWHL MIN vs NYC
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2026-01-25 19:32:09 UTC

Usually the hall around the arena is bustling, full of positive, excited energy. Today it is quiet, subdued, and about as exciting as the airport terminal near the end of the day.
We are a fanbase in mourning.
#MNastodon #PWHL MIN vs NYC #hizzackySeason

2025-11-04 02:16:17 UTC

Who woulda think that baby long-necked turtles would ALSO have long necks? 😁
CUTE LITTLE TORT TORTS
[@sister_ratched](https://toot.community/@sister_ratched ) https://toot.community/@sister_ratched/115488717155511411

2025-10-27 14:14:32 UTC

This weekend, I cleaned my fountain pen for the first time. I finally used up all of the tiny 3ml ink bottles I purchased with it.
This morning meant New Ink Day!
Spouse got me a 5 pack of 30ml Wearingeul ink and I opened one up today: Architecture Infinite Cube.
https://www.wearingeul.com/ink/?idx=218
And now my hands look like murder. 😅
It is a dark enough red that it could read as blood. And, of course, I got it all over my hands while refilling my pen.
#FountainPens

2025-10-03 13:41:50 UTC

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For more sharp-shooting, there is the #cdrama #HelloTheSharpShooter
Another #kdrama movie would be #Dream about a soccer/futbol team for homeless men, starring Park Seo-jun, who is good at being a leader of underdogs, like in #ItaewonClass and #Hwarang
#StudyGroup is a violent but full of heart underdog kdrama
The movie #Boston1947 stars Yim Siwan as an Olympic runner
#TwentyFiveTwentyOne is about Olympic fencing (loved it!)
Movie #MyAnnoyingBrother : blind Paralympic Judo

2025-10-03 13:15:12 UTC

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Have you seen the #kdrama #LikeFlowersInSand about the Korean sport ssireum? I loved it.
There is a #jdrama about Sumo wrestling called #SumoDoSumoDont that's on Disney, I believe, that is also a good underdog series.
And not sports, but a good underdog movie is #SpaceSweepers on Netflix.

2025-09-25 12:50:47 UTC

I still can't believe this happened yesterday, but it did.
We needed to know the end-of-support date for a layer in our tech stack.
Me: *goes to vendor's website and finds specific date for specific version*
Executive 1: *asks AI to confirm*
Executive 2: *asks same AI to confirm*
Me: You DOUBT me? I went to the vendor's site! You should know better!
Them: well, this AI gives us a link to its source.
Me: :blobcatoutage:

2025-09-11 13:59:59 UTC

I am slowly working my way through that first batch of sample inks (3ml jars) I bought with my first fountain pen and I'm really enjoying writing with this one. It is smooth, doesn't seem to clog up the nib or dry too fast, and is a pretty yet subtle hue.
Taccia Ukiyo-e Ink Hiroshige-Nakamurasaki (Red Purple) 40 ml
https://smrutipens.com/all-products/taccia-ukiyo-e-ink-hiroshige-nakamurasaki-red-purple-40-ml/
Here's a review about it that shows the ink in action:
https://www.inkyinspirations.com/inkreviews/taccia-ukiyoe-nakamurasaki
#FountainPens

2025-09-08 13:53:56 UTC

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Hank convinced me to watch it at the beginning of the year and it is RIVETING the whole way through. I was rarely bored.
I recommended it as a "compelling historical":
https://NerdJoy.social/@JillsJoy/114376310824100223
My watch thread starts here:
https://NerdJoy.social/@JillsJoy/113864265062009322

2025-09-05 14:29:20 UTC

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have you found a good replacement for Google Maps? I use it for directions and also to look up restaurants and hotels

2025-08-27 18:12:00 UTC

Ok, I have thoughtfully added one (1) fountain pen to my collection, so I now have only two (2) at this time.
In my defense, this one is beautiful rainbow anodized metal on the outside :sparkles_pride:
It is so pretty and tiny. You screw the cap onto the back of the body of the pen in order for it to be long enough to fit in your hand.
#FountainPens
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2025-08-15 12:37:53 UTC

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I really wanted Good Boy Kim Seon-ho to get the girl...

2025-08-10 13:12:55 UTC

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naming things is the hardest part

2025-06-23 14:44:31 UTC

Huh. I never thought about customizing my own fountain pen!
I love the precision with how they applied the stickers evenly spaced. And the matching ink! 😍
I have a sheet of teeny tiny cat face stickers. I wonder if I'd enjoy them on the pen or if I would ADHD pick at the stickers instead...
#FountainPens
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2025-04-16 12:58:13 UTC

My life is immeasurably better for the trans folks in it.
The beautiful, messy, smart, hilarious, feral, smart-ass, dumb ass, genuine, big-hearted trans humans in my life.
We all are who we say we are. No one else gets to define us, cis or trans.
:heart_trans: :trans_heart: :heart_transgender:

2025-04-04 14:44:15 UTC

My first little ink pot I've used for my new #FountainPen is this gorgeous teal-green. 😍
Now, if I can just figure out how to refill the converter without getting ink on all my fingers! 😅
Wearingeul Yi Sang Literature Ink - 13 Children (Green) - 30 ml
https://smrutipens.com/wearingeul/wearingeul-yi-sang-literature-ink-13-children-green-30-ml/

2025-03-07 03:58:01 UTC

#3GoodThings
* my spouse talking about how much laughter there is in our house. He didn't have that growing up. But our kid does.
* sunshine and snow
* internet friends I've never met in my life who think of me and share things specifically for me

2025-02-14 17:47:37 UTC

Happy Native Hawaiians Stab Captain Cook Day to all who celebrate!
https://eigenmagic.net/@NewtonMark/114001143266187224

2025-02-05 04:30:38 UTC

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I think my #kpop song of the year would have to be "Work" by ATEEZ.
So many great albums and songs this past year, by many different artists that i know and love more than ATEEZ, but that song just came out of nowhere, is catchy, great music video, and captured fans who never noticed kpop before.
#SOTY2024 #ATEEZ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGnOpZhsPk4

2025-01-29 15:57:02 UTC

Iggy Pop's "The Passenger" popped up on my playlist this morning and it fits today.
Iggy Pop - The Passenger (Official Video)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fWw7FE9tTo
#IggyPop

2025-01-22 22:50:27 UTC

Trying to schedule meetings next week with folks in Asia and then realizing it is Lunar New Year right smack in the middle. 😐

2025-01-11 19:23:04 UTC

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perfect photo of a nuthatch! My mom likes to call them "ass-ups" because they are always upside-down/ass up. 😅

2025-01-03 03:00:25 UTC

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"half a decade"
😬

2025-01-01 19:37:29 UTC

#Introduction remake for 2025
I have deep, varying interests and post frequently. I currently love:
* music! #kpop stars #EXO, especially D.O. #도경수 #디오 #DohKyungsoo and #SUHO #수호 , plus #SHINee #끼 Key and #ONEW #온유
* #kdrama, #cdrama, #ThaiDrama, and #TaiwaneseDrama
* learning! I am a #LanguageLearner
* #hockey! #PWHL and local junior hockey league games
* #Unschooling my kid
I'm here to learn, share joys, and make connections with people.

2024-12-06 03:30:21 UTC

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has @npub1prs…eh8y seen this?

2024-11-22 21:49:04 UTC

The newest End of the Year Drama Challenge calendar is out!
https://bsky.app/profile/anniedelavoye.bsky.social/post/3lbkq5zeybc2w
#EndOfYearDramaChallenge #EYDC2024
#kdrama #cdrama #ThaiDrama #jdrama #TaiwaneseDrama
@npub1ktu…0uwl @npub1gsm…sjlf
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2024-11-13 16:37:47 UTC

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NGL, as i look out at the raindrops falling on the Mississippi this morning, I wondered if it would've or should've been snow.
😔

2024-11-07 18:17:44 UTC

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is the cover illustrated by ND Stevenson? It looks very much like his work...

2024-11-02 00:44:50 UTC

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I've heard really good things about Santa Fe, New Mexico. :) a fun art-filled creative community

2024-10-28 22:03:22 UTC

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Boost excellent praise for my favorite actress Kim Tae-Ri? Don't mind if I do...

2024-10-24 17:29:39 UTC

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hi hi hi! 😄

2024-10-13 18:08:09 UTC

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Yes!
I saw A.C.E in July (small venue) and ATEEZ in August (arena). I enjoyed both! Very friendly fans at both, too. Not knowing much about either group before their shows, I didn't feel like an outsider or unwelcome at all.

2024-09-14 20:08:41 UTC

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CORNER GAS

2024-09-12 15:00:08 UTC

Watching an interview with Erin Brockovich and they ask her, "how do you combat stereotypes and gender inequality?"
I want MEN to be asked that question. Women have been asked it eleventy million times.
ASK THE MEN.

2024-09-06 20:22:16 UTC

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bwahahaha that expression on his face!

2024-09-04 21:37:31 UTC

Omg I figured out how to get YouTube previews to work for me!
I saw that @npub1rrd…jp2s posted a link and I could see the preview, so I had to test again.
These two posts LOOK like they have the same link, but I added "www" ahead of "youtube.com" and THAT one shows a preview now!
🎉🎉🎉
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2024-08-08 12:51:28 UTC

This week's #ThursdayFiveList: 5 songs about loneliness, solitude, being out of the way. Physically and/or metaphorically. #TheLoneliness
pH-1 - Homebody
https://youtu.be/fdMiq-0mi3M
Eric Nam - I Wish I Wasn't Me
https://youtu.be/V-wK_H94B1M
DPR Ian - Scaredy Cat
https://youtu.be/J0rmycJSPAE
Harry Styles - To Be So Lonely
https://youtu.be/NuqrEJzuuqE
Woosung - Modern Life
https://youtu.be/YVcBR_CCxms
#pH1 #EricNam #DPR_Ian #HarryStyles #Woosung

2024-08-04 13:00:05 UTC

This handsomest prancing boy is SIX years old today. 😍
He loves apples and chasing chipmunks and hunting bunnies and walkies. He can be a grumpy old man dog who doesn't like to share. He won't eat if he doesn't want to and he prefers to poop in other people's yards. He knows when people call him handsome.
His breed is a Jindo mix and he actually flew from South Korea to Chicago when he was 4 months old as a rescue. He had meningitis as a puppy, so his balance isn't quite right.
I love him.
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