josh susser

not your typical neuron.
de gustibus non est disputandum.
black lives matter. trans people are people.
pronoun: he.
d.e.i.

#ActuallyAutistic #autistic #ADHD #AuDHD #neurodivergent #neurodiversity
#queer #SciFi #StarTrek #webdev #RubyProgramming #pastafarian #NoBots

Location: San Francisco, CA, USA
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GitHub: https://github.com/joshsusser

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2026-05-05 21:35:31 UTC

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And we have a #HangTrek winner! In the 5th round of this game, @npub1sm7…v54w correctly guessed
PEACE AND LONG LIFE
which is occasionally the canonical response to "Live Long and Prosper".
Congrats, kboyd. You can run the next game or nominate another to do so.
#HangTrekSolved

2026-05-05 17:50:14 UTC

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Morale Officer's log, supplemental: It's time for another round of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
Give Lt. Sulu a promotion. Another direct hit! L won the poll and there are two Ls!
We are looking for a phrase with 4 words.
_ E _ _ E / _ N _ / L _ N _ / L _ _ E
Wrong guesses: T
This poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies. All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Scroll up to see the rules and past rounds of this game. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.

2026-05-04 17:28:51 UTC

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Morale Officer's log, supplemental: It's time for another round of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
Direct hit! N won the poll and there are two Ns!
We are looking for a phrase with 4 words.
_ E _ _ E / _ N _ / _ _ N _ / _ _ _ E
Wrong guesses: T
This poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies. All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Scroll up to see the rules and past rounds of this game. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.

2026-05-03 16:28:37 UTC

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Morale Officer's log, supplemental: It's time for another round of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
Direct hit! E won the poll and there are three Es!
We are looking for a phrase with 4 words.
_ E _ _ E / _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ E
Wrong guesses: T
This poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies. All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Scroll up to see the rules and past rounds of this game. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.

2026-05-02 16:24:02 UTC

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Red Alert! It's time for a new round of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
Oh no, we couldn't get a target lock and the last guess missed! There are no Ts!
Better recalibrate sensors and try again.
We are looking for a phrase with 4 words.
_ _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _
Wrong guesses: T
This poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies. All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Scroll up to see the rules and past rounds of this game. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.

2026-05-01 16:21:45 UTC

Hailing frequencies open! Welcome to a new game of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
We are looking for a phrase with 4 words.
_ _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _
Wrong guesses: none
The poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.
Rules are at https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2026-05-01 16:00:47 UTC

Happy Beltane!
I do enjoy hearing this little ditty to celebrate the day as I've done all my life, but I only just realized, for being an award-winning musical, Camelot really had no choreography to speak of. And here we have Gwen indolently lounging about when she could be dancing. What creativity! Who would think to have the main character in a musical number laying around on the grass immobile for half the number?
https://youtu.be/7IQ2y3oGCZQ

2026-05-01 00:25:40 UTC

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my autocorrect and i had a disagreement about how to spell a nonsense word, oops!

2026-05-01 00:03:36 UTC

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THEY SHENANED ONCE, THEY'LL SHENAN AGAIN!

2026-02-18 23:13:19 UTC

Orbital AI datacenters is a terrible idea. But don't just take it from me - YouTube science nerd and neurodivergent thunder god Kyle Hill explains why the physics and economics make no sense. Like, no sense at all.
https://youtu.be/-w6G7VEwNq0

2026-02-17 01:37:02 UTC

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Congratulations to [@darth_hideout](https://mas.to/@darth_hideout ) for their correct answer of
ALMOND BASKET
https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Almond_Basket
#HangTrek #HangTrekSolved

2026-02-17 01:25:47 UTC

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Greetings Earthlings, it's time for round 4 of this game of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
We are looking for a phrase with 2 words, both 6 letters.
The winner of round 3 was N, and there is one N.
_ L _ _ N _ / _ _ _ _ E _
Wrong guesses: none
The poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.
Rules are at https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2026-02-16 00:40:24 UTC

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Greetings Earthlings, it's time for round 3 of this game of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
We are looking for a phrase with 2 words, both 6 letters.
The winner of round 2 was L, and there is one L.
_ L _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ E _
Wrong guesses: none
The poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.
Rules are at https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2026-02-14 23:22:55 UTC

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Greetings Earthlings! It's time for another round of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
We are looking for a phrase with 2 words, both 6 letters.
_ _ _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ E _
Wrong guesses: none
The poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.
Rules are at https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2026-02-14 17:50:36 UTC

I have hated Valentine's Day for as long as I can remember, all the way back to grade school and those stupid card exchanges where you find out just how unpopular you really are. I have never had a sweetheart on this day, so it's always felt like the day that everyone who was lucky enough to find love rubs it in the face of everyone who is not so lucky. "Look at us! We are the most fortunate people on Earth to have found true love. Let's have a special day just for us, the people who already have the best thing ever, and make sure the people who don't have it feel an extra dose of missing out on top of the baseline despair of being alone and unloved." It's fucking barbaric. #ActuallyAutistic

2026-02-13 23:05:00 UTC

Welcome a new game of #HangTrek, a #StarTrek word puzzle.
We are looking for a phrase with 2 words, both 6 letters.
_ _ _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ _ _
Wrong guesses: none
The poll will run 24 hours.
Words and phrases are drawn from any and all Star Trek shows and movies.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. The winner gets to run the next game if they want to.
Rules are at https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2026-02-09 23:55:46 UTC

"This thing that is destroying the economy, the environment, and democratic society is good for me personally" is not the ethical justification you think it is.

2026-01-22 19:07:03 UTC

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I do not understand the motivation to tell the world you don't like something many other people like, and for entirely stupid reasons. I reject your thesis that actors owe anyone access to their private lives (unless they are found to be criminal somehow). If that is inconsistent with our current institution of celebrity and our cultural obsession with famous people's private business, then we should try to fix that. Your beef with this show is a beef with the entire romance genre. If you can't understand that fiction is sometimes escapist and doesn't have to reflect reality in every way, well, then I guess that's why you don't appreciate a good romance. But if you want to try to impress us that you are so much smarter than people who like HR, well, have fun with that. This show has done more to promote acceptance of gay love than anything I've seen in years and it's foolish to rag on it for not doing it the way you wanted it to.

2025-12-29 18:41:07 UTC

I need an alternative to gmail. What's a good option for hosting email that supports custom domains? Paid service is preferred to ad supported. Easy import from gmail would be nice.

2025-12-07 19:36:39 UTC

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We have a #HangTrek winner. @npub1x6v…5rxz correctly answered
DILITHIUM ARTICULATION FRAME
Feel free to run the next game, Dave.
#HangTrekSolved
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2025-12-06 22:57:36 UTC

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#HangTrek to players: It's time for round 5.
R was the winning letter for round 4. There are 2 Rs!
We are looking for 3 words.
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ / A R _ _ C _ _ A _ _ O _ / _ R A _ _
Wrong guesses: (none)
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows and movies.
Hint: I'm really tired of quotations so I avoid them myself.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
This poll will go for 24 hours.
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-12-05 22:46:30 UTC

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#HangTrek to players: It's time for round 4.
A was the winning letter for round 3. There are 3 As!
We are looking for 3 words.
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ / A _ _ _ C _ _ A _ _ O _ / _ _ A _ _
Wrong guesses: (none)
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows and movies.
Hint: I'm really tired of quotations so I avoid them myself.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
This poll will go for 24 hours.
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-12-04 22:21:03 UTC

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#HangTrek to players: It's time for round 3.
C was the winning letter for round 2. There is 1 C!
We are looking for 3 words.
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ C _ _ _ _ _ O _ / _ _ _ _ _
Wrong guesses: (none)
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows and movies.
Hint: I'm really tired of quotations so I avoid them myself.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
This poll will go for 24 hours.
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-12-03 22:08:30 UTC

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#HangTrek to players: It's time for round 2.
O was the winning letter for round 1. There is 1 O!
We are looking for 3 words.
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ O _ / _ _ _ _ _
Wrong guesses: (none)
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows and movies.
Hint: I'm really tired of quotations so I avoid them myself.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
This poll will go for 24 hours.
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-12-02 22:00:54 UTC

Greetings, Earthlings. It's time for a new game of #HangTrek
We are looking for 3 words.
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ _
wrong guesses: (none)
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows and movies.
Hint: I'm really tired of quotations so I avoid them myself.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
The first poll will go for 24 hours.
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-11-14 16:17:56 UTC

Society: Be yourself.
Autistic person: Hello, I exist.
Society: No, not like that.
#ActuallyAutistic

2025-11-09 17:32:47 UTC

ADHD is when you get totally excited for getting a new blank notebook to write in, then open a drawer to put it in and find the other 7 blank notebooks you already had but forgot about.

2025-11-02 16:50:28 UTC

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And we have a winner for this game of #HangTrek
[@darth_hideout](https://mas.to/@darth_hideout ) deduced the answer:
HOW MUCH FOR JUST THE PLANET?
Over to you, Darth...
https://autistics.life/system/media_attachments/files/115/481/116/378/807/191/original/98e13de0d309f611.jpg

2025-11-02 16:17:36 UTC

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#HangTrek to players: It's time for round 4.
I and R were tied for the winning letter for round 3. There are no Is but 1 R!
We are looking for 6 words in the form of a question:
H _ _ / _ _ _ H / _ _ R / _ _ _ T / T H _ / _ _ _ _ _ T ?
Wrong guesses: I
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows, movies, and licensed media ;-)
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
This poll will last 24 hours. (We're on a Pacific STANDARD Time morning schedule.)
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-11-01 16:04:34 UTC

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#HangTrek to players: It's time for round 3.
H was the winning letter for round 2. There are 3 Hs!
We are looking for 6 words in the form of a question:
H _ _ / _ _ _ H / _ _ _ / _ _ _ T / T H _ / _ _ _ _ _ T ?
No wrong guesses yet.
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows, movies, and licensed media ;-)
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
This poll will last 24 hours. (We're on a Pacific Time morning schedule now.)
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-10-31 15:45:02 UTC

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#HangTrek to players: It's time for round 2.
T was the winning letter for round 1. There are 3 Ts!
We are looking for 6 words in the form of a question:
_ _ _ / _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ / _ _ _ T / T _ _ / _ _ _ _ _ T ?
No wrong guesses yet.
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows, movies, and licensed media ;-)
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
This poll will last 24 hours. (We're on a Pacific Time morning schedule now.)
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-10-30 06:15:37 UTC

Greetings, Earthlings. It's time for another game of #HangTrek
We are looking for 6 words in the form of a question:
_ _ _ / _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ / _ _ _ / _ _ _ _ _ _ ?
The rules are here: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
Words and phrases are from Star Trek shows, movies, and licensed media ;-)
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess.
The first poll will go for 24 hours.
Live long and prosper! #StarTrek #Puzzles

2025-10-24 17:08:40 UTC

In retrospect, it was probably a mistake to let IBM continue to exist after discovering their collusion with the Nazi government. We should have set an example, because no company seems to expect to suffer any consequences for collaborating with MAGA.

2025-10-20 16:05:42 UTC

It sounds like Trump is going to block SNAP benefits (food stamps) from being paid out in November, using the excuse of the government shut-down. If you know anyone on SNAP and can afford to help them out, this might be a good time to offer some support. I'll miss the money but I'm in no danger of going hungry myself, so don't worry about me.
We're all going to have to get better at looking out for each other to make it through this autocratic mess, so maybe this is a good time for us to practice some of that. If nothing else, donate to a food bank – they are really struggling right now.

2025-10-10 18:36:48 UTC

The whole way I thought about being #neurodivergent changed when I realized that neurotypical didn't mean normal or healthy, and wasn't the baseline from which other, inferior neurotypes diverged. It's just another neurotype that happens to be the most common one, so it dominates and almost always gets its way.
As a queer person who grew up in straight society, it was easy for me to understand that one type being more common means nothing about it being better than another. Start from there, and it's easier to see our differences as just differences, instead of seeing differences as deficits or impairments.
#ActuallyAutistic

2025-09-24 19:25:24 UTC

Seeing that some villains are trying to take the T out of LGBT so trans people get erased and ignored. You know that the word "queer" is right there and it includes all of us perverts and freaks, right? We tried hard to get queer to happen, but the straight folk didn't like it so they call us LGBT, like we're simply a list of approved aberrations. And a lot of us queer folk have submitted to this linguistic oppression. I am sad every time I hear a queer person say "LGBT" or "LGBTQIA+" or whatever, because that's accepting the oppressor's language for us. Queer is a good word because it includes everyone who isn't part of the sexual majority. It is inclusive by default and by definition.
For anyone who thinks "queer" is a slur so they prefer "gay" because it's not a slur, I'll point out that only a couple decades ago "gay" was a slur and we said "homosexual" to be polite. Language evolves. Embrace "queer" and avoid having to figure out what groups deserve to be part of an abbreviation.

2025-09-24 16:20:38 UTC

No, that's not how the autism spectrum works.
> Autism is a spectrum, and yes, on one end of that spectrum it can be debilitating and both those with autism and their caretakers need and deserve support. On the other end? Normal fucking people with jobs and hobbies and families...
While there is a colloquial use of the word *spectrum* to mean a scale from a little to a lot, the "autism spectrum" is a technical term in the field of psychology, so it doesn't mean that. In optics, a spectrum is a breakdown of light into its component colors. It's the rainbow you see when you pass a beam of light through a prism. And similarly, the autism spectrum is how we decompose autism into a set of autistic traits.
The autism spectrum is not a scale from low-functioning to high-functioning. There are autistic people who are socially awkward and stim a lot, and those that are fine socially but have a lot of sensory issues. That's what the spectrum means. And "profound autism" is not a thing, either.
Autistic people darkly joke that we're either seen as low-functioning so we get no agency, or we're high-functioning and get no support. Bullshit functioning labels do not help us – they only help people figure out the easiest way to ignore us and our needs.
Whenever autism becomes the main character, a lot of people will jump into the conversation only to show how ignorant they are. Keep in mind that even people who purport to know about autism generally have very little idea what they are talking about. Be skeptical of allistic people who think they are smart about autism. Dunning-Kruger comes for everyone.
#ActuallyAutistic #autism #autistic

2025-08-20 04:02:58 UTC

gods give me the confidence of a neurotypical man explaining autism to an autistic person

2025-07-31 15:48:37 UTC

Meelo loves his transom window. Not sure if it's because of the fresh air or how it lets him look down on his lessers. #CatsOfMastodon
https://autistics.life/system/media_attachments/files/114/948/631/064/118/936/original/6c51d9464e09ace7.jpeg

2025-06-15 01:22:52 UTC

I'm so tickled to see posts from all these folks who have never been to a protest before today, and their delight as they discovered what it's all about. If we believe the Alt National Park Service estimates, there were over 7 million protesters today, so we probably activated a couple million new activists. And once activated, people tend to stay active. Consider today a sea change moment for the USA. Things are going to be a little different from now on. #NoKings

2025-06-03 16:25:00 UTC

I want a competing philosophy meme because I'm tired of the Trolley Problem. The ethical conundrums of our age seem to be less about when we get to exercise power over others, and more about how to compete with others to avoid harm in a rigged system.
I'm thinking about the Outrun The Bear Problem. (probably needs a more catchy name. Pursuit Bear Problem?) It's based on that old joke that if a bear is chasing you and a companion, you don't need to be faster than the bear, but just have to be faster than your companion. The conundrum is this: Is it ethical to outrun your companion so the bear catches them instead of you? And what about variations? Is it ethical to do something to slow your companion down? What if you could cooperate to have a 50% chance of both of you escaping but there's a 50% chance the bear gets both of you? I think this could be just as rich a thought experiment as the Trolley Problem, and perhaps more applicable to our current social issues.
#philosophy #TrolleyProblem

2025-04-15 15:53:48 UTC

I have been autistically online for nearly a decade now, and I have never seen the Autistic community as worked up over something as we are about RFKjr's looming fascist bullshit. He obviously wants to use us to push his antivax nonsense, and at the same time he wants to do a eugenics and eliminate us from the population. This is a Red Alert. Glad to see folks aren't being quiet about it, but it's also scary to see everyone as freaked out as I am.
#ActuallyAutistic

2025-02-26 21:28:41 UTC

Happy Llama Dress Day!
https://autistics.life/system/media_attachments/files/114/072/310/154/745/367/original/f316731ae84263aa.jpeg

2025-01-30 04:07:54 UTC

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Paul Wesley as James Kirk is really growing on me. I could watch a show with him in the chair.

2025-01-25 19:37:03 UTC

In case it's not clear, when a sociopath explains away bad behavior by saying it was "just a joke", they don't mean they were making a joke to be funny. These so-called jokes are a test to see who is in-group and who isn't. If you think it's a good joke, you're part of their group. If you don't think it's a good joke, you're their enemy.
This is why their humor sucks. They're not making jokes to be funny, but to weed out the people who don't think they're funny.

2025-01-24 18:31:51 UTC

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I liked the new hair better! Disappointed we didn't get to see Virgil give someone an electric handshake, tho.

2025-01-22 17:53:48 UTC

The most basic protip for using the internet:
Do not write a big chunk of text in a browser input field.
Compose your writing in another app where you can save your progress and have better editing tools. And then when you click the Submit button and there's an error and you lose the text in the form, you still have what you wrote in the other app.

2025-01-21 17:01:54 UTC

As much as I value most of the work of the ACLU, I wish they would get off their high horse about why they think it's important to defend the speech rights of Nazis. Some misguided fools seem to think that there is no line that can be drawn for what speech must protected and what should not. Well, nothing Nazis say is in good faith or should be protected. Nazis can eat shit and die, and nobody needs to hear a single thing they want to say.
And even though I respect most of what the ACLU does, the Nazi Dinner Rule[1] still applies. Until these fools stop fighting to defend the rights of Nazis to parade down Main Street in full uniform, they're just another kind of enabler, and I want nothing to do with them.
This is part of how we have to fight fascism. Nobody gets a pass for enabling fascists. Nobody's work is so important that they need to accept fascism to advance their goals.
[1] Nazi Dinner Rule says that if you're at a dinner party and one of the guests is a Nazi and you don't kick them out, then it's a Nazi dinner party. Nobody puts up with Nazis except other Nazis.

2025-01-21 06:40:08 UTC

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The winner of the previous #HangTrek poll was O with 38%, and there are two Os.
Looking for a 3-word noun phrase with 9, 8, and 4 letters.
This is poll 6. No wrong guesses yet. And so many twofers! Freebie: There are no Qs.
_ E N _ O R I _ N _ O R _ _ I _ _ _ E _ _
This poll will run 12 hours.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. Winner gets to host the next round, or nominate someone else to host it.
Rules for HangTrek: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2025-01-20 17:47:15 UTC

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The winner of the previous #HangTrek poll was I with 39%, and there are two Is.
Looking for a 3-word noun phrase with 9, 8, and 4 letters.
This is poll 5. No wrong guesses yet. You all are so smart! Freebie: There are no Qs.
_ E N _ _ R I _ N _ _ R _ _ I _ _ _ E _ _
This poll will run 12 hours.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. Winner gets to host the next round, or nominate someone else to host it.
Rules for HangTrek: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2025-01-20 05:40:24 UTC

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The winner of the previous #HangTrek poll was R with 41%, and there are two Rs.
Looking for a 3-word noun phrase with 9, 8, and 4 letters.
This is poll 4. No wrong guesses yet. Freebie: There are no Qs.
_ E N _ _ R _ _ N _ _ R _ _ _ _ _ _ E _ _
This poll will run 12 hours.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. Winner gets to host the next round, or nominate someone else to host it.
Rules for HangTrek: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2025-01-19 17:33:16 UTC

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The winner of the previous #HangTrek poll was N with 45%, and there are two Ns.
Looking for a 3-word noun phrase with 9, 8, and 4 letters.
This is poll 3. No wrong guesses yet. Freebie: There are no Qs.
_ E N _ _ _ _ _ N _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ E _ _
This poll will run 12 hours.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. Winner gets to host the next round, or nominate someone else to host it.
Rules for HangTrek: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2025-01-19 05:28:43 UTC

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The winner of the previous #HangTrek poll was E with 50%, and there are two Es.
Looking for a 3-word noun phrase with 9, 8, and 4 letters.
This is poll 2. No wrong guesses. Freebie: There are no Qs.
_ E _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ E _ _
This poll will run 12 hours.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. Winner gets to host the next round, or nominate someone else to host it.
Rules for HangTrek: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2025-01-18 17:14:01 UTC

@npub17zn…z5e5 Grab your tricorder and buckle on your life-support belt, it's time for another round of #HangTrek!
Looking for a 3-word noun phrase with 9, 8, and 4 letters.
This is poll 1. No wrong guesses. Freebie: There are no Qs.
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
This poll will run 12 hours.
All are welcome to vote and guess at any time. Others may appreciate a CW when you guess. Winner gets to host the next round, or nominate someone else to host it.
Rules for HangTrek: https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075

2024-11-27 17:26:16 UTC

If there's one thing I would convey to future generations about the troubled times we are living through, it's how utterly fucking stupid all of this feels. None of it makes sense. It's like human civilization decided to destroy itself out of spite.

2024-11-14 04:10:26 UTC

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an 8 hour poll option would be pretty useful, eh?

2024-10-06 17:43:45 UTC

I think the reason allistic people hate #autistic #RelatableStories is that they are bad at them.
When we do relatable stories, it's to show we have shared experiences, to reassure that we understand what we're being told, and maybe even as a kind of emotional co-regulation. I really find it soothing when I'm upset about something and an autistic friend shares their own similar experience, even if they don't have a solution for me at the end. And sharing a RS can be hard, and can require making yourself vulnerable to disclose things that feel very personal, and even that can be a kindness to show someone you care about them enough to do that for them.
Allistics complain that relatable stories are just us always wanting to make everything about ourselves and monopolize the conversation, or that we're insensitive to what others go through, or that we're oversharing. It seems they think it's always easier to talk about yourself, when for us that may be the hardest thing to talk about. Or they think that sharing a RS is some kind of one-upping competitive thing, or a way to trvialize or dismiss what someone just told you. After some consideration, I have come to believe that's mostly projection, and that for them, that's what they are doing when they do their version of RS. So for them, it really is a rude thing, because it's rude to make everything about yourself or to seem insensitive to someone else's experience.
The #DoubleEmpathyProblem is the bane of my existence. Ironically, it seems autistic people grok the concept quickly and almost intuitively, but allistic people never seem to understand how deep and profound the communication gap really is. But if I could get everyone to understand just one thing about autism, it would be that.
#ActuallyAutistic

2024-10-06 03:28:43 UTC

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those flour sifters with a hand crank are a nice fidget and make a very satisfying sound when the arm scrapes against the screen

2024-10-02 16:19:09 UTC

It's not just that I think LLMs and so-called "generative" AI produce unreliable, erroneous, or even dangerous output. It's not just that it uses energy at rates that are screwing with decarbonization efforts and could ruin any chance we have at fighting climate change. It's not just that it is always based on uncompensated appropriation (i.e. "theft") of human creativity and is basically a plagiarism laundering machine.
It's that when someone uses AI, I assume they know these things, but don't care.
I understand that there are valid use cases for AI, but I don't believe the current LLM tech is good enough even without the big downsides. But there's a new Gold Rush and all the tech investors want to make some fortunes, so they will push this crap on everyone until we are all lost in a fog of bullshit explanations and creepy, homogenized art.
If I see a post that uses AI generated art, I won't read the post. If someone posts something "from ChatGPT" I will ignore it entirely. If it wasn't worth your time to write it, it's not worth my time to read it, and I won't willingly participate in the rise of such a dangerous, wasteful, and unethical technology.

2024-09-28 02:25:03 UTC

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bemused

2024-09-26 16:48:44 UTC

My #ActuallyAutistic shower thought for the morning: Most NT folk think that accepting and including ND folk means being patient while we learn to fit into the NT norms, not making space for other norms to co-exist. They think their way is normal, healthy, and proper, so it's only natural for everyone else to adapt and conform. This is the mindset we have to change. We need space to be ourselves, not constant pressure to change into something we are not and never can be, and punishment and exclusion when we fail at that.

2024-09-25 16:27:14 UTC

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I have been using the word "neurosupremacy" for a while. I think it does a better job of capturing the extreme power imbalance and abusively oppressive nature of things than a simple -ism does. Similar terms seen: the Stimpunks Foundation uses the word "neurocentrism", and recently YouTuber ProudlyAutistic coined "neuroism". I think there's room for more than one term because there are subtle differences, but also I'd like to see some convergence.

2024-09-16 21:07:31 UTC

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you said 6 but there are 5 blanks for word 2. which is the typo?

2024-09-14 15:55:45 UTC

Meelo and Mickey are doing a special collab today to wish you a very happy #Caturday
https://autistics.life/system/media_attachments/files/113/136/719/756/307/819/original/c6d6579f6cc00efc.jpeg

2024-09-13 07:20:22 UTC

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#HangTrek, poll 3.
The previous poll's winner is "L" with 45%, but there is no "L".
Wrong letters: L
Looking for 1 word, 10 letters long.
_ _ _ _ _ O _ _ _ _
You can find the rules and previous Hang Treks here:
https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
This is poll 3 and will run for 12 hours.

2024-09-12 23:48:48 UTC

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#HangTrek, round 2.
We have a tie between "O" and "R", both at 33%, but "O" was in the lead most of the time so we'll go with that for the tie-breaker. And look at that, there is 1 "O" in the word!
Looking for 1 word, 10 letters long.
_ _ _ _ _ O _ _ _ _
You can find the rules and previous Hang Treks here:
https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
This is the 2nd round and will run for 6 hours.

2024-09-12 17:13:26 UTC

Hey, it's my first time running a #HangTrek, so prime the anti-matter injectors and buckle up...
Looking for 1 word, 10 letters long.
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
You can find the rules and previous Hang Treks here:
https://mastodon.social/@chrysomeles/112461799676962075
This is the first round and will run for 6 hours.

2024-09-03 17:31:41 UTC

When someone finally sees the light, don't punch them in the face for not seeing it sooner.

2024-09-02 18:54:24 UTC

Meelo's favorite spot to hang out during daylight hours is on top of this box tucked next to a doorway. #CatsOfMastodon
https://autistics.life/system/media_attachments/files/113/069/474/469/985/484/original/d3608d58f718d5fd.jpeg

2024-08-30 15:50:57 UTC

We simply should not let people become so rich that their personal issues become society's problems.