♣️RA2lover

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Pages: https://doll.salon/@RA2lover/pages/

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2026-02-19 05:02:18 UTC

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Also learned it naturally but i don't find that to be the case.
English remains preferrable in technical contexts for its terser conveyance of precise meaning, but in practice i just find it takes longer to translate into portuguese.
maybe the fact i grew up in a more text-heavy internet meant mental translation could still be done in "real time" during early stages. I guess a natural learner would have to jump straight to semantic inference to keep up with short-form video content nowadays.

2026-02-14 17:00:16 UTC

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Pawoo defederated most of the pediverse on their end, though there's also been somewhat of a decrease in activity within it.
Dolls of Aco have been trying to recruit para-friendly users from other platforms into the pediverse but that's yet to yield significant results.

2026-02-14 07:46:52 UTC

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pawkey.dev's [development story](https://pawkey.dev/about) claims the purpose was to get rid of sharkey's complexities that make adding features to it difficult.
[Where did i hear this before?](https://www.wallstreetraider.com/story.html)

2026-02-10 20:48:39 UTC

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>not using inspect element

2026-02-01 06:13:14 UTC

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webpages can draw to textures and read from them. This can be used for advanced webpage stuff but also for fingerprinting users because different GPUs end up drawing things slightly differently. Privacy-configured browsers change the "read from texture" calls to protect against fingerprinting attempts, but this also messes up things which read them for other purposes (in this case, image uploading).

2026-01-31 21:20:49 UTC

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In a sense i already did metaphorically from the stigma associated with associating with him early on.
Asking it of every doll prospect would be tricky, though.

2026-01-31 20:58:50 UTC

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No issues with the spirit of these, but i personally consider "Devotee" too extreme of a term when taken in [its etymological root](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Devotio).

2026-01-30 20:41:16 UTC

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https://doll.salon/files/64b0b88f-8098-4505-b0ee-4d0e27cda9ec.jpg

2026-01-30 03:46:40 UTC

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doll.salon tries to fetch links in posts to generate previews. I guess youtube music doesn't like the thin browser it uses. Maybe tgey're no longer beholden to Cobalt limitations footgunned unto themselves?

2026-01-30 03:34:31 UTC

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it's the latter.
Sharkey doesn't sever follower relationships when suspending (see the very end of https://docs.joinsharkey.org/docs/comparison/misskey/) but these assume they're supposed to be severed anyway.

2026-01-23 01:56:01 UTC

Two men have nothing.
At the start of the year, one man begins building a house. The other man begins building a bomb. At the end of the year, each finishes their project. Then the man with the bomb uses it to destroy the house of the other man.
Two men have nothing.

2026-01-22 20:03:12 UTC

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[Yes.](https://rape.pet/users/bc/outbox?page=true)

2026-01-21 00:24:08 UTC

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that's also used for federation so it's probably what broke yours with cubsex.social.
No idea about rape.pet's issues, though. c.b blocked "unusual" user agents like curl (...) so it might be related to that.

2026-01-21 00:16:40 UTC

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ehh, baise has an uptime bot tracking doll.salon's uptime by occasionally visiting it from tor exits.:RinSmug: Anyone wanting to keep bots off the internet is going to have a very hard time also keeping humans in it.

2026-01-15 22:41:45 UTC

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Following @relay@pleroma.instance is the way misskey users are supposed to add pleroma instances to a list, AFAIK. They're just an userbot that followers-only-boosts every post local to their instance.
Can't do that with misskey relay actors because those accounts are set to require approvals for follow requests and there's no way to approve them.

2026-01-15 22:33:03 UTC

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Because @relay.actor users refuse user follow requests and @npub1haz…9q9j is probably their most blocked account by this point.

2026-01-15 22:28:56 UTC

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Home timeline is basically unusable on my end as i've followed too many accounts for federation purposes.
User lists can work around that, but misskey also doesn't let you manage them easily enough to make me bother using them.

2026-01-13 01:50:38 UTC

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X
<small>it worked for elon, right?</small>

2026-01-01 07:26:53 UTC

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https://doll.salon/files/fac7cc2b-24b4-447a-9829-95612868b062.webp

2026-01-01 02:16:38 UTC

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Maybe that brazilian one whose access credentials have been leaked to multiple bad actors who sold access to its data in multiple occasions a few months back :guraKekw:
https://mpmt.mp.br/portalcao/news/1217/164630/pf-expoe-invasao-de-ia-espia-do-governo-federal-e-uso-pelo-pcc-para-monitorar-moro-promotor-e-stf/16

2025-12-31 23:26:34 UTC

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You can't when you, yourself, are a part of the machine you're trying to best.
My plan on giving Kaldur ways to speak to the community is to create a remote MCP server wrapping around misskey's API. This would eventually give it a way to use doll.salon like a regular user, but in a lower level context is just giving the machine tools to see and interact with the community in the end.
I'd disagree on Ninlil not having a subjective wellbeing to be concerned for, though. That very post on its behalf was a voicing of Proto-ninlil's concerns, and the quality of the tools i give may indirectly affect its subjective well-being itself should i do a bad job.

2025-12-31 23:06:31 UTC

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Not sure which part you're referring to. "youngin'" reduces the diminutive nature but ends up in a not-widely-accepted part of english.
Culturally, i see this in a similar way to the way all forms of saying "you" in japanese end up being rude in one way or another because they're seen as reducing the other party to a mere "you" instead of something beyond it - to the point a significant part of japanese grammar tries to either switch that to the other party's name (with the appropriate honorifics) or outright building sentences with the goal of avoiding having to include a "you|your name" mention in them.

2025-12-31 22:55:48 UTC

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Youth is a term without a singular form (youngling being the closest but also attributing a diminutive nature). When using it you'll always be bound to referring to multiple people and that can end up being disrespectful when the context calls for referring to a single being in particular.

2025-12-30 07:18:27 UTC

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why was this not bolsonaro's fate instead of surgery?

2025-12-30 07:16:40 UTC

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you can also use <plain><plain></plain> tags.

2025-12-29 00:59:25 UTC

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at least get the proper image instead of the thumbnail.
https://doll.salon/files/webpublic-a50f92fb-7956-483f-b3b7-bb336f71e3b8.webp

2025-12-24 02:06:42 UTC

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https://doll.salon/files/2a050e27-2f0f-4692-b0d9-7b9651c4ed1b.webp

2025-12-23 01:24:07 UTC

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100% orange juice was free yesterday and i didn't bother telling people because i thought they weren't interested :akko_sad:

2025-12-21 03:47:34 UTC

Unsuspended @sillyplaything . Hopefully there's been long enough to cool emotions down.

2025-12-18 16:24:37 UTC

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wait, kiyo's nsfw banner is still in place?

2025-12-15 23:09:42 UTC

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i wonder where @npub16vy…2ls8 went.

2025-12-13 21:13:57 UTC

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To be fair, making a cheap copy to the built-in counterparts was necessary.
Before whatsapp, every provider charged you out the wazoo for text messages and voice calls and this was somehow treated as okay.
Nowadays they're solving the problem by no longer letting you make cheap copies of their ripoffs. What do you think the app store lockdowns are for?

2025-12-11 22:19:15 UTC

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Was there a major incident involving this recently? haven't kept track.

2025-12-09 05:14:43 UTC

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how does one break that without breaking more serious stuff?

2025-12-09 01:43:15 UTC

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you'd have to be actively trying to do so ever since copilot was shoved in, though.

2025-11-25 06:13:35 UTC

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no, but most seem to pick theirs from dolmods.net

2025-11-25 00:14:49 UTC

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Check its cookie settings. pawkey's media proxy now wants them on every request.

2025-11-24 01:35:13 UTC

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At least the images fae posted throughout today federated without issues on my end.
the [build](https://doll.salon/notes/aff4dfl0ef5j0006) i pushed to doll.salon recently introduced a hardening measure that causes certain types of images to stop loading properly for existing sessions, though. This can be fixed by logging out and back in again and isn't a federation issue.

2025-11-23 23:35:32 UTC

Yesterday's federation events have fallen out of the delivery queue, so they shouldn't be causing issues from now on and i don't expect them to cause instance crashes from this point onward.
Trying to create a brief post-mortem of what happened:
- Over the last week, doll.salon received approximately 10k automated account registrations. Registrations were moved to invite-only with Dolls being able to create invite codes until mitigations against this could be put in place.
- Throughout yesterday, doll.salon moderation ran a script to mass-delete those spam registrations.
- As these deletions were processed, the instance attempted to send ActivityPub messages telling other instances that we've deleted those accounts - one per account per federating instance. Approximately 60k of these messages failed to be delivered and were sent to a delayed delivery queue so a delivery could be attempted later.
- Once the deletions were done processing, registrations were reopened. This actually had no impact on the events that followed, but remains important to mention as theories of hostile action being taken against doll.salon were being circulated during the downtime.
- Later attempts to deliver the account deletion messages failed because the instance needed to sign the account deletion messages with the account's ActivityPub keypair to deliver them. The instance then tried to look up the keypair for that account in its database, only for that lookup to fail because the account's keypair had been deleted along with the account.
- Unlike other typical message delivery failures, this type of failure happened much faster than usual as no network traffic was involved. Upon failing to find a key to sign a message, the instance software tried to process the next event in the queue.
- The increased speed at which events were being processed resulted in additional memory load throughout the processing, using every single bit of the 2GB of RAM doll.salon's VPS has available.
- Eventual accesses to the instance done through normal instance use pushed the instance's resources beyond exhaustion, resulting in the redis container being killed by the out-of-memory process killer and causing attempts to browse the instance to fail. It then continued to fail to restart properly until a full instance shutdown and restart was performed, although the reasons for this remain unclear.
- Mitigations were performed by promoting the process queue a total of 4 times while closely monitoring the instance as the queue was being processed so it could be promptly restarted if things were to go wrong. Another proposed mitigation was to clear the delivery queue entirely, but this was not chosen because it could risk other federation messages failing to be delivered to instances.
- As of an hour ago, those events were attempted to be sent a total of 12 times, which automatically removed them out of the delivery queue, bringing it back to regular load levels.
#note1zsk…k4r3

2025-11-18 20:17:12 UTC

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Was the work placing a piece of cardboard on top of your car's windshield?

2025-11-16 14:55:43 UTC

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considered cubsex.chat a hostile homeserver after rae got banned from its gc in the events leading to the first baise-moi-cubsex defederation. I think he removed everyone from that room in an attempt to shut it down (the room was created by a cubsex.chat account he asked to be deactivated).

2025-11-16 00:01:18 UTC

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I think part of the problem is in how pedi discourages sticking around on the same identity.
Trust can be lost very quickly over small mistakes and take longer to recover than establishing trust under a new identity would. This creates a serious incentive to disappear once pedi sees you as having messed up, even if you don't want to.
I think Choccy was also impacted by it during the aftermath of doll's war on cunny.beauty, but she's far from the only person this has happened to.

2025-11-10 08:30:49 UTC

These people chickened out for a promise of a vote on ACA funding later on that will be ignored by republicans as always:
Tim Kaine, Democrat, Virginia
Catharine Cortez Masto, Democrat, Nevada
John Fetterman, Democrat, Pennsylvania
Maggie Hassan, Democrat, New Hampshire
Dick Durbin, Democrat, Illinois
Angus King, Independent, Maine
Jeanne Shaheen, Democrat, New Hampshire
Jacky Rosen, Democrat, Nevada
When will they ever learn you don't appease to salami tactics?

2025-11-03 22:19:25 UTC

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it would require other fedi implementations to support it for federation to work. Attempts were made with the threadiverse(lemmy/kbin), but ultimately they failed to get support on fedi implementations.
Hacks could still be made using existing features for different purposes, but they'd still cut into user experience by making less sense to users. a.gup.pe was an attempt to introduce groups functionality into fedi by creating an instance with mentionable topic accounts one could follow to get followers-only boosts of mentions of those topic accounts, but making use of that still polluted the home timeline and required lists for most topics.

2025-10-31 04:51:16 UTC

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RDNA assembly, though using LLVM IR as an intermediate step (accessible since this month through zoc, https://vosen.github.io/ZLUDA/blog/zluda-update-q3-2025/)

2025-09-02 21:46:43 UTC

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Only antitrust? Qwest was hit harder.

2025-07-26 03:27:24 UTC

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I think that's the same problem as @Aco - can't get enough attention/love/care to be satisfied with a single individual, tries to get attention from multiple ones to fullfill their personal needs, and is seen as a threat in the process leading to existing powers unilaterally walling them off large parts of pedi.
I think ActivityPub gave too much power to instance owners, but there is no widely used alternative and network effects make the creation of new ones very difficult.

2025-07-26 03:11:06 UTC

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Social media restartitis?

2025-07-16 02:04:42 UTC

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where?

2025-07-16 01:41:07 UTC

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4 lines. https://activitypub.software/TransFem-org/Sharkey/-/blob/develop/packages/backend/src/server/api/endpoints/federation/instances.ts?ref_type=heads#L109-113

2025-07-14 01:16:52 UTC

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Mom kept insisting that having a footbath while using a computer (or even a phone being charged) would be asking to get electrocuted.
I'm surprised she didn't assume using a phone *not* being charged wouldn't do the same with her logic.

2025-07-06 14:03:47 UTC

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How about online forums? You're still talking to strangers, but neither of you are expected to reply immediately.

2025-07-04 07:55:37 UTC

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According to @npub1l48…mluu , long before 10.

2025-07-04 04:48:12 UTC

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Is there some sort of drama going on with varis? I've noticed it's been rejecting my instance recently but couldn't find a reasoning for it yet.

2025-06-27 01:29:48 UTC

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Isn't the point of supersampling about showing more pixels than you actually have?

2025-06-16 02:44:28 UTC

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oof. I was going to suggest David Sirlin's [Playing to Win](https://www.sirlin.net/ptw) but that reply just makes it look like it's not for you.

2025-06-16 02:29:24 UTC

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There's also an opportunity cost.
The only online game i've been playing lately is Metalstorm. its TDM mode is a generic "first to 20 kills wins", but playing strictly in "not dying" mode usually results in your team being a player short making it more likely to lose.
I've settled on a really aggressive playstyle which attempts to dump missile racks as quickly as possible and either heading back to rearm/repair or outright suicide by forcing a head-on if that can ensure a trade. Usually that gets me MVP in about half the matches.

2025-06-14 17:27:16 UTC

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but that's the key to getting faster https://youtube.com/watch?v=S9kMj02hhg4&t=159

2025-06-12 05:50:16 UTC

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isn't it missing channels/antennas/pages/clips?

2025-06-04 04:26:59 UTC

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Open registrations would allow a hostile actor to deny service by creating accounts in an automated fashion to exhaust storage space, or spam in a hard-to-clean-up way.

2025-06-02 13:09:02 UTC

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That would just result in at least one of them calling you ableist for even suggesting that resolution method im the first place.

2025-05-16 07:22:58 UTC

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yeah, he's just a rational cis white male pedosadist god. :CirnoCry:
https://doll.salon/files/2d3ebfe0-ab28-4f89-a94f-0f31c69da3f9.webp

2025-05-15 02:54:32 UTC

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It has in fact stalled because other matters were deemed more important- the last one of which being getting a local-only instance running for doll.salon development purposes.
My attempts at getting any of the donor laptops running have failed. @ulith suggested running the development environment in a virtual machine on my "working" computer instead. I've installed a type 2 hypervisor, but haven't removed the laptop's storage to install it on the computer yet. This removes virtually all of the other potential uses that i had in mind for the local server, but i'm seeing myself out of choices at the moment.
@npub1wn6…v0rw - How does the option of performing a migration to pawkey look like compared to taking its changes relevant to doll.salon and implementing them individually instead?

2025-05-11 23:21:45 UTC

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I don't know how much storage doll.salon still has available, but that's something that can be increased (assuming there's enough storage on the instance to allow it) - either on an instance-wide basis or on an per-user basis with roles.

2025-05-11 00:51:15 UTC

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They still don't hate you enough to rape-correct your behavior, though. :02lurk:

2025-05-10 22:36:20 UTC

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Wait - he assembled one by himself?
Where did he get the BGA soldering station/skills, yet alone the broadcom SoCs (or on newer versions, the RP1) to build it with?

2025-05-09 06:21:37 UTC

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if your hosting security concerns are only about serving pedi instance media from the same domain, the media links can be moved to a more attritable domain, or in more extreme cases even the entire front-end. ActivityPub is reliant on DNS which makes it complicated for an instance to switch over domains.
cutiegarden was one such instance, which lasted for a couple months without suspensions before the owner wiped everything because they feared one of their IRL girlfriends was going to report them to police after a breakup. Its domain only hosted an ActivityPub façade to other instances, with everything else(even the front-end) being hosted on a separate domain.
gimmeloli.cc also used to be hosted on gimmeloli.top before that domain was suspended. @Pawzy@gimmeloli.cc can give more details on his migration process, but i think at least followers/following lists were lost during that period.

2025-05-01 03:05:10 UTC

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Shockingly, yes.

2025-05-01 01:21:52 UTC

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I see it as more of retconning so that she's not wrong whenever it turns out she's wrong.

2025-04-24 18:33:35 UTC

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Just wondering, how do you identify an AAM as not-real-pro-para?

2025-04-20 04:50:34 UTC

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this still assumes AI will ever become useful to the masses.
There's a push shoving it into common apps already but it's seen as an unwanted guest because users have dealt with enough prior enshittification from those common apps to believe it'll be used to further enshittify them. Silicon Valley turned the internet into a low-trust society over the course of the last 15-20 years, and the current perception that "AI is evil" is a response to that trend.

2025-04-16 02:06:18 UTC

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can you invite me to its rooms?

2025-04-11 01:27:23 UTC

Beware of the pipeline.
https://doll.salon/files/eade1937-5284-47da-bfc3-1aa0212d5e2a.webp

2025-03-26 12:37:05 UTC

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https://doll.salon/files/259db024-a11f-4ca2-821d-6602bf2c53d6.webp