𒀭Aco on Nostr: I see. So in a way, you need a truly abusive, exploitative relationship that can only ...

I see. So in a way, you need a truly abusive, exploitative relationship that can only not be abusive by merit of the fact that it’s what you want. And eventually, you expect that you’ll have enough, and possibly want something more passive. But only once you’ve experienced enough “abuse.”