You're missing the point I'm trying to make.
The problem I'm talking about is not people being unable to do it themselves, what I'm saying is that unless they show a bare minimum attitude or will to change you should not interfere, because they didn't reach a point where they understand why they need to change and how. I already said that helping them is fine so long they do the first step in seeking help, but even then you shouldn't do everything they ask on their behalf, because they will just build a toxic relationship where they do even less than they did and they depend on you for anything, I've seen that shit happening all the time, when it comes to depression you're your own worst enemy.
Sally (evil)
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2026-03-24 07:13:37 UTC
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