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Artemis on Nostr: It's not really as kind as it first may seem to just form an unspoken group agreement ...

It's not really as kind as it first may seem to just form an unspoken group agreement to just put up with a behavior that is hurtful to us because it's easier than having a hard conversation.

Would she be happy to know that we all just create this bubble around her, where we try to kind of "manage" her & "keep her happy"? Doubtful. I don't think that would do anything to soothe the feelings of exclusion.

The only inclusionary thing I can think of to do is actually have the talk about it.