> From a general standpoint normies can use a lightning node exposed to the clear web and be fine. The more paranoid (like yourself) can self-host and use Tor or I2P to recieve lightning requests for invoices. You just need more expertise to be as paranoid as you are.
You are moving the goalpost here. We are talking about zaps. Precisely zero clients, to my knowledge, support a LN address that ends in .onion or .i2p.
Yes, you can use Lightning over Tor or i2p, but you cannot put an onion LN address in your Nostr profile. Not if you expect to receive any money, anyways.
