Anke on Nostr: On a lighter note, a question about a romance trope: Is the "two people see each ...

On a lighter note, a question about a romance trope: Is the "two people see each other for the first time and immediately think 'whoa, that one is hot'' and then they get together later" a trope that romance writers expect their readers have to suspend disbelief for, or is that how romance works for a significant portion of humanity?