I'm sorry you're hurt by this. I mean edge cases re the most unhinged screamers etc. To have something happen to you doesn't mean it's everywhere. I think we should separate sex from gender. Obv grandchildren can be adopted. People have always dealt with choices not to have kids, infertility and being gay. Trans isn't special in this case. My MAGA gay friend adopted.
If you don't mind me asking...
when did she decide this? One friend says it was as soon as his child could speak.