humanadverb on Nostr: I keep hearing my own therapist chiding me, "why are you working do hard to make ...

I keep hearing my own therapist chiding me, "why are you working do hard to make excuses for other people to treat you poorly?"

Which is a thing I do because it helps me maintain positive feelings towards people who treat me poorly and because it helps me navigate difficult conversations more gracefully.

But I to still hear her point and am working on it...