The way Dutch LGB people tends to treat both Trans rights & Pride really, really, really comes across as "we got our rights, now we don't care". If you push, then "you" are the problem and should "doen normaal". The hypocrazy and lack of self-awareness at times is mind-boggling.
What we're asking for, is to not be excluded from a literal guaranteed right under Dutch law. (GAC)
No more, no less.