It can't be fun to be her in this either. I doubt it feels good when the carefree energy leaves the room.
I think she envies what she perceives as the effortless connection between other people, but when she tries to get us to perform it with her, it's more forced & less energetic.
I'm pretty sure she feels it, & that has to suck. Feeling left out & then feeling like when you try to be included, you can't.
She needs healing. This has got to hurt.