Daniel Reeders

I'm a queer and nonbinary person with disability. (Here are my pronouns: they/them; here are my acronyms: #AuDHD, #BP2, #CPTSD). I am sweary and acerbic and occasionally need to remind myself to assume positive intent. I am moderately techie but prefer not to have #FOSS projects recommended to me out of the blue unless you've really taken the time to understand my requirements.

Pronouns: They/them
Gender and sexuality: Queer
Country: Unceded Gadigal lands
Support my PhD research: https://ko-fi.com/danielreeders

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2026-06-10 11:46:18 UTC

Just got a letter from hospital saying I need further follow-up because they found a bug in my urine when I was in with kidney infection. And... yup, we knew that, that's why you put me on three antibiotics?? If this advice means 'oops, your isolate showed susceptibility to none of them,' I'm royally fucked.

2026-05-16 04:56:41 UTC

Now this is a foodie clip with the kind of detail, analysis and intensity I really want.
How chef Johnny Lee makes Hainan Chicken Rice.
https://www.facebook.com/reel/861278597000546
He finishes the steamed rice with rendered chicken fat!

2026-05-16 04:46:04 UTC

The way this made me DOUBLE TAKE.
https://www.facebook.com/reel/923799373347178

2026-05-14 22:03:52 UTC

Lee Lai is a nonbinary graphic novelist who just won the Stella Prize for 2026. She is queer, lives in Montréal, uses T, has a beautiful moustache, and uses she/her pronouns. I anticipate a certain amount of gender anxiety if not *outright unhingening* from the conservative press in the coming days/weeks.
https://www.comicsbeat.com/lee-lai-stella-prize/
Remember that almost nobody 'obeys the rules' when it comes to alignments of embodiment, identity, expression, desire, sex and relationships; HIV taught us that lesson and queer theory formalised it.
If you choose to weigh in, remember that gender conservatives are the most vindictive people on the planet; they will pursue you and doxx you. But weighing in is probably the right thing to do in support of an author who deserves respect for her accomplishments and human dignity.

2026-05-13 02:37:32 UTC

GREAT NEWS!!!
'Good character' evidence to be scrapped in sexual offences trials in NSW.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-05-13/good-character-references-abolished-for-sexual-offenders-nsw/106671928

2026-05-11 07:19:05 UTC

Not quite there. I lol'd so hard tho
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/116/554/716/419/714/223/original/d517d1fbbb91158b.jpg

2026-05-11 05:30:00 UTC

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Would probably do! On (no pun intended) the Book of Face?

2026-05-11 05:11:18 UTC

Friends, my lovely friend Ann had a fall and bonked a facial nerve causing facial palsy. Does anyone know a facial nerve specialist?

2026-05-11 03:25:56 UTC

Nope, just been admitted. Not sure why. The adventure continues. At least I'm not in ED waiting room.

2026-05-11 02:27:37 UTC

Ok I'm almost done. Kidney infection with downstairs involvement (owie). Ultrasound done and I'm just waiting for doc review. Cannot believe how sick it made me.

2026-05-10 21:49:36 UTC

Six years since one of my closest friends died in hospital and I lost it crying on my way into the hospital. The absolute last place I want to be right now.

2026-05-10 03:49:12 UTC

Ok, heading for discharge. They want to keep me overnight but I'll wind up manic if I spend the whole night in ED.

2026-05-10 00:14:47 UTC

Love to start my Sunday with an unplanned medical adventure. *sigh*

2026-05-09 01:57:42 UTC

Made it through the double anniversary day without crying. Woke up to a stonkingly gorgeous day today, cued up some mellow tunes, instant waterworks.

2026-05-02 11:41:12 UTC

Good evening. I barely slept last night so I went to bed at 4PM hoping to sleep through. Alas, it's coming up on 10PM and there's a family argument happening in the room next door that I can hear clearly through my earplugs. I gave up on sleep and got up to eat crispy puffed rice 'muesli' and read the entire Internet.

2026-04-30 06:23:58 UTC

I despise Elon Musk and I regret to advise I think he has a pretty solid case in Musk vs OpenAI. He put money into funding what he understood was a non-profit and subsequently refused to be bought off with equity when he arced up about Microsoft 'buying in.' The guy is a world-class, nay galaxy-sized cunt, but he's got Altman dead to rights: equity in a nonprofit is a misnomer.

2026-04-29 06:22:57 UTC

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Hmm, I don't understand the aged care system that well, but I think there's a smaller range of core services in aged care for which prices vary but they are known. Disability is insanely diverse!

2026-04-29 04:25:40 UTC

I wroted an article. Please reed.
https://insidestory.org.au/the-ndiss-original-sin/

2026-04-27 02:14:29 UTC

I've had an itch for a few weeks, wanting to write something readable but quite deeply technical about the 'original sin' of the NDIS scheme design — the decision a bunch of economists made to leave pricing to the markets to sort out, which leads to the kind of scheme inflation the Labor government is now saying it is forced to make hard decisions to rein in. The same Labor government that implemented a scheme without effective price constraints in the first place? Yeah, them, that mob. Those idiots.
I wasn't sure how the fuck I was ever going to find the two weeks I'd need to write it, and I was complaining to my aca group chat about it, and they said: fuck it, just write it. So I took an hour, bashed out 1200 words, and sent it off to a policy magazine to consider. 😅

2026-04-26 07:03:00 UTC

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gonna be proper leathery

2026-04-26 06:54:34 UTC

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Airfried is basically oven baked and that's gonna dry them out.. Panfried is cooked with water in the pan!

2026-04-26 06:30:43 UTC

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airfried!! That's gonna haunt my dreams. That would not smell good at all?

2026-04-26 04:52:20 UTC

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oh SAME. $11 for 12 dumplings in my Coles! owie owie — but that's two meals for me. I also use them in soup noodles which bulks them out quite a bit.

2026-04-26 03:09:56 UTC

How good are the Mr Chen dumplings available in the freezers at many supermarkets!? So good.

2026-04-25 08:06:13 UTC

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Gotta admit I worry a bit for your SIL. But you too. You deserve emotional security and stability.

2026-04-25 07:51:57 UTC

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Oh gosh, it's hard trying to provide care to someone when they are also unpredictably volcanic about things.

2026-04-24 02:44:24 UTC

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again, though, it's so vitriolically hostile to AI that it's a bit hard to interpret. my understanding is the word 'thousands' isn't in the data sheet because it was used by a stakeholder not Anthropic.

2026-04-22 00:49:18 UTC

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I agree strongly about vibe coding, especially when the results of vibe coding is (auto) submitted to repositories.

2026-04-22 00:33:01 UTC

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It's hard to interpret that critique because of the intensity of the AI anti-hype so many people are SO invested in. I think the specific claim being made is not that these vulnerabilities were impossible to find using existing tools, but the scale and speed are different.

2026-04-21 22:52:17 UTC

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But see also:
https://news.slashdot.org/story/26/04/21/2028206/mozilla-uses-anthropics-mythos-to-fix-271-bugs-in-firefox
I'm not saying this is the truth of AI use in software dev — they both are. Shit's more complex than the anti-hype allows.

2026-04-21 03:27:22 UTC

I think self-identifying SAHMs commenting on Asian food recipes might ACTUALLY KILL ME.
'Could I freeze the steamed egg?'

2026-04-19 03:26:55 UTC

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Look all decks should be delivered ristretto!!! I just about die when I turn up for 8-hour training days and the speaker is crawling through a Powerpoint reading out every word...

2026-04-19 03:09:45 UTC

13 slides for a 5 min rapidfire talk? Sure thing mate, just give me an extra double espresso and watch me go BRRRRRR

2026-04-18 02:30:16 UTC

I am 50% through a major cleaning chore! 😁
I have 50% of a major cleaning chore to go... 😩

2026-04-12 14:15:54 UTC

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I don't cook Nagi's dishes often but I respect the meticulous way in which she spells out the steps and logic of her recipes. I think she knows her audience really well and it shows; she doesn't talk down to them but she's definitely keen to build their confidence to try something a bit new, and I really appreciate that drive and desire to push the envelope of Aussie mainstream cuisine.
ADAM LIAW THO. AHAHAHA. I've only ever cooked two of his recipes. His SBS Food recipe for chicken kara-age (Japanese fried chicken) is very straightforward and the results are phenomenal. It's deep fried though which rules it out for everyday cooking. The other is his porridge recipe where he explicitly calls for 'an amount of butter that would make your cardiologist nervous' and yup that about sums it up 😆
I have interacted with him on twitter back in the day and while he presents as quite modest and charming on TV he was a world-class see you next Tuesday in person. He claimed having worked as a health department lawyer meant he knew best (better than Harold McGee or Kenji Lopez-Alt, just noting) about safe cooking temps for chicken. Completely missed my point that chicken cooked exactly to temp and no longer is usually flavourless and chewy; unless you're poaching chicken breast, there's no reason not to cook it until cooked.

2026-04-12 06:16:31 UTC

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Okay so I adore JBN, I love her approach to cooking, but she has a slight tendency to present small edits of other people's recipes as her own. And the ABC Food recipe is Deb Perel's chocolate olive oil cake for sure:
https://smittenkitchen.com/2017/10/chocolate-olive-oil-cake/
Deb doesn't fuck with buttermilk — she just calls for a tbsp of vinegar to activate the baking powder. But I admit to wondering if buttermilk adds depth of flavour. Hmm. Time to experiment!
Thank you for the tip on white wings GF flour — I shall give it a go! I used a Bob's Red Mill GF mix the last time I tried deglutenising this cake when I was living in Canada, and it came out rubbery 😨

2026-04-12 05:30:53 UTC

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Oh my goodness how rude! They hadn't actually specified they need a low FODMAP option? So they're getting angry at you over an exchange of information that only happened in their own head. *smdh*
Also I am still dying to know what flour or flour mix you use for that GF chocolate olive oil cake!

2026-04-12 04:23:19 UTC

Do I know anyone with a SatPaper subscription? I would LOVE to read this:
https://www.thesaturdaypaper.com.au/news/education/2026/04/11/exclusive-former-anu-vc-accused-serious-misconduct
ANU former VC Genevieve Bell stood down over 'serious misconduct' allegations relating to the promotion of photojournalist Andrew Meares to full professor despite him lacking academic qualifications for the role.

2026-04-12 04:18:48 UTC

Oh, lovely news: Justice Louise Taylor is being promoted to ACT Chief Magistrate. Lou was a fiery and hilarious presence in #auspol debates on twitter of yore (RIP). I am known to venture an opinion about the law, having studied law and regulation and governance for 20+ years, but in Lou's presence I kept my half-baked opinions to myself. Not just erudite but a razor wit.

2026-04-10 03:23:44 UTC

IT ME (with #autism; everything else is diagnosed).
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/116/378/263/425/234/001/original/aa1d839fc907fb1b.png

2026-04-08 21:49:13 UTC

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I took my sleeping pill and set an alarm for two hours later to accept the delivery and in the morning I discovered how I stack groceries when I'm basically unconscious 😂

2026-04-08 05:05:27 UTC

Ughhh Masto I have Big Anxiety Feels today and I have to stay awake to receive a parcel and a delivery from Coles so I can't even go sleep them off.

2026-04-03 05:16:03 UTC

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oh hope you both have/had delightful birthdays!

2026-04-03 05:14:39 UTC

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WIN!!!

2026-04-01 21:31:35 UTC

The brain is replaying the greatest hits for me. I thought for a second I was having another tachycardia episode but NOPE it's an actual goddamn panic attack about the dentist.

2026-04-01 02:50:06 UTC

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I had a breakdown on my bike in Canberra and had to put it on the bike rack to catch a bus back home. Most nerve-wracking thing I've ever done — with a whole busful of tired cranky commuters watching you just praying you don't make a hash of it! Amazingly I got it first time and the bus driver went 'good job' and I was like 'thanks dad' in my head (thank god I didn't say that out loud).

2026-04-01 02:06:26 UTC

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Ooft, that sounds exhausting. Those eye drops are so discombobulating!

2026-03-31 12:03:06 UTC

Oops. Another black eye for the microplastics-are-everywhere crowd: turns out standard latex and nitrile lab gloves shed stearates that show up as plastics on all but the most sensitive of tests. And this follows on from revelations that studies purporting to show microplastics found everywhere from the brain to the testes didn't calibrate their setups using standard reference materials, so we have no idea if the signal they picked up is actually true or false detection of plastic material.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2026/03/260329222938.htm

2026-03-27 23:04:44 UTC

Can anyone recommend a re-shipper from the United States to Australia? One you actually use.

2026-03-25 04:31:14 UTC

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It used to have a different shape for each row (maybe even each cell?) of the block, and that made it taste infinitely better. (It's definitely not taste refining with age, and increasing insulin resistance, making me say that.)

2026-03-25 04:09:36 UTC

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Snack?

2026-03-25 01:42:57 UTC

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Oh that's exciting!! The undisputed innovators in bath houses are Turkish and Korean folks and The Gays. Respectively specialising in getting steamed, getting preened and getting peened.

2026-03-24 06:47:01 UTC

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The only time I have ever enjoyed a cold shower, it was in the middle of a giant piping hot steam room.

2026-03-24 05:58:14 UTC

OK BUT WHY IS THIS SO ME
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/116/282/612/537/411/128/original/d5a9a7cb78ca4da2.png

2026-03-24 05:10:18 UTC

Holy god the mixing desk on this hybrid session have turned the gain and treble RIGHT UP so I'm hearing lots of sticky mouth noises PLUS the audio is clipping. For an autistic person with sensory issues this is such a punish. #Progress2026

2026-03-16 00:03:07 UTC

Friends, I am crowdfunding to help @npub12l7…gh7t reclaim her name without waiting years for her divorce to come through. If you are able to help out, your contribution will mean the world. 🙏
Details here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1E5JNP5DtSk4bUVmb3K1YRt-8QmEHbV_Hlhv66C7LZoE/edit?usp=drivesdk

2026-03-05 04:09:16 UTC

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I'm so glad you're giving yourself time off. You've been super busy! And holidays shouldn't feel like work.

2026-03-03 22:50:22 UTC

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ahaha I'd never heard that term before! You could not pay me to recommend a diaphragm to a client.

2026-03-03 22:00:13 UTC

Explainer of the 'Dutch method.' No, it's not going halves on condoms, which are provided free in the Netherlands. It is keeping your curtains open (or not even having them).
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/mar/03/dutch-method-improve-sleep-social-life

2026-03-03 07:19:03 UTC

Jackie O quits Kyle after 25 years.
She could put up with all his awful behaviour towards minorities so long as he never turned it on her.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-03-03/nsw-kyle-and-jackie-o-split-after-25-years-kiis-radio/106411512

2026-03-03 02:44:40 UTC

Research study into MAKING MASTODON BETTER!
https://decenteredsocial.info/2026/02/25/gcm-invite/
Researchers from Queensland University of Technology, are examining how emerging decentralised social media platforms assess and mitigate online harms. We would like to invite active participants (instance owners, moderators, creators, users, etc.) on decentralised social media platforms such as Mastodon, Bluesky, Pixelfed, Eurosky or similar, to take part in an asynchronous group brainstorming of the properties that make decentralised platforms safe and prosocial. This will be conducted using a secure online platform GroupWisdom, and will take approximately 45 to 90 minutes of your time.

2026-03-03 02:42:03 UTC

Okay if you wake up with terrible neck and upper back pain I am going out on a limb and recommending a pillow that might help.
https://www.amazon.com.au/UTTU-Pillow-Adjustable-Sandwich-CertiPUR-US/dp/B0CHJMS972?th=1
Downsides: it's expensive and only on sale in Australia via the Evil Empire.
Upsides:
I've had mine in daily use for six years and it's only just now beginning to lose a bit of height.
It is memory foam and very gently squishy so it accommodates your head weight and neck without feeling like you're sleeping on a phone book.
It's split into three layers so you can take one out if you're petite.
It's a cervical pillow so it's curved with one side about an inch higher than the other.
Experience of use: I use mine with a hybrid spring-and-memory-foam mattress. The mattress supports my hips while the pillow squishes enough to let my head and neck relax. This combination has more or less ended the pattern of crippling tension headaches I used to wake up with 1-2 mornings per week. So I am proselytising the pillow.

2026-03-01 05:44:33 UTC

Today in 'weirdest things that have made Daniel cry' part elebenty —
https://www.facebook.com/reel/692039206713667
This has a family resemblance to a strandebeest but doesn't give me the creeps

2026-02-22 21:28:13 UTC

A Facebook ad has just introduced me to a hitherto unsuspected category of menswear, the 'jersey crop polo.'
Now that is a fashion identity crisis.

2026-02-22 05:23:36 UTC

I don't mean to sound smug but I have chicken thigh cutlets marinading in soy, palm vinegar, garlic, bay leaves and peppercorns to make adobo.

2026-02-18 01:50:14 UTC

After four days of lo-sodium diet I cracked in a big way and made Buldak chicken ramyun.
It was so salty I feel high after eating it 😅 I am sweating and light-headed.
Gotta admit I don't understand the logic of the restriction — I don't have high blood pressure.

2026-02-17 04:50:36 UTC

Happy lunar new year, happy new jobs at my workplace, NAPWHA!
https://www.napwha.org.au
These are exciting new roles and I can't recommend this organisation highly enough — I have grown and thrived in my time there. Happy to answer the 'what it's like' questions (message me) and for anything role-specific I can put you in touch with someone.
https://www.ethicaljobs.com.au/members/napwa/communications-officer
https://www.ethicaljobs.com.au/members/napwa/projects-officer-1
https://www.ethicaljobs.com.au/members/napwa/digital-engagement-project-officer-remote-work-from-home
👆 Note that apart from occasional very clearly labelled toots like this one, my Mastodon activity does not in any way represent my work or my organisation.

2026-02-16 21:46:33 UTC

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I just bowled up to the shops and barrelled home and up the stairs and I am sweaty (cos unfit) BUT MA HEART IS NOT POUNDING this is yuge

2026-02-16 21:33:35 UTC

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bit schweddy tho

2026-02-16 02:59:23 UTC

It has come to my attention that my queer Chinese and Viet friends are using 'Pink Pony Club' by Chappell Roan as their unofficial anthem for the Year of the Horse. AHAHAHAHA is all I can say to that. HAAHAHAHA love your work.

2026-02-15 01:53:56 UTC

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'opportune snacker' ahahah this fits me too

2026-02-15 00:33:03 UTC

Morning toots. I slept as long as I hoped (18h!). I was warned to anticipate bp2 symptoms after surgery but I think I slept my way out of them. I am not doing so well at the controlled diet though. Food with very little salt is pretty gross.

2026-02-13 21:40:33 UTC

Going home!! Waiting for patient transport.

2026-02-13 05:44:40 UTC

I am craving salty ultra processed food.

2026-02-13 03:58:07 UTC

Spoke too soon. The Holter monitor is a heckin' SNITCH. Had some rhythm disturbances last night and I prob have to stay in for another night of zero sleep. I argued the dodgy rhythms are probably due to my bipolar meds and noted there was nothing unusual on the electrode picking up the left ventricle, where the procedure took place. Cardiologist had a look on her face like 'when did you learn to read an ECG you fucking lawyer?' She did agree that two nights of bad sleep will be suboptimal from a 'not winding up hypomanic' perspective.

2026-02-13 01:49:30 UTC

Morning peeps!
I slept badly and woke up chirpy so the OT yoinked me out of bed for a THREE HOUR rehab session.
Tiny bit of exercise but mostly education about avoiding accidental unplanned Valsalva manoeuvres e.g. heavy lifting, vomiting etc.
My Holter monitor readout is 'textbook.' I said I just hope it's not a pathology textbook.

2026-02-12 07:24:46 UTC

https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/116/056/459/765/241/089/original/96efceba1edaec89.mp4

2026-02-12 07:04:19 UTC

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Do Qld cops have noise abatement powers like the NSW ones do?

2026-02-12 07:03:07 UTC

I'm out. Everything went fine. I feel like I could sleep for days. Propofol is the good shit (unless you're Michael Jackson).

2026-02-12 01:40:11 UTC

Okay I am getting 'wrap it up' cues from the nursing station, I think this is it, time to get ready!
If all goes well I will be messaging you in 4-6 hours with a new heart valve in place.
*all me digits crossed*

2026-02-11 10:29:17 UTC

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Hey so... for the Caity Canberra Visit, if you're in the CBD around dinner time, may I recommend a resto to consider? It's called Terra and they do barbecue. I don't even like barbecue personally but this place is incredible. None of the blokey grilled/smoked meat nonsense. The roast chicken is where it's at: lightly charred, some herbs, some spices, juicy as hell. It's a bit upmarket in a non-fussy mod Oz way but if you stick to the basics it's still an affordable dinner.
I can also strongly recommend the Ethiopian place in the CBD (it moves around a bit, my last visit it was at New Acton). Healthy, delicious, generous servings and super affordable.

2026-02-10 23:03:14 UTC

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Ugh, the source I refer to has been rewritten and the citations have been stripped (GRRRR).
Here it is anyway: https://www.bhf.org.uk/informationsupport/heart-matters-magazine/medical/ask-the-experts/are-heart-attack-symptoms-different-for-men-and-women
I still interpret this through a feminist lens i.e. the medical establishment has been pushing the line that 'oh, women's heart attacks are easy to miss because their symptoms are so SUBTLE' when in fact women presenting with severe heart attack symptoms have been dismissed and ignored and have fucking died as a result of that.

2026-02-10 21:11:00 UTC

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on that... Not so much! Research has disproven. Will share when I'm deskside.

2026-01-24 03:56:20 UTC

Can you please help us out with a poll? Feel free to add further details in replies — especially keen to hear your thoughts on why you eat quickly/slowly and whether you think there's any connection or not with your neurodivergent status.

2026-01-22 02:00:51 UTC

Techies I have a question for you.
My ISP Aussie broadband was able to diagnose that the Ethernet connection from the NBN box to my Eero wifi router had changed from 1000 to 100mbps transmission *and they were able to fix that.* Not just by telling the boxes involved to restart — a 'hot' fix. How even?

2026-01-20 04:41:33 UTC

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Aha! I always assumed it was like... Extra-Tough String 😆

2026-01-20 01:08:43 UTC

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OOF. My goodness. Three days of people-ing and art-ing is a lot. Your twine looks vv tough and I never realised that's where twine comes from!

2026-01-13 11:22:44 UTC

I discovered Coles now stocks Yumi's dill pickle flavoured dip and I LOVE dill pickles so of course I bought it.
And eating it is *exactly* like dipping into a 250ml tub of Macca's Big Mac special sauce with crackers.
The first mouthful is 'wow okay intense,' the second is 'this might be too much' and the third is 'get this away from me.'
Now eating plain crackers to try and dilute the aftertaste.

2026-01-11 07:18:21 UTC

Hey fronds 🌿
My lovely friend @npub15kl…aa2d is approaching the PhD finish line and her earning capacity is a bit limited right now.
Maybe you could check out her Ko-Fi and pick out some zines and stickers? They are beautiful and thoughtful ecofuturist interventions that reflect SeaFury's talent as a designer and a scientist.
Here's the link: https://ko-fi.com/seafuryandpete/shop

2026-01-07 07:06:14 UTC

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She is a beauty, and it's lovely to hear from you!

2025-11-29 02:33:03 UTC

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May I ask who you're with? I love my fund Teachers Health and it's open to uni staff too.

2025-11-24 00:00:39 UTC

Given the messy emotional state I have been in it was lucky timing that I had therapy scheduled for today. It's EMDR which feels hella weird and kooky but it does seem to work to ground me in my bodily experience even as I'm thinking about painful recollections. Gone from feeling off the charts overwhelmed to a 1-2 on distress and I have a doable list of tasks for the house.

2025-11-19 09:28:33 UTC

Lovely friend @npub15kl…aa2d has missed a pay cycle due to an approver being off on sick leave. If you think that sucks and you'd like to help, check out the delightful zines and stickers in her shop:
https://ko-fi.com/seafuryandpete/shop
Help SeaFury keep her bird Pete in cashews!

2025-11-18 04:41:36 UTC

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yeah. thank you, this is advice I needed to hear.

2025-11-18 03:38:35 UTC

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back injury — pain rating
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/115/568/612/970/041/496/original/d762c0cf51ef20d4.jpg

2025-11-17 22:59:46 UTC

Okay, lying down worked okay as long as I didn't do anything that involved tilting my pelvis, such as... getting up again.
But I am up and seated for the workday and I have this burning pain across the top of my hip where the QL muscle (pictured) inserts onto the bone. It's only about 3-4 out of 10 pain but it has a really insistent quality.
Given the forces involved I would not be surprised if it has torn a bit. I've done this muscle before, albeit the opposite end of it, and it took foreeeever to heal up. 😖
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/115/567/497/949/629/385/original/bfe46d83e968cdee.jpg

2025-11-17 21:29:16 UTC

Just did my tax returns for this year and last. Our former finance officer was a [redacted] [redacted] [redacted] and he never once managed to calculate my correct tax rate. At least my tax debt from these two returns only came to $900 rather than the $4K I owed on the previous one. 😵‍💫

2025-11-16 22:55:03 UTC

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However I'd just done my back towelling off after a shower so I wasn't really playing along.
I was leaning right down and twisting from the lower back to towel off my left ankle and I heard this godalmightly crunch as a vertebra popped down near my coccyx. They are normally locked together under a ton of pressure from the weight of my upper body.
As that lumbar spine joint popped my back muscles transferred the load of all that weight onto other muscles, i.e. my hip flexors, and they got a godalmighty yank and are now complaining mightily about it. I can stand up okay but not sit, and I'm going to try lying down now.

2025-11-16 22:51:06 UTC

The bus driver hit on me and I'm still chucking about it.
First he negged my outfit as I was getting on, then he made light conversation, finally he asked if I had time for coffee as I was getting off.
I don't get hit on much these days, let alone in public spaces, and I found the whole thing charming. It could have been icky and gross but the driver kept it light hearted.

2025-11-15 22:20:22 UTC

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yaaas well done you 🌸