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2025-12-13 21:03:41 UTC

Hello! This week I've removed my first album from Spotify (and every other streaming platform it was on, thanks DistroKid??) - and while we wait for it to be re-published on every platform except Spotify..
You can listen to it here:
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2025-06-24 14:00:21 UTC

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#FreeMusic #MusicDownload #AmbientIndustrial #ExperimentalElectronicMusic #DarkAmbient #PowerNoise #IDM #EDM #CinematicMusic #WomenInMusic

2023-10-16 16:13:35 UTC

Has anyone else seen this film? It was one of my favorites, many years ago.
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102328/

2023-10-09 18:54:16 UTC

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@npub1m36…ermh oh no. lol oh no. hahahahaha

2023-09-21 15:40:43 UTC

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@npub12tz…72pn beards, i'm coming to find out, are like makeup contouring for the masc set.
first glance tho, what you got to worry about? nothin? it is a good face. you like what you like on yourself, of course.
grabby pinchy fingies on facial hair may one day win. ;)

2023-09-20 13:44:36 UTC

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No, I am not going to alt text this. No, I do not need it boosted.
This is the screenshot of what I said. As you can see, the player is online. I will let you know if there is a response.
I hate people, and would love to eat this person's entire head like a mantis. I hope the restraint is evident in my tone.
https://s3.us-east-005.backblazeb2.com/musicianstoday/media_attachments/files/111/097/758/254/937/004/original/1e4a8508fb0a49ab.jpg
https://s3.us-east-005.backblazeb2.com/musicianstoday/media_attachments/files/111/097/758/392/356/639/original/29a2dbefff7257a9.jpg

2023-09-19 13:13:01 UTC

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Doctor telephone lines used to have answering machines.

2023-09-18 10:01:34 UTC

If you're a dude, and don't find Russell Brand unambiguously sexually threatening, manipulative, obsessive, and aggressive... is it because you are like that too, or because you wish you were? Or is it because you are not his type of chosen prey animal?
Just asking, because the clarity on who he is did not seem to reach you the same way it did others.
He tells you who he is repeatedly, ad nauseum, in his humor writing and constant running of the mouth in interviews.
Believe him.

2023-09-18 09:36:55 UTC

I love being asked to tell someone something really painful, and after many paragraphs, all they can muster in response is an unrelated Instagram video.
I knew it was a waste to bother.
It is a matter of principle though.. someone tries a guilt trip as defense against being told they are uninterested and selfish. I demonstrated even in this example, they still are.

2023-09-15 20:09:25 UTC

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@npub1y4h…elr2 i like Live up to a point of mixing. But for real finalizing I use ProTools. Live is a super useful tool for me using MIDI. There are lots of VSTs for me to work with for Live but are more expensive and imo, less accessibly useful on ProTools.

2023-09-15 19:42:28 UTC

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@npub1ymh…geqx omfg do it

2023-09-15 19:29:20 UTC

Uplifting and strong..
https://youtu.be/_4GvpNakBAM

2023-09-15 17:18:53 UTC

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@npub1yr3…nrs8 it ain't great.
So instead of teaching jobs, I am trying to get in at a music store where I will be paid beans. I hope at least it comes through, so I can try to learn stuff on the job. If no one is willing to take me on, I have to keep trying anyway. If not directly, indirectly.
Tenacity, friend. Tenacity.

2023-09-15 17:16:26 UTC

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@npub1fql…nma7 completely ignored by somebody else inbetween their career levels too.. all gatekeeping my progress because of being unable to see past my being a pretty woman. Whichever part of it got in the way first does not matter, pretty.. woman.. either way.
They can't think of me as a colleague, no matter if I overachieve.
Are not musicians supposed to be stylish? Easy to market if they're hot? I am confused I guess as to what goals I was meant to shoot for here.
Fuuuccckkk.

2023-09-15 17:12:51 UTC

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@npub1yr3…nrs8 friend..
Before I graduated, the rock star said I was qualified to teach. Then the year I graduated, he himself took a job at every institution in the area.
And then he stopped communicating about working with him at all.
So he burned a bridge and took all the jobs I was looking at, and knowing he was up for them I would've never been hired anyway.
If another job comes up, I dunno if I'd get it because of him.

2023-09-15 17:06:40 UTC

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Fucked to think my career would be in hands like that.
Fucked completely that I get treated that way by both complete amateurs, and people in the god damned rock and roll hall of fame - while BOTH acknowledge my achievements and excellence at the technical parts.
I hate them in ways I have no human words for, only clenched fists and gnashed teeth.

2023-09-15 17:03:59 UTC

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It bothers me my friend thought being pretty was any consolation for being able to work on a professional level with aforementioned rock star.
It bothers me greatly anyone on a personal level sees me that way.. that I should be satisfied being a visual thing they can look at, and not yanno... a person with talents, skills, agency.....
It bothers me that both someone I've known for 2 decades, and a famous rock star think it ok to diminish me in the same way.

2023-09-15 16:58:23 UTC

Having a not great day, internally.
"Only you could get dehumanized by a famous rockstar" is not the compliment you think it is, self-soothing dialogue.
"Well at least you are pretty and effortlessly stylish" wasn't either, friend.
Had I been male, it would've went different, and that's just a fact. Ambition was never much fun for me, friends.
I have so much resentment toward SO many people today.

2023-09-15 14:49:13 UTC

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@npub18wd…vs4h i like discovering music that way, but i train my suggested algorithms aggressively. I used Last.fm for that purpose and was so very happy until they switched to populating their player with YouTube videos.. so I was often served neverending ads and mislabeled music.
These days, feels like another shift needs to happen, because Spotify being the only game in town does not work. :(

2023-09-15 14:09:40 UTC

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@npub1cre…vk7n yeah i do. Yeah i do. Trust.
The old slappin hand is aware when it is called for. Like an arthritic knee can forecast the weather.
I hit the bullies for myself first and took that attitude on a walk til the school bus was a smooth ride for everyone. It is a life mood. Who knew then? Haha
Things are not as easily handled anymore, are they? Wish they were or you and I could just slap the world into peace and kindness in a few years of stadium tours.

2023-09-15 14:04:41 UTC

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@npub1wsc…4p0g @npub1pwx…xk5j the inflection is all wrong tho. Lol

2023-09-15 13:56:41 UTC

Maybe it was the Carebears, maybe it was the child abuse.
I don't want anyone pushed down except the powerful who cause the most harm. When I was a kid, I hit bullies to stop them and they did. One hit wonder, I called it.
To this day, I can't stand to see someone glorying in shoving someone smaller than them, making them feel even more less-than.
Do not do it and tell me it is for my benefit or I will fuck you up.

2023-09-15 13:45:59 UTC

Please before you fix your fingers to type on behalf of feminism, take a look at yourself.
Then look around you.
Are you the one who should speak on it, or is maybe someone very closeby more qualified from personal experience?
If you're not the one, don't.
If you need somebody to speak, go tag that more qualified person and watch.
If I see you speaking on my behalf as a cisgender woman, you better not get it twisted. So frequently you do.
Why would I want you to push my trans friends down?

2023-09-15 13:36:21 UTC

So woke, but you silenced your alarm.
I see.
☕️🫖

2023-09-15 13:33:40 UTC

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@npub1ke7…fgwl @npub1t3d…qnlg ::proudly leaves crumbs everywhere:: thx for the donut!

2023-09-15 13:32:04 UTC

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@npub1wmj…uwf7 very. I took big issue with them promoting that Joe Rogan hate radio guy.
So there are lots of issues but like.. genuinely.. I dunno what else to do. As an artist, they pay me. No one else does. As a consumer, they have the range of artists I consume. No one else does.
I know the person I spoke with earlier would say to buy all the music I like. He has a fortune in retro synths, he can afford it, perhaps. I can't do that. 🙄💩

2023-09-15 13:28:01 UTC

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@npub1ke7…fgwl @npub1t3d…qnlg oh, is Dan Brown also known for his plagiarism? He is so insignificant as an author to me when I sold books I never paid attention. Lol

2023-09-15 13:23:26 UTC

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@npub1wmj…uwf7 i have access to that and can watch, thank you!

2023-09-14 16:49:48 UTC

Any #Ableton users out there? Comment a 👋 or somethin. 🙏😎

2023-09-13 10:38:45 UTC

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@npub1zu8…apnw we get FOMO ads about shoes and purses and jewelry. But that's in print mostly. Commercials are almost entirely aggressive negging.

2023-09-13 10:37:24 UTC

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@npub1zu8…apnw oo aspirations.
If only we could collectively grasp moving beyond designer handbags, aka the Reason We Can't Have Pockets.
Then women could have aspirations like consumer jealousy about stuff AND things.

2023-09-13 09:57:14 UTC

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I am afraid of small bathrooms filled with plastic bottles of random magic goos and creams designed to diminish the members of my gender.
"You aged, you now must pay a fortune to pretend to be younger. Your age is worthless, your experience means nothing unless you are a consumable commodity, so young anyone can project their fantasies on you. Can't have wrinkles on the surface or they can't see the image they forced on you."
Such is the Feminine Mystique. A blank, youthfully smooth slate.

2023-09-05 15:42:32 UTC

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@npub1ew9…qf5p works! Thank you!

2023-09-03 13:29:31 UTC

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There was a show called Superstore where a character played by America Ferrera keeps changing the name on the nametag every shift so no one knows who she is. I love that for the customer complaint self-defense alone, but I never worked anywhere large enough for that to work.
I did not want weird conversations and strangers calling my name. Especially out of context.
Looking back, I think that's where Some Rando Creep must have known me from. ......Retail.*
(*Typed in a Tim Curry sneery tone)

2023-09-03 13:06:36 UTC

You know how some jobs make you wear nametags?
The only one I ever wore, and did not take off when I went to my work area...
Was for Blockbuster, and I still have it because it has my name etched into it and I love it.
But more on nametags.. I took em off because customers were creepy and I did not like the weird banter brought on by their seeing my name was available without my consent.
The over-familiarity was a boundary I needed separation from.

2023-08-31 14:53:23 UTC

Y'all.
https://s3.us-east-005.backblazeb2.com/musicianstoday/media_attachments/files/110/984/774/505/464/949/original/91b956029a1a349f.jpg

2023-08-31 14:47:34 UTC

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@npub1c5v…jl5j happy birthday to your mom!!

2023-08-30 17:31:15 UTC

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@npub1zsx…zcfs equally ankle-bitey and prone to ill-temper? Checks out. Lol

2023-08-27 16:27:51 UTC

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@npub18lj…80hq bees and other such bugs. they do a curious little mosy and then magic happens.
.. i think as a human, i mostly produce garbage. >.<

2023-08-27 15:23:43 UTC

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@npub1d72…ch5p .. you ever pull your shirt up over your nose just reading something? Lmao 🤣😂

2023-08-27 15:22:03 UTC

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@npub1cpx…s4gp i really want to like a few songs. There are so many songs I like sort of, and then have to sit with who made them and what I know now.
That alone takes the joy out of it. I don't want to have to examine any of that if I just wanted to enjoy music. So it is either choose willful stupidity and ignore it, or to let that joy be lost and find new joys elsewhere.
Good thing new people make new music every day, I guess.

2023-08-27 15:04:41 UTC

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@npub19ue…qaqd @npub18lj…80hq ::gloms onto the bottom of a jar like a lamprey, with a grotesque wet "schloop"::

2023-08-27 15:03:28 UTC

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@npub18lj…80hq discovered a used LEGO store where they let you build your own minifigs, so I built HER and she's become serious afterlife goals.
#ArtShowSunday
https://s3.us-east-005.backblazeb2.com/musicianstoday/media_attachments/files/110/962/159/473/278/809/original/eec6be9031ef6622.jpg

2023-08-27 14:55:41 UTC

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@npub18lj…80hq crossbred a lovely fire orange canna lily out of a fluffy yellow one and a spiky red one.
Photos are the art part, nature does the show part. :) #ArtShowSunday
https://s3.us-east-005.backblazeb2.com/musicianstoday/media_attachments/files/110/962/140/041/208/740/original/308071ee3746d99c.jpg

2023-08-27 14:48:32 UTC

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I never cared for a lot of music icons because it was like they told EVERYONE how disgusting they were and no one believed it.
People like that get by on the fact most people believe in separating art from the artist.
They succeed because audiences do not like to self-examine as to WHY they are entertained by problematic material or problematic people.. nor look too deeply into the mentality of the minds that create their entertainment.
Big oof, y'all. Big oof.

2023-08-27 14:43:53 UTC

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I do not know how people did not see it. I was always branded a killjoy in childhood for this stuff, but I always commented and got tired of being ignored about these things so I quit bringing it up.
It was always a sneer not a smile. They always showed us who they were. I am glad the dominant societal homophobic cloud has lifted and more of us can finally see it.

2023-08-27 14:43:35 UTC

I mean this with love toward his fans, ok.. but he was always doing it with contempt.
He was never doing his act with love or respect for women, transgender, or queer people. Not once. It was a character he was making fun of. It is in the makeup, even.
He and Monty Python had the same energy about the gender expression in their androgynous or crossdressed looks. Contempt.

2023-08-27 12:47:36 UTC

Ugly as I wanna be. ;)
https://youtu.be/Wvqsn1Qkr0Y?feature=shared

2023-08-27 12:33:13 UTC

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I should put up more decorations outside today out of spite, lol.
How dare dream brother take credit for my spookitude.

2023-08-27 12:31:19 UTC

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When I realize he once more was lying, creating a chaotic mess for me to clean up that somehow diminished me and aggrandized him, I told him to go fuck himself and bit him on the face.
Dream me deals with things her own damn way.
Now somebody convince awake me that I can calm down,it was not real.

2023-08-27 12:28:19 UTC

I was at a dream appoinrnent, bringing something to a lady for my brother - he left it behind absently - who shows up in the offfice at the sane time.
He had signed me on to do art for some book with her but did not ask or tell me, or notify me of the appointment
He was talking over me, even in the dream it was like reality. He was lying about "always" being a yard menace about Halloween. When I said he was not, he said well at home NOW he is. He is not.

2023-08-26 13:43:18 UTC

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@npub1cre…vk7n i'm sorry they're all so untrained and inept.
it is very seriously common knowledge about gmail addresses, i wish they'd figure that out.
i'm sorry you're going through it.

2023-08-26 13:37:53 UTC

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@npub1cre…vk7n it is kinda important they know a thing like that or they can't know fraud when they see it. it is ok to admit not knowing something, but it isn't ok to admit being bad at one's job and blame the client or customer.

2023-08-26 13:04:35 UTC

it is legit shocking to me that hospitals do not have mask requirements. Any medical setting you'd think they'd prioritize.. yanno.. health.
But it can hardly be expected when society deemed profit-motive appropriate for the practice of medicine.
We are more profitable sick and/or dead than we are healthy.
https://med-mastodon.com/@luckytran/110954167477213792

2023-08-26 12:08:42 UTC

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@npub1747…xrc4 i will ask. Lol
Never know.

2023-08-26 11:55:26 UTC

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@npub1747…xrc4 yes? Lol
He is quite beardy, and has a basement where he skins and dresses large critters.. and maintains a pile of no less than 6 small critter carcasses in his compost bins most times.
But he builds guitars and amps, and you'd never go hungry if you can pick a berry, cut a lettuce leaf, cast a line, or shoot a bow and arrow.
I went scouting with him, and foraged mushrooms in mystic beaver lands. Fkn amazing.

2023-08-26 11:50:38 UTC

Good morning creepy ads.
Today I must cram stretchy fabric into my craw and use my taint as fulcrum for my boob support, because only my legally required bodyparts should be covered, but I must also be exceedingly uncomfortable.
Is my body merely for spectacle, or it is the old tried and true "BUT SHE BREATHES THRU HER SKIN" thing again?
Who can say?

2023-08-26 11:22:10 UTC

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The dog is named Barktholomew because I named him something dignified, while my friend had been calling him "dumb dog" or "numbnuts".
Barktholomew has his good boy charms tho. Big saggy eyed, drooly cuss.
My friend saw a baby deer somewhere, and we speculated. I joked Barktholomew would try to taste it. He thinks Barktholomew would raise it as his own.
Good. Then he finally knows the dog's Good Boy Pedigree is real.
Doggo did not lie at his interview. Him said him good boy. It true.

2023-08-26 11:17:48 UTC

I have a friend who has gone rather feral for a city boy. He moved out to the country and plants vegetables and fruit trees.
He also hunts and eats anything in season.
He had chickens. A sketchy stray dog killed them. Then a big goofy bloodhound showed up and would not go away.
I met the bloodhound the day of arrival and he 'told' me he was a very good boy.
My friend kept wanting to get rid of him but is training him to do farm chores and maybe go hunting too.

2023-08-25 15:53:34 UTC

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Literally, she brought my trying to do this with myself as some kind of major, defining problem for her.
It did not in any way involve her at any point.
So I have to laugh - how did me trying so hard and not quite making every goal I had harm her?
Because I thought she was my friend and talked to her about it, my emotional needs were a burden? Or because I was doing something to grow and push myself to learn and she wasn't?
They each reflect very poorly on her, so why not both?

2023-08-24 13:23:28 UTC

::stares at her copy/paste work awkwardly::
so.. if i come across this one article author.. i'm supposed to not edit it, and not find any photos to present it online.. because that author has a "master's in English" and the illegible way they write and format was intentional and even though it doesn't fit the magazine format, we've got to leave it..
because she is anti-semitic against my client and thinks it is racist for anyone to edit her words and add photos so someone will click on it.

2023-08-23 15:37:44 UTC

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@npub1hda…27vm "Just Like Regular Money, but Untraceable and Anonymous for the Dark Web" was always going to be shady and run by criminals.

2023-08-22 22:55:41 UTC

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@npub1kav…9n8w it was so nerdcore and wholesome and earnest.
Everybody wanted a character created by a grandma in their game. I still do.

2023-08-22 22:43:00 UTC

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@npub1483…lv2w the time a person told the story of Terminatur, a D&D character designed by an elder woman who bonded with her family over learning to play. She passed away, and wanted Terminatur to live on so she wanted the world to have him as an NPC or play him themselves.
There is so much Terminatur fan art from around the world because of that set of tweets, and the joy it brought everyone to help that lady's whimsical character live on forever.
https://www.belloflostsouls.net/2019/08/dd-the-ballad-of-terminatur-or-why-im-not-crying-you-are.html

2023-08-19 18:32:52 UTC

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how do i communicate to him to shut the fuck up, stop arguing with me, that i told him to be quiet and i god damned meant it, and that shit is not staying in my house..
quietly.. and without my hands??
i dunno. but i did it.
but now the crap is in my garage and i have to go see my older brother probably and i just want to slap the shit out of everyone for even being nearby.

2023-08-19 14:22:07 UTC

Just watched a douchebag Confederate soldier get eaten by a giant preying mantis.
How is YOUR day going?

2023-08-18 18:50:35 UTC

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@npub1fql…nma7 pretend poverty is so weird. If only there was a country word for "poser".

2023-08-18 15:30:41 UTC

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@npub1fql…nma7 they's all hat no cattle carpetbaggin no account n'er-do-wells if you ask me. ::scrapes foot on dry red soil to stir up dust::

2023-08-17 14:30:42 UTC

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it is hilarious to me the lies they told that get passed around as fact..
...are that i'm a LOT nicer and sweeter than i am??
go right ahead, you buffoons. go right ahead. anyone who knows me knows you DO NOT know me if that's what you thought.
my violent ex-roommate who broke her bf's jaw in my house thought she was gonna fight me and no more saw my EYES when she came at me that way than she walked away fast.
please tell the world how "nice" and against profanity i am. my mom would love it.

2023-08-17 14:25:55 UTC

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i guess somehow i got to be a symbol of what all those incel douchenozzles hate about their moms or teachers or basically every female figure of authority in their lives...
how? i don't know.
one or two absolutely unhinged dudes started it. i'm not for sure how many there were because of their use of alts and the their social circles all overlapped in unpleasantly confusing ways.

2023-08-17 13:44:13 UTC

That time I thought I asked for a small portion of someone's time, but actually called them a small man.
And uh .. yeah, oops? But it was true and now that we've fallen out, it is endlessly funny to me.

2023-08-16 17:11:37 UTC

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@npub1tvq…ntx3 i did not like a lot of it, tbh. It is hard to describe why. It felt disorganized and too gamelike.

2023-08-15 03:08:50 UTC

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@npub1cqp…7vgx lol. Yw.
Wisdom from troubleshooting relationship critical failures should be passed on.

2023-08-14 23:01:02 UTC

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@npub1ena…yyv4 this look is so iconic. More selfies omg!

2023-08-14 22:57:15 UTC

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@npub1dc7…4rlj oh this is a topic i have many thoughts about. Lol

2023-08-14 22:04:46 UTC

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@npub1dc7…4rlj it is not the education they need, but the expected social norm, imo. The education establishes the norm.

2023-08-14 18:43:57 UTC

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@npub1ycp…97t2 ::snorts:: i have relatives all over Florida I haven't willingly spoken to since the 90's for similar reasons. Lol

2023-08-14 17:24:59 UTC

That face.
https://s3.us-east-005.backblazeb2.com/musicianstoday/media_attachments/files/110/889/126/641/843/277/original/e6ec1a0889b0764d.jpg

2023-08-14 17:20:40 UTC

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@npub1dc7…4rlj ethics should be a part of every curriculum at every grade level. Not exaggerating. Ugh.

2023-08-14 17:03:24 UTC

A current favorite track .. from Martyn Heyne
https://youtu.be/ajLGKdW9yG8

2023-08-14 16:58:51 UTC

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@npub1ly5…hq4x EQ the oscillating frequencies out with a notch filter - that might be where you hear some distortion. If you need a tip on how to do it, what software are you using I will link you!
Some of it might be mic technique itself - placing the mic away from nose or tilting away from teeth.. create some distance. Try lower placement first. If that sucks, go higher like for an overhead mic. *This advice I guess might depend on what mic you used and how it is affixed.

2023-08-14 12:23:31 UTC

He told me he felt like he was being tested.
Huh.
I don't test people who don't trip the sus wire. At that point, I'm testing for patterns, frequency, duration, etc. Call me an emotional statistician.
If you feel tested, you already failed.

2023-08-14 04:00:43 UTC

Baldur's Gate 3 or: How I Learned to Stop Screaming and Love the Parasite
#AlternateTitle #RuinAVideoGame #HashtagGames

2023-08-13 18:14:26 UTC

Once upon a time in the mid 90's, I snuck into a bar called the Tip Top Cafe to see B.B. King play. i dunno if it was even a scheduled thing, or if it was "hey i'm in town for this big gig and want to play a dive bar tonight to warm up" kind of thing?
but it was the best time i had as a teenager and i did it on the success of a stealth check alone.

2023-08-13 17:56:33 UTC

mmm.. a vibe
https://youtu.be/LSi9jS9q2Z8

2023-08-13 17:40:14 UTC

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@npub1wle…w37k whatever price they are, it is out of my budget. so..yeah. lol
ouch.

2023-08-13 15:58:45 UTC

::cries:: no YOU want a designer disco ball purse that is out of your budget.

2023-08-13 15:56:44 UTC

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@npub1lnu…dtlh like it is why I shop at Dollar General.

2023-08-13 15:11:13 UTC

Are you cool? Or are you so cool a mere thought of yours inspired someone to write an entire article just to explain a "joke" they did not even write that was simply not funny to you and tell you, personally, to calm down?
Yeah.
Get some of this. I did not even see it for 5 years, dude. You calm down. Lol

2023-08-13 15:01:03 UTC

this is why i liked Instagram (sometimes), and why if i see a screenshot of Twitter on there i get mad.
https://bird.makeup/users/brieyonce/statuses/1690736096282300416

2023-08-13 14:54:39 UTC

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@npub1cvm…ne4j ::shrug:: i read the book about 20 years ago and probably could've written it, considering i learned almost nothing about strategy from it. yes, wisdom. sage even. but i guess i already learned it from dealing with bigots and gen pop public school.

2023-08-13 14:53:11 UTC

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@npub14xj…na59 she had an interesting take on impostor work, i wonder what she'd think of that price?

2023-08-13 14:47:49 UTC

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@npub1c5v…jl5j in my district, last election we were given a choice between a rabid open fascist, and a cop for our school board representative.
i know your pain.
you know how they say for every accusation this right-wing culture has toward their opposition, it is projection? we should be looking for paid protesters, and coordinated moneyed efforts to push these things via small, local elections first.

2023-08-13 14:41:59 UTC

New to me music.. wow. This really conveys a strong mood, as you will discover too.
There's a percussive sound in there that gives a very interesting "squeak" and I love it. The sound design of this is so exciting to my ear.
https://youtu.be/U0iLW0LpRIc

2023-08-13 14:37:40 UTC

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@npub1pya…epnp i get that neurotypical people have this world designed for them, but why is it worth mockery when someone has difficulty?
why wouldn't they want empathy and help when they struggle?
i give them help and empathy every day when they can't figure out things that are simple for me, but they don't notice because i'm not a jerk about it to them for their inability to do things I can do quickly, or intuitively.
leave it to a neurotypical to be a habitually blithe bully.

2023-08-13 14:33:40 UTC

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@npub1pya…epnp i have that anxiety about things but i manage it.. i had a student though who would get stuck on it.
if he went to a new location and had never been inside, he'd park his car and be unable to get out. or he'd go to the door and be unable to go inside.
i no more heard he'd done that once than i knew immediately - go take photos, or find a screenshot to send. circle doors in the photos, draw arrows, make notes.
he needed this help and i could do it. why not make it easy for him?

2023-08-13 14:28:58 UTC

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@npub14d8…05dp "Why is the DOJ letting Trump walk around and post online??!"

2023-08-13 14:24:43 UTC

::sighs:: Spotify.. I know I have a certain essence, ok.. but I don't need "The Art of War" on audiobook.

2023-08-13 12:59:59 UTC

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@npub1yau…rf0u the psychology is simple if you stop assuming they want to appear logical, sensible, and moral.
They perhaps want to cause as much instability as possible, and seize power illegitimately. If you assume THAT, all their actions make perfect sense.
Instability itself is not nonsense, it is malice. See it and confront it.
Do not pretend it is an accidental outcome.

2023-08-12 20:30:55 UTC

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@npub1lnv…jwyn with any luck, 🤮 on a politician.