Ally K

https://social.allykotetsu.com/users/ally

Radqueer content creator/streamer residing in Seattle, WA. Check out my website linked below!

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2026-03-28 17:54:59 UTC

Celebrating the cross lake connection at judkins park!
Picture: Seattle mayor Katie Wilson!
https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/56d1ba1d0c9984090f0ec201295afdfab0f135142f2c6db1e6b89be477ef95ab.jpg

2026-03-27 18:29:10 UTC

# Poll: What Do You Consider Minor-Attraction?

2026-03-22 06:04:00 UTC

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like art style IG. If I was gonna go 3d I'd wanna do a low-poly anime artstyle thing

2026-03-22 05:29:20 UTC

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what kinda 3d? Do you have any references?

2026-03-21 17:40:51 UTC

When I get a job again I need to commission some art of myself for my website, pfps, and stream. I've had a bunch of ideas lately for how I want the graphics of my brand to look.

2026-03-17 02:46:39 UTC

i like kids but i'm definitely more of an ephebophile

2026-03-13 23:44:53 UTC

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this whole time you didn't know it was me? lol. good to see you again
i wonder how many people here think arisu is gone and don't realize that it's me

2026-03-13 23:22:54 UTC

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additionally, we tabled, publicly for several months. and once again, no one ever came to cause trouble. despite it being public and advertised on social media
very dangerous

2026-03-13 23:19:11 UTC

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the one time something bad happened at a bt+ event was when a community member, another paraphile, showed up to cause trouble. and they only knew about the event because they were friends with someone who was a member at the time
but no one got hurt, because they weren't there to be a danger or cause harm

2026-03-13 23:18:04 UTC

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this isn't even including bt+ events, where we had a maximum event attendance of like 15. once again, never had an anti or cop or anyone showed up

2026-03-13 23:16:07 UTC

yknow, back when i was arisu i was doing, like, one meetup every month for like half the year. at this point ive met up (including at bt+ tabling) with at least 10 people, mostly through pedi
do you know how many times i came face to face with an anti? or a cop? 0
very dangerous

2026-03-13 17:24:02 UTC

Good morning pedi! Hru?

2026-03-13 04:33:29 UTC

Community leaders don't make decisions for their followers, they educate them. If your leader is telling you what you can and can't do, then that's not a community

2026-03-13 04:30:26 UTC

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supposedly this was on baise.moi. is it on feral too?

2026-03-13 04:21:47 UTC

How hard is it for people in this community to not spread misinformation? I have stated that I am not affiliated with this meetup thing (which no one attended BTW) and now the mods at baise.moi go and tell everyone that I am?
This is the type of shit that makes me want to give up on pedi, because the assholes who run instances pull shit like this and people still support them
Leaders don't have a duty to ensure safety, we have a duty to inform our followers. We cannot make peoples decisions for them, all we can do is educate them. How can we argue that its not okay to force kids to stay safe and that we should instead be informing then, and then turn around and say that we should be forcing our community to act a certain way instead of just educating them?
If we never take risks, we'll never know progress, and by taking that decision away from people we're only hurting ourselves. Safety is important, but it's not as important as letting people make their own decisions. I live a life that's less safe than most people here and its improved the quality of my life in so many ways. So why should I tell people to hide in the shadows when I've seen firsthand just how much taking risks can improve life?
I'm really tired of trying to do good for this community and then having people turn around and say I'm a threat. So if you believe in me, please don't go and support these people. Why do we give people like this a platform? People like Rae who everyone knows is a big problem in this community?
https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/54cf76ea3e952d5564ae03c0f4f1840bddc5b595cf2b62370dee3d63f6dad5c6.jpg

2026-03-12 21:52:18 UTC

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love her expression there! Lol

2026-03-06 21:42:24 UTC

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just like everything in life, you cannot fully prevent people from doing things. if you try to stop people, they'll just do it anyways. so instead of censoring people we should instead be trying to educate people.

2026-03-06 21:41:10 UTC

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i agree with this. there is an inherent risk to something like this, and that risk should be made known. but i think it's a step too far to tell people what decision to make. by reporting them you're removing the ability for people who want to take the risk to take it. we can't force people to live in secrecy, we must let people brave unsafe scenarios if they want to. we should present them with the facts, not our opinions about it
she asked me to put this info up on my website, but i chose not to because i didnt know how safe it was. but i knew it wasn't my right to tell her not to do it at all. so i told her how people would react and how to make it as safe as possible. and yes i told her what websites to try and spread the info on because i wanted to give her a chance at making this succeed if she was that dedicated to seeing it happen

2026-03-06 18:30:30 UTC

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at this point I absolutely hate "its unsafe!" or "safety is the most important thing!". It may be a hot take, but I do not think those are true. I think progress is the most important thing, and in order to make progress things are going to have to be a little unsafe. Stonewall was unsafe, and look where that led us.

2026-03-05 07:22:37 UTC

What if a nose job was when you used your nose to get someone off

2026-03-03 08:09:12 UTC

Call me crazy but high school girls are hotter than kids imo. I consider myself a MAP, but my preference is usually towards young adults (which I consider 16+ to be an adult)

2026-03-01 21:43:21 UTC

wow i was expecting this to get 50 responses over the course of the next few months, i didn't think it would get that in its first few hours lol.
thank you to everyone who's taken the survey so far! i'm already finding some interesting things.
the plan is to run it until June, but if there gets to be a point where it stops getting responses then i'll end it early

2026-03-01 18:32:11 UTC

# Big Radqueer Survey Out NOW
Hey everyone, I've been working on a survey for you radqueers and it's finally done! It's a big survey with lots of questions, all designed to give me some insight of who our community is, where we're at, what we want to see, and how that all correlates. All the questions are optional, but the more you answer the better data I'll get. It's hosted on Cryptpad, an anonymous, end-to-end encrypted survey hosting website. The findings of the survey will be made public, however, text answers will be rephrased to maintain anonymity, and individual results will not be made public. Please share it to those you know!
[https://cryptpad.fr/form/#/2/form/view/Slk9iDnr2ghNsUJltoFonWwk3HTLWgty7QEtea+x+8w/](https://cryptpad.fr/form/#/2/form/view/Slk9iDnr2ghNsUJltoFonWwk3HTLWgty7QEtea+x+8w/)

2026-02-27 04:24:41 UTC

I left a comment on [brian ribbon's article](https://www.brianribbon.com/home/the-sorry-capitulation-of-beyond-the-plus-and-bl-talk), but i also want to make a message here responding to it:
please don't make me out to be the bad guy because of what happened to bt+. we left the decision to dissolve up to our members. i tried to convince people to let it stay, but only a couple of our members who had actually ever been to events wanted us to stay public. every other member either wanted us to cease operations, hadn't logged into our website in months and hadn't seen the announcements, or had just stopped participating
it's no one's fault that bt+ ended. the truth is that people weren't ready for this. the only reason i "ran with my tail between my legs" was because no one involved except for violet was going to be willing to stick up for me if things got dangerous. being an activist isn't about doing risky, dangerous things and not thinking about the consequences, it's about strategy. and there's no reason for me to piss a bunch of people off who want me dead if no one is going to step up to protect me. otherwise i might just end up dying, and what then?
i had every intention to stand up for my community when things got scary, and i did until the very last day. but at the end i didn't have anyone i was standing up for. what was i supposed to do, continue running events that no one except for antis were going to show up at?

2026-02-23 22:01:38 UTC

as mentioned im working on a survey. what might be some good incentives to get more people to take it?

2026-02-23 00:57:24 UTC

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yeah, but if theres a risk of getting raided by the police then it doesnt matter how free it is, it shouldnt be self hosted. if you cant afford to host it somewhere secure then dont host it at all

2026-02-23 00:46:27 UTC

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then why would they use poland and not like some VPS provider?

2026-02-22 22:37:50 UTC

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2026-02-14 06:05:44 UTC

i need to get a nice school uniform... the really nice ones are so expensive tho >.<

2026-02-13 03:18:38 UTC

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personally I selfhost nextcloud. It has file storage (with optional server side encryption) and it has a desktop sync app so I can have my files locally and edit them and stuff. Then I run pika backup (Borg backup) daily to backup the files. I plan on getting some sort of flash drive for them to be backed up to that way if my PC fails I can just grab the drive and it'll have the most recent shit.
Borg is also supposed to run backups on next cloud on my VPS but I ran out the storage again lol. Music and stream archives are big

2026-02-12 23:27:29 UTC

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and something end to end encrypted like proton, at that

2026-02-12 23:02:08 UTC

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shouldn't be relying on it, yes, but better to use real cloud storage than discord lol

2026-02-12 20:27:43 UTC

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wdym? what are you storing on discord? how are you storing stuff on discord?

2026-02-12 19:11:08 UTC

Fuck discord BTW. I've been drafting up a blog article about why everyone should leave discord and since its topically appropriate I'll probably publish it next month

2026-02-03 00:26:36 UTC

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idk if natalie has messaged me or not, i dont see anything yet. additionally, if its the natalie im thinking of, i think we have each other on signal?

2026-02-02 22:55:31 UTC

lmao someone reported me for being pro-c. idk if it was supposed to federate or just be local to their instance or what
hmmm. what do yall think, should i ban myself from my personal instance?

2026-02-02 22:53:44 UTC

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well, i have this instance, but it's just for me

2026-02-02 22:52:50 UTC

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i dont have an instance? i used to though. can you ask her what instance she's referring to?

2026-02-02 22:25:07 UTC

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uh hello? Sometimes my instance doesn't federate messages so I'm unsure if this is part of a thread or if you're just tagging me fsr. Is something up?

2026-01-31 18:47:51 UTC

Morning ramen
https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/6c38a13a49cf0376543e7f35f7faf400be60c61a28c700131a2831cbbac9f310.jpg

2026-01-17 00:30:19 UTC

Another piece of free MMS swag I was gifted. Looks great on my backpack!
https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/2b7ebdeb3dd1417a7680381c4ef02fd2eb7248f7ae9f8f686065e9e99384fd67.jpg

2026-01-14 22:16:44 UTC

Do you think minor attraction could become more socially accepted by the end of your life? For the purposes of this poll i am defining social acceptance as approximately half of the population of the country you live in accepting people of your contact stance

2026-01-12 20:56:24 UTC

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yes, Washington state (not Washington DC)

2026-01-12 20:51:28 UTC

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Share this with anyone you know who lives in WA. This state is fairly progressive so there's a chance we could stop it

2026-01-12 20:48:58 UTC

For anyone who lives in WA, age-verification for access to porn online is being introduced as a bill. I know our legal system and government is broken, but you can still make a difference!
You can made your voice heard by commenting on the bill, or even attend the hearing (either remotely or in-person) to testify.
Fight it here: https://app.leg.wa.gov/billsummary?BillNumber=2112&Year=2025&Chamber=House

2026-01-10 04:29:09 UTC

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https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/e7eae9791a3aac8c38b8258a5be309d1a2dd93898561dbc970da5b66402e967a.jpg

2026-01-09 08:36:04 UTC

I find myself wanting to have my own online community again. I used to have a Discord server where I posted Minecraft modding stuff, music, and live streams. I miss discord but I won't go back to it, which leaves me with a few options
I'm seriously considering Matrix, which kinda sucks but not that much. If I did I'd probably have to self host it tho, which isn't so bad but my server is suffering lol
The other option is Stoat (previously Revolt). Its a discord clone that's pretty cool. Its not encrypted but it can be self hosted. But I think if I did that people wouldn't want me hosting their info in plaintext
I wish there was a good option 😭 I could use Signal but these days I only give out my Signal account to people I know well, that and it's not organized the same way Discord is. Seriously considering forking Stoat to add e2ee

2025-12-22 19:29:00 UTC

Today's breakfast: pikachu waffle tower with peanut butter and maple syrup
https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/145f14b1e826b52e6aa38960a46ffc5a597c3e669daf752370287a74bd9c8ac0.jpg

2025-12-21 06:17:27 UTC

someday i think it'd be cool to bring an artist or two onto Bt+ to do stuff for the blog. we could have a monthly/weekly cartoon (like the ones in a newspaper), or maybe even a webcomic

2025-12-20 03:10:33 UTC

Haven't been drunk in a while lol, this feels nice

2025-12-17 07:33:14 UTC

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its also important that we involve youth in the fight. MAP issues are equally about adults and youth. We'll never have our rights if they don't have theirs. Youthlib is the cornerstone of MAP rights

2025-12-17 07:30:02 UTC

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in order for laws to change we need people behind that. You're not gonna get people to protest and sign petitions and stuff while we're all so spread out. Its crucial that we be forming communities (public or private ones) to bring people together and give people something to fall back on in case activism causes them harm. But at that point then yes we should be fighting stigma. But its also important to note that while MAPs are still underground people aren't gonna take our message seriously. Trying to change an anti's mind is gonna work if they're Hardset on being an antimap, cuz they're not gonna read whatever you say. Opinions are changed when people come face to face with those they are oppressing. Only then they can challenge their preconceived ideas, when its somewhere they can't ignore and coming from someone they already trust and know isn't a monster

2025-12-17 07:25:20 UTC

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Zach haddel. He voices pym from smiling friends. He's the orange crappy fish

2025-12-16 22:02:49 UTC

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i liked it! also had somewhat mixed feelings, but i think those are related to the show's overall pacing and less the episode itself. i liked the zach haddel cameo lol

2025-12-16 04:04:06 UTC

Finally figured out how to make a hidden service for Bt+! Anyone browsing who wants a boost to privacy can use Bt+'s onion link through TOR. The link can be found on the bottom of any page on the site.
I know some sites have a popup appear when using TOR to show that you can use the onion link, not sure how they do that though.

2025-12-13 16:19:24 UTC

I should start a band and name it "Dennis and the Implication" after Its Always Sunny In Philadelphia. That scene is gold

2025-12-13 01:31:54 UTC

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its important to recognize that mainstream science used to think being queer was a fetish too, and for a long time being trans was thought to be a fetish as well.
MAP and zoo attraction is not seen as a fetish for a few reasons. Its not always sexual, there are asexual MAPs and zoos. There's also the aspect that feet and urine elicit an erotic response naturally due to being a fetish, whereas for MAP and zoo kids and animals don't. Its not that they are sexually exciting, but that they expand the realm of who we are attracted to. In the same way that being gay isn't a fetish for men, its having that shape your orientation as a whole

2025-12-13 01:23:01 UTC

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out of curiosity why don't you think they're queer?

2025-12-12 22:01:12 UTC

new digital circus in an hour AAAA im so excited!

2025-12-12 20:38:10 UTC

# Poll
Do you know any other radqueers/maps/transid/etc IRL?

2025-12-10 02:22:15 UTC

my biggest hot take: activism is dangerous work. there can't be a radical movement for people to gain rights if there isn't some risk involved. sure, there are safer forms of activism that are valid, but if we all let fear control our actions then we wont get anywhere. we should prioritize safety above all else, but the best activism work will never be 100% safe, and people need to learn to be okay with that

2025-12-08 21:39:22 UTC

Everyday I am reminded of how awful social media is and I wonder why I came back to pedi. What's the point of trying to get my message out here and help the radqueer community when everyone would rather goon, doom scroll, and blindly follow instance admins?
Everyday it gets harder and harder to believe that the majority of this community isn't feds trying to dishearten the rest of us, it would certainly explain a lot if that was true

2025-12-04 18:24:13 UTC

If Bt+ were to be able to offer something to members besides events, what would be something we could do?

2025-11-30 18:56:58 UTC

How is it already December tomorrow... Where has this year gone

2025-11-19 00:34:13 UTC

Finally restocking buttons!
https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/2773f188cf6fae657c703d7960a122cf313a7714315a44508b0a38ab05011c0c.jpg

2025-11-18 21:55:05 UTC

new favorite blinkie (i think thats what its called?)
https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/192faf78b2330caa0553ebcc4c50576ffefb855a8494910d52688965ba7f263f.webp

2025-11-15 19:13:38 UTC

Sometimes I wanna hornypost but it feels weird now that a lot of people here know me IRL lol. It was different back when I was arisu.exe

2025-11-13 19:38:24 UTC

Zoos, do you prefer the term zoosexual or zoophile?

2025-11-13 01:40:03 UTC

contact stance abolition doesn't mean we should tolerate everyone in our spaces, it just means we should move away from the use of oversimplifying labels and focus more and what matters, such as respecting youth/animals, each other, and consent

2025-11-13 01:01:58 UTC

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i can get behind the "contact discourse is a government psyop" thing. i dont know if i believe that but i wouldnt be surprised if it was true, it might as well be. things were much better for our movement before things like virped came along

2025-11-13 00:58:07 UTC

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its just very divisive. there are anti-c's who think that pro-c's are some plague that's overtaking the MAP community and that we must be stopped. and then there are pro-c's that think every anti-c is a cop bootlicker. ive heard the argument that pro-c and anti-c goals are completely different, with no overlap. the example given that the main anti-c goal is to be recognized as being better than pro-cs. and then most pro-cs would say they main goal is to have child-adult sex legalized, which is obviously not an anti c goal.
i dont agree with these points but at this point contact discourse is so widespread that i cant help but feel that most people are on one side or the other. tho i think a lot of this is terminally online behavior, as discourse like this hasn't come up in person yet, and no one in bt+ has argued with the rule we have about contact discourse

2025-11-10 19:19:23 UTC

I like to imagine how antis react to us after they've seen us in person. Like, what are they thinking? Are they going home and going to bed thinking about those open pedophiles they talked to today?
We got a message from a place we were looking to use for event venues, and they were the most offended by us supporting transrace. They also mentioned the MAP thing, saying that they couldn't hold events for minor attracted people in a space that also held youth activities (which I did not know when applying for an event). I want to imagine that the people there were horrified to think that, unknowingly, multiple open pedophiles entered their building. That they went back home that night like "work sucked, I had to talk to a bunch of pedophiles". I wonder how they'd react if I walked back in there lol.

2025-11-10 02:29:40 UTC

Listening to some Red Hot Chili Peppers. Imagine if singers wrote about any other state like they write about California, it'd be so silly lol. Who out there writing party anthems about Washington 😭 I was listening to some Macklemore the other day and I got lifted out of my body when he talked about throwing fish at pike place

2025-11-09 23:28:22 UTC

This community is so helpful <3 every time we do tabling, or a social, or whatever, we always have community members helping put stuff away, clean up, etc.

2025-11-08 17:16:16 UTC

Morning fedi!

2025-11-08 05:37:55 UTC

I'll be all not horny and them BAM someone posts something nsfw on my tl and I'm horny

2025-11-07 04:30:55 UTC

i need to get some tights. since its winter i dont wanna go bare leg while im wearing skirts, but i also dont wanna do leggings either. plus they're hot lol

2025-11-07 04:25:28 UTC

ugh im so BORED. ive been bored all day
how is everyone?

2025-11-07 00:16:55 UTC

my brain: "december, that's a few months away"
oh, nope, it isn't. it's in like 25 days. how is this possible. how is 2025 almost over already

2025-11-05 18:03:47 UTC

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i mean, i'd be lying if i said that, but i feel like that's what it is lol

2025-11-05 18:03:20 UTC

what if i told you 90% of activism was just sending emails

2025-11-01 03:48:10 UTC

What's your favorite candy, pedi?

2025-10-31 05:34:33 UTC

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MAP rights can't happen with youthlib. Simple as.

2025-10-30 18:53:11 UTC

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2025-10-30 18:01:07 UTC

what if Bt+ held our own map camp 👀 to make it up to everyone who wanted to attend the other one and didn't get the chance to

2025-10-30 16:28:00 UTC

Good morning, fedi!

2025-10-29 18:45:54 UTC

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I didn't dismiss their contributions. I was just telling you what happened to them. I never said they didn't do that

2025-10-29 17:13:30 UTC

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from what I understand it basically became just a website with like a blog and a couple activism things

2025-10-28 22:12:26 UTC

I think the weirdest thing that I eat regularly is a chip sandwich. I'll just grab two pieces of bread and put potato chips in between them
Anyone else do this? Lol

2025-10-28 19:25:43 UTC

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organizations are important for bringing people together. if they're made to propel breaking the law then they're just gonna get disbanded like with what happened to NAMbLA
i think it's important for official, legally recognized organizations to obey the law and expect their members to as well, otherwise they're just gonna go down. but i suppose there's a difference between that and encouraging law reform, which an org should be doing
but as far as breaking the law goes, if someone is going to do that it needs to be completely independent from legal organizations, otherwise if they go to jail then they're bringing everyone else with them

2025-08-01 00:31:16 UTC

Hi I'm Ally! I'm a radical queer activist, and the president of [Beyond the Plus](https://www.beyondtheplus.org/). I'm here to spread leftist and activist theory, as well as to just have a good time and talk about the stuff I like, such as video games, music, programming, and more!
You can find my website at [allykotetsu.com](https://allykotetsu.com/), that's where I blog, release gaming videos, and livestream!
Catch you later <3