Marge吴静玫

https://ack.nerdfight.online/users/WuMargaret

I'm an anti-capitalist, a feminist, a wife, a mother, and a worker. I love nature, music, books, cooking, movies, podcasts, the VW GTI, and mechanical keyboards. #Cats #HeavyMetal #Birds #Birding #TTRPG #Hyperborea #Books #Reading #MagicTheGathering #MTG #TransRightsAreHumanRights #BLM #socialism #union #labor #ReproductiveJustice #ReproductiveFreedom #RakeStrong2023 #RakeNews #Cooking #中文
Hashtag a whole bunch of shit. We contain multitudes.
If Chris (so far) (npub15vx…ac0c) is the face of Nerdfight Online, then I'm the heel. #HeenanFamily4EVA
Marge 吴静玫 (npub16t3…jdmp) is my other account

Pronouns : They/them, she/her
Avatar: Selfie of a middle-aged white lady taken on the roof of a 70 story building in Tianjin, China at night. A DJ, other visitors, and some of the Tianjin skyline can be seen behind her.
Banner : A parrot in some type of enclosure. The parrot's name, Marge, is painted on the enclosure. Image courtesy of Chris Prather

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2025-12-01 00:04:30 UTC

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Too many fucking people, especially my fellow white ladies, just don’t fucking get this basic fact.

2025-11-19 10:44:57 UTC

Anyone have any good resources for learning LaTex? Or advice?

2025-10-20 10:17:21 UTC

I am starting my work week in about an hour, so I am taking some time to remind myself of some facts. Folks have said they find these reminders helpful, so I am sharing them here.
Our value is independent from our work status and productivity.
Our identity transcends how we sell our time for survival.
Rest is a right, not a reward.
All we have is each other, so we need to take good care with each other.
Hope folks have a good week out there in the hellscape.
#SolidarityForever

2025-09-06 12:30:53 UTC

Every once in a while I “discover” a band about 10-15 years later than most folks have. Today it is Ghost. Digging the power metal. On another note, would love to find some metal that goes as hard and fast as some death metal/black metal but also doesn’t have scream-o vocals.

2025-04-05 15:16:47 UTC

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Backing in is often the safest option in some situations. I can’t do it where I park at work because I’ll get a ticket because parking services cannot see my plate.

2025-03-13 10:10:48 UTC

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We’ll get through it. But we are seriously considering the PRC, knowing full well what that means.

2025-03-13 10:00:31 UTC

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I am terrified about what my government is doing to people. I am married to an immigrant, and I am afraid for our family.

2025-03-03 11:15:54 UTC

Good morning folks of the Fediverse. My work week starts today, so I am reminding myself of a few facts. Others might find these reminders helpful, so I am sharing them here.
All we have is each other, so we need to treat each other with care.
Rest is a right, not a reward.
Our value is independent of our productivity.
Our identity transcends what we do to sustain ourselves financially.
#SolidarityForever

2025-01-30 02:35:18 UTC

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Planes, Trains, and Automobiles

2024-12-21 15:35:10 UTC

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Thanks for creating and sharing this. That is an act of care.

2024-12-15 23:17:46 UTC

This week is going to be so fucking busy, but then I am off for almost 2 full weeks once I get done on Friday. The kids are home for that entire time …

2024-12-09 10:56:00 UTC

Good morning, Fedi-folks. When my work week starts, as it is today, I take some time to remind myself of a few facts. I share them on the Fediverse because I feel the reminders might help others.
Our value is independent of our work status.
Our value transcends our productivity.
Rest is a right not a reward.
All we have is each other.
Wishing folks a good week with moments of joy, fun, flow, and belonging.
Solidarity Forever!

2024-12-05 20:06:22 UTC

Went to a cat cafe today. Petted some cats.

2024-11-27 21:45:57 UTC

This was so well written. I grew up in the town where most of this takes place. There are folks who have summer homes worth tens of millions of dollars there. Whole sections of town empty for months on end. Crappy beach motels charging exorbitant rates with tons of empty rooms. And the cops chase him out of the town beach parking lot. https://www.esquire.com/news-politics/a62875397/homelessness-in-america/?src=longreads

2024-11-27 13:54:40 UTC

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Hope he bought a parka. Robes are insufficient. I don’t care if you are god’s only son.

2024-11-07 03:26:34 UTC

The news sounds so normal, but nothing they are talking about is normal. The fucking normalcy of everything is the strangest part of this so far. The worst so far is wondering who is a Trump supporter as I encounter people.

2024-11-03 10:22:09 UTC

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So scary. Glad folks are ok.

2024-10-30 00:17:56 UTC

I recently volunteered as a solidarity captain for our local DSA chapter, which just means we support local labor in their actions and forge relationships with local labor. But anyway, everyone needs to call me Captain Marge now.

2024-10-27 23:12:23 UTC

Ms. 7 gave me a squishmallow calico cat wearing a purple winter hat for my birthday. Very sweet.

2024-10-26 21:56:22 UTC

I think the texts will stop now that I voted.

2024-10-12 23:12:02 UTC

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Perfect! What’s in your chili?

2024-10-10 12:36:38 UTC

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She’ll be ok. Probably pneumonia, which so many kids at my kids’ schools keep developing.

2024-10-10 12:01:18 UTC

Well, we’re back at Urgent Care. This time with Ms. 7. August and September were rough. Looks like October may be, too.

2024-10-10 10:22:31 UTC

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Wow! Those look cool.

2024-10-08 15:45:13 UTC

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I took a different route to a familiar destination today, and I arrived quite quickly. My car was driving well, too.

2024-10-08 13:27:31 UTC

What’s good about everyone’s day today? Even if it’s small, I’m interested.

2024-09-28 23:57:00 UTC

Sometimes I wonder if we’re chumps for not having any kind of home surveillance system. I’m not ready for that responsibility, and I definitely do not trust vendors with video footage of my neighbors and community members. Very few folks in our neighborhood do not have something like ring or nest. People need to do what they gotta do to feel safe. It doesn’t make me feel safe, though. One house in the neighborhood had their ring camera set up so if you step on their driveway a recording that says “Hi. You are being recorded.” plays. That makes me sad, but maybe that is judgy.

2024-09-23 20:45:42 UTC

Sometimes my brain gets stuck on Mandarin, which is weird. Wonder if anyone else in bilingual or multilingual households experiences this? Probably so. For me, it’s like certain questions make more sense to answer in mandarin even though having a convo in English. Fine if the other speaker also speaks mandarin, but otherwise not so much.

2024-09-20 00:15:24 UTC

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He is quite unusual looking in a nice way. Looks like a great friend.

2024-09-14 15:18:39 UTC

Why I post cooking questions on the Fediverse rather than searching the web: I encounter a lot of cultural content that really makes me feel shitty when I search for American/English language recipes. Trad wife BS, fat shaming, BS health lies, etc. I just wannna know about folks’ experiences cooking something. So, if I can’t find info in one of my go-to sources, I ask here.

2024-09-13 00:19:36 UTC

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That is really cool. We bought a kit that allows you to put those on a tree. The kids love it.

2024-09-11 16:47:01 UTC

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I think so, too. Last year, I was stopped at a red light with two cars in front of me and the car immediately in front of me just starts plowing into their horn. This stop is a place where a lot of folks going in the lane I was in turn right on red, but there is no turn lane. the immediately in front car has their turn signal on, but the car first at the red light does not. I cannot know what was in the driver’s mind, but I think that fucker was honking because the first car wasn’t turning.

2024-09-11 16:40:37 UTC

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Yep. Driving me fucking nuts.

2024-09-11 16:38:01 UTC

Shout out to folks who slow down a lot before sliding into a very long left turn lane. Who hurt you?

2024-09-11 00:19:41 UTC

Can anyone confirm what kind of rose this is? I am getting dog-rose when I look it up. Some of them are yellow. They look like the roses that grew on the sand dunes at he beach as a kid, but the rose hips are smaller and the leaves not as vibrant.
https://us-east-1.linodeobjects.com/nerdfight.online/347f7521420a40709ff9cf4d8b382b3aebe0def2de84e7125da958a23453c4b4.jpeg

2024-09-10 23:55:40 UTC

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Exactly. At least Aleeve and Tylenol are starting to take the edge off. Afraid I might like anything stronger too much because of who I am.

2024-09-10 22:40:01 UTC

After seven straight days of facial/head pain, I am just fucking grumpy and I kinda hate myself. It’s improving at least.

2024-09-10 22:18:01 UTC

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I have used fuck@thepolice.com before

2024-09-09 15:06:33 UTC

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Working on it or something close to it - marginal employment while maintaining residence in two countries.

2024-09-08 21:45:38 UTC

Shout out to my kids and spouse who actually thought the 1973 Honda Civic Hot Wheels I brought home could possibly be home for anyone other than myself.

2024-09-07 17:01:38 UTC

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Wow. She is courageous. This is a good thing. I do wonder if TX will enact border checks.

2024-09-06 10:08:00 UTC

Anyone have recommendations for good instrumental or mostly instrumental metal?? I really like the heavy drums and speed of a lot of subgenres, but I don’t like the grunting singing. Related thought - I would listen to Ride the Lightning every day if it were an instrumental album.

2024-09-06 10:01:47 UTC

Good morning (or whatever) folks! Hope people have the day they need today.

2024-09-04 22:15:57 UTC

I have a sad, my body hurts a lot, and my brain is being a dick to me. Just don’t have a lot of food left today.

2024-09-02 14:20:16 UTC

Current status: waiting at urgent care. Went flying on the hardwood floor because someone left one of those folding work lights and I tripped over it. Went face first into the banister and probably broke my right pinky finger.

2024-09-01 09:09:13 UTC

This meme my spouse shared with me hit a little close to home.
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2024-08-26 01:30:03 UTC

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I am going to take the pedals off first, and try. My kids both learned to ride bikes by first using balance bikes, so I will try that.

2024-08-26 00:04:44 UTC

Shout out to my neighbors who gave me an excellent Trek bike that their daughter outgrew when they found out I want to learn to ride a bike. They could have sold it for a good price. Extra motivation for me to actually do it finally.

2024-08-23 17:54:57 UTC

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As a soon to be 46 year old who just had my first colonoscopy, I agree. My father-in-law said the type polyp they removed from has a 40% chance of developing into cancer within 5-15 years.

2024-08-16 09:51:25 UTC

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Looking good. You took a great photo of them.

2024-08-12 08:59:11 UTC

IND to BWI to PVD, but first coffee before I set off for the first airport. Hope folks have a good week. You are more than you produce and your value is far beyond what you do for work.

2024-08-09 21:41:51 UTC

This week can fuck right off. But at least I’ll visit my home town, which is quite beautiful, next week, and drive my dead brother’s car around while I am there. Woo.

2024-08-03 04:35:01 UTC

Shout out to my kids and spouse who passed their horrible colds on to me! Cannot sleep I ache so much.

2024-08-02 22:08:12 UTC

Because I only post strange pictures of myself, here ya go.
https://us-east-1.linodeobjects.com/nerdfight.online/da96045bdd441cb707a2bfa323a4d7f00e1dab99a00fe4021bffbb1b72dc6e78.jpeg

2024-08-02 16:26:15 UTC

Still unsure if I just have polyps or colon cancer, though I first learned of this possibility at the beginning of May. Tried to find out in China, but I don't want to get into it. Anyway, I will find out on Monday, or take the first step to finding out. It's probably nothing, but all the stuff I read tells me that's about 50/50 given my family medical history. Anyway, I am starting a low fiber diet today and I really was not aware of much nuts and raw veggie I eat. It's a lot.