Abigaïl Maës (Sapphigaïl)

Aito hine

Hi, I am Abby (she/her). You can also call me Mai.

I am a computer scientist and data analyst for an university. I'm working on the evolution of plant/fungus symbiosis, and how it was paramount for plant terrestrialization.

I'm the happiest polyam lesbian, as I live with the most amazing polycule ever.

E māhū hine ha'apeu vau.
Eita'au e fa'aru'e i te 'ino !

Abigaïl Maës (Sapphigaïl) (npub1ecu…32aa)">https://justmytoots.com/Abigaïl Maës (Sapphigaïl) (npub1ecu…32aa)
#Abby_stories
#Abby_Vent
#Abby_shitpost

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2026-03-13 10:19:04 UTC

If there was a Hell, it would be a Parisian subway with endless corridors leading nowhere, stairs everywhere for no reason, no possibility to go out, and people running around and harassing you.
Just maybe a little tidier.
Yeah that's not realistic.
#Abby_shitpost

2026-02-26 10:31:36 UTC

A few days ago I was preparing for a podcast (that I ended up not participating to, for reasons) and smth occured to me. I thought, being in recovery after my SRS was like being a super-hero gaining new super powers every day.
All these things that felt obvious before and that I was not able to do anymore for an extended period of time. When they come back, feels like doing something unique, amazing, exceptional!
Be on your knees in awe folks ! I have the super power to get on my side in the bed! To sit and eat. To get up on my feet without fainting. To move away more than 10m from my bed. And also the super power to get laid and orgasm (because yeah, there were like 8 weeks between those two came back to me).
And do you know the real super power I have now and did not before? The power not to wear panties. Damn I do not miss tucking. AT ALL!
Anyway, that's what would have been my approach for the subject, that and talking about the violence and queerphobia of the french medical system (e.g. the doctor asking why would you want a vagina if you are a lesbian????).
@npub1pl9…x7nq
#Abby_stories

2026-02-17 18:14:32 UTC

chúc mừng năm mới!

2026-01-05 06:23:07 UTC

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oh ma belle Jena🫂
Je pense fort à toi

2025-12-22 16:14:51 UTC

Bonjour Fedi.
Je suis Abigaïl Maës.
J'ai une petite soeur, Clara, qui commence une formation en alternance en joaillerie et découpe du métal sur Paris.
Je lui cherche un logement moins coûteux, ou même une chambre en périphérie proche d'un métro. Nous avons une préférence pour Montreuil.
Pouvez vous me contacter si vous avez des pistes?
Merci beaucoup beaucoup :heart_lesbian:
Les Boost sont très apprécié

2025-12-20 13:38:24 UTC

Oh damn, just realised I forgot to introduce my gf @npub1tyh…ce6w to the Fedi.
Welcome sweetheart 😘. I wish you plenty quality shitposting.
We love you.

2025-08-19 12:09:17 UTC

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les filles... Cosplay Cosplay cosplay !!!!
Preums pour Zooooeeeeeyy

2025-08-10 17:05:26 UTC

There's no problem, just queer solutions.
https://queersolutions.bigcartel.com/
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2025-08-07 14:32:25 UTC

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Il est trop beau ce coeur brodé. Elle a de la chance ta jolie amie d'amie. :neofox_angel:

2025-08-01 16:06:50 UTC

I love rain and storm. The sound it makes.
Reminds me of home. It's soothing. :neofox_pat_snug:

2025-07-14 14:10:17 UTC

Ya pas longtemps j'avais ma période et je me trouvais grosse et LED.
Mais là c'est environ 10 jours plus tard, du coup je suis plus ampoule incandescente!
Gonna have to take care of that.

2025-07-10 16:16:56 UTC

So there are news about my job.
These last weeks it became increasingly difficult.
Moreover the transmysoginistic harassment I've beared for a year now, both from my colleagues and my n+1; said dude started to cross the line professionally. Let us call him Damien ... because it's his name and I don't give a ish. I often vent about all of this here.
Long story short, it culminated this week with Damien asking dayly to everyone where I was and when I was leaving, after I wasn't there for another of his suprise meeting at 5H30pm, prohibiting remote work and enforcing that I ask his authorization to place my days off.
I snapped and had a panic attack in front of everyone, again. The difference here is that my friend T was here and I talked to him instead of Damien as I did before.
T spoke to HR, and HR spoke the big boss. She met me today. So I learned that:
- Damien never spoke to anyone about what I was telling him. Harassment and all.
- HR already had Damien explained that what he asked for was illegal, and he doubled down.
Without infodumping the details, boss told me that she would remind Damien that she was in charge, and that "you are a very courageous woman Abby, and I will put an end to all of this this instant"
#Abby_stories

2025-06-16 12:30:14 UTC

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honnêtement ct justement à ça que je pensais🤭

2025-06-14 06:55:45 UTC

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"notporn_seriouslyiswear"

2025-06-03 10:27:26 UTC

Ya un genre d'effet de mode cet été, ttes les meufs ont des pinces imitation Tiare dans les cheuveux.
Je sais que ce n'est pas malveillant, mais je ne peux pas m'empêcher de me sentir blessée en les voyant.

2025-06-02 08:39:36 UTC

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queer.roboctopus.
Damn I love it :neofox_aww:

2025-05-28 01:47:54 UTC

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🫂désolée pour ton cauchemar. Je connais bien ça. Heureusement la suite de la journée était beaucoup plus agréable.
Ça fait super longtemps que j'ai pas fait de nems tient. @npub1885…yngj faudra se faire ça un weekend.

2025-05-18 04:27:54 UTC

Yesterday, we celebrated our 1st anniversary with @npub1885…yngj (kinda, long story short) and got ourselves two beautiful necklaces. There's a story I wanna tell explaining why it's so important to me (that she new when she went for that gift).
- A little more than two years ago, before transition, my dad gave me his wedding ring. He was on his deathbed and told me it was mine now. I couldn't tell him, but I decided to came out and start HRT. A few months later, about three months in HRT, my ba noi (grandma) told me that, since I was her oldest granddaughter, she wanted to give me her mom's necklace (a beautiful diamond).
- Now, during the veeery long week just after that, two things happened. First my adoptive mom got really angry that I accepted the necklace. She told me that since I wasn't really a girl, it should have been herited to my 10 years younger baby sis (that I love). So I gave it to her. Then my grandad told me that since I was a girl, I shouldn't have my dad's ring. That's a man's heritage. So I gave it back. I bought my oestradiol necklace to cover my neck.
- I left New Caledonia after my workplace got burned down, because I wasn't able to find a job, came to Nancy to work for the university. I met @npub1885…yngj just after that and fell in love. And with her I got a chosen family, the most amazing polycule I could imagine (I love you guys so much [@miranda_blue](https://eldritch.cafe/@miranda_blue ) @npub1syy…85wg @npub1qrx…uspt and Smile). We are both very fan of the Steven Universe show. She calls me her little peridot, and she's very much like lapis lazuli.
So I got her a peridot necklace, and she offered me a lazuli. Now my neck's not naked anymore. :neofox_hug: Hope it lasts many years.
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2025-05-03 23:59:35 UTC

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y'a que Mai qui m'aille🤭

2025-05-01 09:44:48 UTC

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3, espacées de 6 semaines. Le cycle de repousse c environ 3 mois.

2025-05-01 09:05:22 UTC

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🩷J'espère que ça ira.
Juste retenir que c du tt ou rien.
Et ça ne marche que sur les follicules en dormance.

2025-05-01 08:45:06 UTC

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La PRP avait super bien fonctionnée pr moi. Je te le souhaite fort fort fort. La douleur ça veut dire beaucoup de vascularisation, et c bon signe (si je me souviens correctement ce que me disait ma docteure ya 1 an et demi).
Oh la la j'aimerais tellement connaître mes ancêtres au Vietnam. Mon arbre ne remonte que à la bà ngoai de ma bà nôi (foutu tel qui propose pas les bons accents). Elle s'appelait Mai Thi-Lan Nguyen.

2025-04-26 19:58:19 UTC

@npub1885…yngj finished my scarf.
Now I have my own long bacon.
Thanks sweety. :neofox_hug:
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2025-04-25 16:54:56 UTC

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Things changed a lot at Atoutbio since last time^^ (not the same person though).
- Her : Hi madam, how can I help you
- Me : I'd like to test my oestradiol levels.
- Her : Of course, can you give me your name madam.
- Me : Abigaïl Maës
- Her : Okay miss I found your file. Aw I love you makeup it's so gorgeous. For the test I need to know (Comes closer and whispers) do you know if you have you menstruations?
- Me : Oh no, I'm actually in the middle of a cycle.
- Her : Ok I'll let you follow my colleague who will do the blood sample.

2025-04-23 17:53:14 UTC

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Entre double soeurs, pas étonnant qu'on ai le mm humour :neofox_3c:

2025-03-26 09:56:01 UTC

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Tous les organismes ont fait la modification sans probleme, sauf le Crédit Agricole.
Ils ont répondu avoir besoin d'une pièce d'identitee.
Avec mon acte civil en poche, je peux en demander une qui arriverais tres vite. Je peux aussi changer de banque.
Mais j'en ai un peu marre de me laisser faire. 20 ans de harcelement ça suffit. J'ai plutôt tres envi de saisir le defenseur des droits et de me battre.
En mm temps il faut savoir choisir ces combats, et j'en ai beaucoup. Je n'arrive pas à décider.

2025-03-26 08:07:51 UTC

Heeeey gals and guys and beans.
The CW is for 3rd paragraph.
My birth certificate was finally corrected today :neofox_pat_snug:. It says: "On the 3rd of july 1994 at 1pm and 20 minutes was born, MAES Abigail, Mai, Thi-Lan, female..."
The court order from were I live was sent to my birthplace 2 months ago. I called recently and they told me I'll have to wait at least 4 more months before anything happens. I then called one of my friends to try to speed things up :neofox_blush::
For the story. During the "collapse" in my country, when we were stranded in the valley for months, we had to organize with the local community to harvest and distribute food, get supplies from the city (that's how I got me E). I was known as "that biratial gay trans girl whose dad just died" and was bullied A LOT. I got really close to a couple of older lesbians. One of them is a farrier. She's a tall, strong butch who became my chosen mom :neofox_hug:. She followed me everywere, protecting me against idiots. The other is a kind hearted lady. I schooled her kids in exchange of fruits from her orchad. She's retired from the town hall :neofox_laugh_sweat:
I called her to explain 2 days ago, and she called the lawyer she was working with to interact with the court. I don't know what happened exactly, but 24 hours later, my document was corrected.
Morality, we are stronger together!🧡🤍💜
Lov y'all

2025-03-19 16:47:00 UTC

Hey cuties.
Little update about a story I told here previously.
For context :
- The court of my birthplace takes a loooooot of time to edit my birth certificate, as ordered by the court of the place I live in. It's been 2 months, and they say 4 more months before I can edit my ids.
- Organisms (such as my bank, the MGEN, Atoutbio...) all believe that a corrected id is necessary to change my name and gender in their files. In France, this is absolutely not true (Which I explained).
- The lab where I'm doing all my bloodtests is called Atoutbio. I told you recently that there is a woman at the desk that love to shout my deadname et misgender me in front of everyone, each and every f*ing time I go there. She refused to make the correction twice.
- I cannot wait for my id, so I decided to write a letter recalling them the law, with exemples of jurisprudences and penalties applicable, and the order from the court (info from the website of the "Défenseur des Droits", "décison cadre 2020-136 du 18 juin 2020).
Now:
At Atoutbio, my good friend was there : "Hi SIR DEADNAME, do you have your...". I cut her off :neofox_gun:, give her the letters and explained. I saw her slowly falling apart as she was reading. Especially I think the part were I say that "the persistent use of an incorrect name or gender, despite the present court order, constitues discriminatory harrassement based on gender identity".
-"Many thanks Ms. MAĒS, I'll add that to you file and make the correction right away😨..."
She was livid :neofox_devil:
Sry for the infodump.

2025-02-27 13:23:44 UTC

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le probleme avec ce -spore, c'est qu'on deviens vite acro-

2025-02-26 16:27:58 UTC

Just got misgendered at atoubio again.
Loud and in front of everyone. That's the only person doing that, and she does so every time.
There's smth I can't understand, I'm well known here, documents are ok. Surely she couldn't be malicious right?

2025-02-23 20:55:49 UTC

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Alors, j'ai spotté une coquille dans l'alt text. Mais bon, je suis une personne pointilleuse.
Tu as oubliée de préciser que la femme blanche en chemise à carreaux était trés trés mignone.

2025-01-30 08:26:45 UTC

Hier, j'ai envoyée un mail à tte mon équipe pour souhaiter la bonne année, en ces termes:
"Chúc mừng năm mới
Je voulais juste vous souhaiter une bonne année.
Chez moi, ce weekend va être plein de fêtes, de réunions de famille, de feux d'artifice (and over-eating)."
Ce matin au café, j'ai été assaillée par ma RH, mon n+1, et pleins de gens inquiets
"Abby Abby Abby, faut vite réagir ton compte a été hacké par des Thaïlandais il a envoyé un mail avec tt plein de tchitchou"
Mes prénoms sont Mai et Thi-Lan for fuck sake^^
Aaah la France ... I love it. Un goût qui s'acquiert🩷🩷

2025-01-29 09:23:00 UTC

Chúc mừng năm mới !!!
Bonne année Fedi,
Lov y'all🩷

2025-01-23 17:44:10 UTC

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Lionel better be watching he's next move carefully, and ethically !🤭

2025-01-23 14:05:22 UTC

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Chúc mừng năm mới !
En avaaance! 😅

2025-01-21 07:18:19 UTC

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I don't know Pixfield, bit might I just say you're so very cutr on that profile pic

2025-01-20 16:23:10 UTC

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that's the cutest🩷🩷

2025-01-20 11:55:33 UTC

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I really feel you🫂.
Conversations where we have to precise the correct gender again and again and again are tiresome.
Last time it happened, I said "I'll give you a couple minutes to figure this out", I hanged up and called again a little later.

2025-01-13 22:12:36 UTC

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tiens ai fait, did you know? Ils viennent de sortir 3 nouveaux sets dans la collection botanique🤗.
I need it.
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2025-01-10 21:49:43 UTC

Don't call me polyamorous anymore say I'm doing relational multithreading. I have 3 cores, 6 threads. After that my proc is saturated.
@npub1885…yngj

2024-12-28 10:25:28 UTC

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deso pr le double post, je pense à un truc.
Est ce que fb a un API ? Pourrait on faire kk chose avec une instance Fedi. Ou est ce que ça existe déjà?

2024-12-27 14:53:17 UTC

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Construction games with your baby. That's the cutest. Take care 🫂.

2024-12-25 23:07:01 UTC

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"Speak adelph, and enter"
"What does it mean Ulrich?"

2024-12-25 20:06:51 UTC

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ce sont 2 colliers des indes. Tu as raison, c une espece de perroquet.
L'un a un collier et pas l'autres, donc possiblement un couple. Ca veut aussi dire qu'au moins l'un d'entre eux a survecu à au moins 2 hivers.
Ils ont ete introduit en europe il y a des décénies. Ce n'etait pas un probleme avant mais maintenant que les hivers sont moins froids...c une invasion écologique.
Ce sont de vrais chats a plumes, and I love them😚

2024-12-24 21:29:44 UTC

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Le rouge à lèvre assorti à la mèche, la robe noir. It's perfect. And I love your necklace too.
Have a great night.

2024-12-23 18:07:55 UTC

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Je suis triste pour toi 🫂.
Moi aussi je prend cette période pas super bien.
Je passe en anglais parce que j'y suis à l'aise.
I know it doesn't change nothing for you, and I hope that what I'm saying not triggering. I apologize if it is.
Though I want to say that even if we barely know each other, every thing I heared about you from people we have in common depicts an amazing woman with many qualities.
I know anyone who could be with you this week has a lotta chance. Your mother cannot understand that she always was a girl's mom, but more impotantly, that giving you life wasn't enough, she had to deserve your love.
Girl, it seems she does not deserve shit.

2024-12-18 18:18:28 UTC

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🤭

2024-12-18 16:57:26 UTC

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It's a complex language and I think we need flag-regex^^.
I can imagine an online tool making up specific flags from a descriptor. :blob_cat_mlem:

2024-12-18 16:51:54 UTC

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I did not know the purple ring in the integration flag went for intersex. It would go so well in the yellow heartm

2024-12-18 14:05:08 UTC

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🫂

2024-12-18 12:51:44 UTC

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I also have the vectors if you want it😇

2024-12-18 08:36:48 UTC

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well I diiid. And you know what, dude was right actually, it sure was a cocktail all right🤣

2024-12-18 08:32:07 UTC

Yesterday at a (sweet sweet) date with my gf, I showed the cocktail menu to our male waiter and asked:
- Hi, what's a negrito exactly?
- Well madam ... it's a cocktail.
- Yes ... thanks...
I love manplaining soooo bad😅

2024-12-17 21:03:15 UTC

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well, my decades long journey got to its term ... after 5 days in a store that's at the next crossroads^^.
That's an hybrid, but will do.
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2024-12-14 11:49:17 UTC

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wow, he ticks each and every boxes on the dum incel table, and he just doesn't have a clue.
I only we could turn water into steam with incel energy, it would be net 0 in 5 seconds

2024-12-11 16:41:54 UTC

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Je viens seulenent de lire ss le titre.
"La seule que vous allez aimer prendre"
.......😏

2024-12-09 08:55:06 UTC

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C'est trés trés beau "juste" milieux. Ça évoque l'équilibre.

2024-12-09 07:44:41 UTC

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neutre. Si je ne fais pas d'erreur?
My name was one of the amab-est thing you would ever hear in the streets of Saigon. When I came out to Ba Noï, she gave me her mom and her grandma names.
Mai and ThiLan
People were calling me Abby for quite some time and HRT effects were really hard to hide, so she was getting suspisious and making passive aggressive puns all the time😅.
A un repas de famille: "oui on a de la famille etendue un peu partout au Vietnam et en Oceanie, d'ailleur c amusant il y a une Abigail MAES sur Facebook qui habite à Noumea, j'aimerais bien la rencontrer.
*Awkwards stares with mum and sister, intense sweating*

2024-12-08 16:04:42 UTC

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houuuu cherry blossom add an extra layer of symbolism (cause my name is mai).

2024-12-08 15:23:59 UTC

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🫂 take care.
Now, to find a kumquat in North-Est France😅

2024-12-08 12:16:18 UTC

Hi, I just wanted to share some realization I just had with you gals, that just blew my mind. I'm sure some of you will relate.
I told my girlfriend @npub1885…yngj (who's cute, and pretty, and smart, and kind😊) that I wanted to have a romantic dinner with her on the têt evening, since it would be the first year in a long time I wouldn't have my family to celebrate the new year. She asked me what we would need.
"A kumquat tree, a pretty dress, and you lov"
Until now, I was sure my chronic gender dysphoria began with puberty at around 13 to 15yo, but I suddenly realized that it was so much older, like 20 to 25 years ago.
We used to gather every year with my familly to celebrate the têt, and we would all wear expensive traditional clothes (some of you trans gals might see what's coming now). I just remembered that a year, when I was around 6 to 8yo, I got so very fucking jealous at my mom because she had this beautiful red Ao Dai stitched with gold. I can still see that fucking dress in my head when I close my eyes. I wanted to wear it sooo bad, but I wasn't allowed to.
I remember that I was to make a little show that I trained for, as it is customary (likely piano or flute? Don't remember). I was so happy to show off, then my Ba Noï got the boy traditional shirt🤢.
"It's okay if you don't want to do it anymore, but you have to tell me why otherwise it means you are lazy, and no son of mine will ever be lazy".
I couldn't tell her, because school and society already taught me internalized transphobia, so I got grounded. The absolute worst is that if I had told her, she would have bought me the damn dress with her mom's hearings to match, and it would have been a very different life, but the risk was too big. I'm so pissed at every one in the street now because it should not be!
Then that sentiment followed me, and I had to suffer that stupid red dress each and every f*ing year for a whole day. And I hated the têt. Well that will change in 2025. Beware, because I'll be the sexiest bitch in this fancy restaurant, with the prettiest Ao Dai you'll ever see!

2024-12-08 05:35:52 UTC

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La scie à bande Dremel c un truc de malaaade😅

2024-12-06 21:29:31 UTC

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ah ui vous en aviez parlé dans le podcast.
C tres joli.

2024-12-02 13:27:16 UTC

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Trop bien.
"Contrairement aux cycadophytes, qui leur ressemblent, les palmiers sont des angiospermes. Ils ont divergé relativement récemment, il y a environ 100 millions d'années."
#Page42
Règles du #jeu: Prenez le livre le plus proche. Ouvrez-le à la page 42 - Publiez la 2eme phrase avec le hashtag et écrivez les règles en dessous. Pas votre livre préféré ou le + spirituel. Juste le + proche.

2024-11-29 19:42:47 UTC

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2024-11-29 19:41:54 UTC

Hi gals and guys and beans.
Following this:
https://eldritch.cafe/@Abigailmaes/113486257127539753
Here's my tests at a trans inclusionary polyamorous lesbian flag.
My models are:
- The 2022 Red Howell's polyamorous "Yellow Heart" flag.
- The 2018 Emily Gwen lesbian "7 stripes sunset" flag.
I'll answer to my post with versions for those of you that are bi or pan❤️.
See ya
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2024-11-22 20:08:04 UTC

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I wish you the sweetest moments with them.
Also:
Union des polyamoureux·ses internationale ✊

2024-11-16 07:13:37 UTC

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I mean, one guy is too many to handle already, sooooo.
Let's order pizza tonight.

2024-11-16 01:06:35 UTC

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j'ai vu des photos de ces masques😊.
Le coeur est tres beau, l'asymetrie des bandes bleues ajoute vraiment un truc

2024-11-15 20:18:05 UTC

Ia'ora na lovely people.
Je suis Abigaïl. Mon second prénom est Mai.
Je commence un nouveau projet, et j'ai besoin de votre aide à toustes. J'aime faire des origami de fleur de sakura. Je plie chaque fleur séparément, et je les attache sur un arbre fait avec des fils de fer dorés. J'ajouterai des images à mon post plus tard.
Here's the english version:
https://eldritch.cafe/@Abigailmaes/113488045134985117
En réponse à de reçents événements trés stressants sur la scène politique internationale, je fais le plus grand de mes arbre à ce jour, aux couleures du sunset flag. J'aimerais placer le prénom d'une femme queer dans chaque fleur. Pour signaler que nous sommes là pour rester, et que nous sommes les créatures les plus mignones sur terre. Si vous vous sentez à l'aise d'écrire le votre dans les commentaires (ou boost), je mettrai ma liste à jour.
Je l'imaginais spécifiquement pour des lesbiennes trans, mais j'aimerais le rendre le plus inclusif possible. Cela peut aussi être un surnom, même créé pour l'occasion. Ce qui est important est le symbole, et votre sécurité et anonymité. Je pense que je finirai par l'apporter à l'assos LGBTI de la ville où j'habite.
Pour l'anecdote, mon nom sera dans chacune des fleurs, puisque Mai signifie sakura doù je viens.
See ya.
Abby

2024-11-15 17:02:21 UTC

Ia'ora na lovely people.
I'm Abigaïl. My middle name is Mai.
I'm starting a new project and I need y'all help.
I like to make sakura origami. I fold each flower separately and attach it on a tree made with golden wires. I'll edit the post with images later.
As a sanitarium, in response to some recent stressful events on the international stage, I'm now making my biggest tree yet, and I'm using the sunset flag colors. I would like to store a queer woman's first name in each flower. To signal that we are here to stay, and that we are the cutest creatures alive. If you are comfortable writing yours in the comments, I'll update my list.
It used to be for trans lesbians specifically, but I now want it to be as inclusive as possible. It can also be a nickname, even if you came up with it for the occasion. What's important is the symbol, also your safety and anonymity. I think I'll eventually give the tree to the local LGBTI association (I'm in northwest france).
Incidentally, my own name will be on each and every flower, because Mai means sakura flower back home.
See ya.
Abby

2024-11-15 09:27:39 UTC

Hi yall.
I'm very curious.
There's a lot of different takes on the trans lesbian flag. Not always easy to catch 'em all.
Would you be interrested in posting those that ya know here (or a link to some place that already did the job).
Here's the one I made for myself:
https://eldritchcafe.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/486/248/252/035/920/original/f86c808c04908369.jpg

2024-11-14 05:02:48 UTC

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:blob_cat_aww:

2024-11-06 18:45:04 UTC

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yea, and that time it'll be worse.
I'm glad I had Mieke's love and alprazolam today, because it would have been a very bad time.

2024-11-05 11:40:18 UTC

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I'm genuinly veery anxioud about it. Last polls were very positive though. But ya know, it's polls.

2024-10-31 18:14:30 UTC

The Tokyo high court, presided by Sonoe Taniguchi, just ruled that not allowing same-sex couples to marry and enjoy the same benefits and stable legal statute as straight couples violates their fundamental right to equality and freedom, and constitutes a violation of the constitution.
"The ongoing ban is a groundless legal discrimination based on sexual orientation which violates the constitutional guarantee of right to equality, as well as individuals’ dignity and equality between sexes."
It's a big win for love! 💜🩷🤍💛🧡 I wish you a sweet weekend guys, and girls, and beans.
https://eldritchcafe.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/403/391/079/177/033/original/d9ed6a43fae86e9f.png

2024-10-29 17:41:25 UTC

Saw this today.
That's the first time I've been bitched on by a public transportation 😅
https://eldritchcafe.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/391/939/266/051/925/original/f3172aa7552bd6c1.jpg

2024-10-27 06:39:12 UTC

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That's such a beautiful sentiment, described in the sexiest way (using nerdy lore).
I used to be terrified of failure because I was raised in an old fashion asian way. I was planning everything all the time so I would be perfect and do perfectly. I thought it was what my familly expected from me. Failure would mean they weren't good enough. It was tiresome.
In my mid 20s, I learned smth really important:
Batman's not the core identity of Bruce Wayne, empathy is. Batman's just a tool. All these things we do, or fail to do, are just anecdotal stops on our path, they are not defining us. If anything there is no failure, because what does make us is what we are learning from it. We always grow from our mistakes, if not about how to be Batman, at least about how to be compassionate.
I think that what I'm trying to say is, as long as your path is being yourself, content and improving, everything's gonna be okay. I am not a PhD, I am a loving woman that does PhD stuff. I never can fail to that.