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2026-04-28 21:54:31 UTC

Give yourself an Apocalyptic Nickname, let's hear it!

2026-04-25 14:49:22 UTC

People who sleep through the night are such freaks.
What do you mean you don't wake up to go pee at 3 am, and then just lay in bed for awhile doing night math and thinking night thoughts?!

2026-03-26 16:33:44 UTC

Dudes will get with a 5 ft tall women to feel like a big dominant boi, and then be mad his sons aren't 6'11".

2026-03-25 18:59:19 UTC

"What if I'm not strong or smart enough?"
You might not be, that's why you're trying to get better, the trick isn't being good at it to begin with, or you wouldn't need to do it at all.
"What if I do all the work and it doesn't matter?"
You aren't a magic being that isn't affected by things, if you are genuinely putting in the work, you will get results, it might not be as quick or perfect as you think, but that's fine, you can make adjustments, and one of those adjustments might just need to be to your expectations.
I'm talking to myself today, and y'all are getting caught on the ride.

2026-03-24 01:31:21 UTC

Okay, other than the obvious, what is your red flag about people?
Personally, any religious tattoos.

2026-03-07 17:18:27 UTC

Today I Learned:
Mormons actually pay for the right to be Missionaries. They work about 11 hours a day and pay the church $400 a month. That's about 10k for a two year mission, essentially being a religious slave.

2026-03-02 14:42:11 UTC

It's interesting how Trans people "don't exist" until a woman is better at something than they think she should be.

2026-01-15 03:46:28 UTC

Fuck it, you can respect science, and still think things are magical, knowing how things work doesn't make it less magical, it makes it more so. Embrace the whimsy, you dark soul, it's okay.

2025-11-16 19:38:00 UTC

Have you ever read something you wrote a long time ago, and it seems so cringe, and you start hating on yourself?
It's because you've grown as a person, ya dumbass. YOU'RE FINE.

2025-11-03 13:29:26 UTC

Forget Meyers-Brigg, this is the real personality test:
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2025-10-24 14:06:27 UTC

I can't stop thinking about how she just looks like a modern day version of Death, just waiting for the right time.
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2025-10-17 13:50:18 UTC

Okay, genuinely curious about how people feel about this.
Set up: A person orders food from an UberEats/Doordash type situation. According to the restaurant worker who made the order the delivery person sits down has a 30 minute lunch, after the restaurant employee says the food is cooked and ready to be delivered, and then the restaurant employee has to make the food again, so it's fresh.
So, would you give the the delivery person 1 star? These apps often way under pay employees and getting delivery is often a privilege. At the same time, the delivery people choose their jobs, so they could have eaten before taking a job, and some people get delivery because they have disabilities or serious reasons why they can't drive and of course wasting food isn't great either. What would you do in this situation and why?
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2025-10-16 14:00:44 UTC

Design is my passion!
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2025-10-10 19:20:46 UTC

Star Trek Officer: 2 to beam up!
Me, working the Transporter: WHICH FUCKING TWO?! I'm tired of talking about this, you need to specify. I'M NOT A GODDAMN MIND READER!

2025-10-08 18:57:54 UTC

What are the worst kind of commercials?
God, I hate Pamper's commercials. I don't want to see a toddler dancing around to Born To Be Wild. It feels gross.

2025-10-08 14:24:25 UTC

Have you ever started laughing, because something someone said was so ridiculous you knew it must be a joke, but now you're looking around, and not everyone is laughing, not nearly enough people are laughing!
That's just how it feels all the time now.

2025-10-06 13:27:34 UTC

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@nprofile…2hrv Put on your potato sack and be happy

2025-10-06 13:23:26 UTC

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@nprofile…2hrv Omg, it's the lattes and Avocado Toast

2025-10-06 13:04:22 UTC

People needing to work so hard is intentional. I remember growing up, and watching technology boom, and thinking we're gonna have to figure out something soon, because fewer and fewer jobs will need to exist, and yet more people are working more jobs.
Society has encouraged people to not make friends, making being a loner and hyper introversion cool. They want people to work 12 hours, go home and watch TV, and have no energy to do anything else. Convince people that it is a choice or personality quirk or feel alone all the time. When really you just never have any time to recover your social battery, because you're always working.
They're trying to convince us that it's the generation, it's not, there were always introverts. They just know if people have time to get together, they have time to organize, they have time to think about why it's like this. They have time to realize they aren't alone.

2025-10-06 12:28:57 UTC

I'm getting sick of period pieces about rich people! Burn the Bridgerton's out of their mansion, turn Downton Abbey into a hospital, and fix that guy's leg instead of making him a servant, I don't give a fuck how the Queen felt about Diana, Aristocracy shouldn't exist. Please stop trying to convince us that rich people are interesting. I'm exhausted by this Gilded Age Nonsense.

2025-10-04 18:45:53 UTC

Soooo fucking sick of the idea that men will always be boys, but girls are always grown women.

2025-10-04 13:21:23 UTC

I hope I'm alive long enough to hear historians try to explain our current political climate. I'm excited for the documentary. Maybe some of us can do interviews, looking like those WW2 vets with that broken faraway look in their eyes.

2025-09-07 15:41:54 UTC

Disney will show you a powerful confident woman who runs her own business, and still expects you to side with the bratty teenager who nearly destroys everyone she grew up with over a dude she doesn't even know.
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2025-08-24 13:28:05 UTC

There are few things more annoying than the fact, that you aren't supposed to say why you actually want a job. You have to make up some absolute bullshit about the company vision and work environment, instead of just saying you need money, and they need employees.

2025-08-22 13:46:56 UTC

Waking up in the morning, and heading over to Mastodon like:
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2025-08-15 14:27:31 UTC

"Design is my passion!"
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2025-08-15 13:28:59 UTC

What is a small curse you can put on someone that wouldn't actually hurt them or anyone else, it would just be annoying?
My Choice:
Your shower is never quite the right temperature. It's not freezing or scalding hot or anything like that, but it's never just right.

2025-08-13 18:01:13 UTC

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@nprofile…t5r6 100% seeing people as objects instead of individuals

2025-08-13 13:38:03 UTC

It's interesting to me how saying "Women are allowed to dislike men", was so often interpreted as "Women hate all men."
It's not even remotely what I said. Are there women who hate all men, I'm sure there are, but this is pretty clearly not what I was saying. A good amount of my friends are men, hell, I'm even married to one.
Misogynists have created this myth of the blue haired man hating feminist. They have to do this, because the basic idea of wanting equality is asking so very little. They want us to be demure, and beg for crumbs, while they are actively trying to take our rights away.
Yes, Women are allowed to dislike men, we don't owe them attention, we don't owe them sex. Just like men are allowed to dislike women, and not owe them attention or sex. We just want to live in a world where this doesn't end in harassment and violence. Saying no shouldn't ruin anyone's life. If you can't see beyond your realm of experience here, maybe shut up, and listen, and realize you are privileged.

2025-08-11 23:28:05 UTC

Women are allowed to dislike men, they're allowed to ignore men, they're allowed to not even think about them at all. It is so bizarre to me when people act like men are somehow suffering because of this. You have rights, but not to our attention. What the fucking hell is this bullshit?

2025-07-30 18:47:53 UTC

You are moving some things around in your house, you find a small door that is screwed shut. You unscrew it, and there is a small winding staircase that goes up, but you can't see where. It doesn't go to your attic, as far as you can tell. Do you go up the stairs or do you screw that door back closed?

2025-07-30 13:16:55 UTC

I don't want to hustle and grind, I want whatever this is.
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2025-07-24 03:28:07 UTC

It is legitimately blowing my mind that the Epstein thing didn't just disappear.
I didn't realize how entrenched the Roganesque Trump voters were in proving who the pedos were, and somehow didn't think their boy Trump would be one of them.
Or maybe this is just a sign of crumbling at the base, an overall dissatisfaction with Trump as a whole. They are so deep in though, they can't just say, "We fucked up." So, now they are asking the questions they should have been all along.

2025-07-22 16:22:16 UTC

I see endless recipes for overnight oats. Making hot fresh oatmeal takes 5 minutes, you don't have to eat a cold raw gloopy mess.

2025-07-22 14:32:37 UTC

So, I've heard tell that people from other places think U.S. Midwesterners are crazy for how long they are willing to drive vs just taking a plane.
So, let's compare!
12 hours is about what I'll top out at for driving in a single day. Though usually if it's more than 10 hours long I'll divide it into two days. This is often because I'll see a cool city I've never been to that would make a fun overnight.
16+ hours is where it gets dicey for me, unless of course, we are talking an official road trip, with lots of stops, in the best road trips, you have a break every 2-3 hours. Quality of companion and their taste in podcasts matters here.
6 hours is about where I top out for a weekend trip.
So what about you all, how far will you go?

2025-07-20 02:48:22 UTC

One of the most realistic parts of Lord of the Rings is that almost no one wanted to get involved, until it was very nearly too late.

2025-07-18 23:26:56 UTC

"Ohhh, you're a stoner, name every stone!"
Geologist, smoking a J in the corner: Time to shine, baby.

2025-07-13 14:37:09 UTC

There should be an episode of every Star Trek where the whole ship falls apart because Scottie, Geordi, Miles, and B'Elanna have been repeatedly forced to do a two day job in two hours.

2025-07-12 12:31:24 UTC

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Not even a Christian here, just interesting that their own dude doesn't even support them.

2025-07-12 12:23:50 UTC

Conservative: What Would Jesus Do?
Jesus: Give your money to the poor, and follow me.
Conservative: Ewww not like that!

2025-07-09 13:08:34 UTC

One of the reasons I think people are so fascinated by the Space Race is it is one of the few times in history that so many people have banded together toward a common goal. It's proof, that if institutions and organizations really wanted to, they can make big positive changes. Imagine that much money, time, and expertise was put into ending poverty and homelessness.

2025-07-09 12:49:03 UTC

Me, any time I'm home alone:
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2025-07-04 12:06:08 UTC

Okay, I've mentioned this a few times, but let's talk about The Orange Alternative. It's Poland in the 80's and an art history student noticed that when someone would paint an anti-authoritarian message, it would very quickly get painted over by the government. He decided to paint a dwarf with an orange hat any time he'd see the white paint that covered these messages. Soon other people were doing the same. They embraced this kind of absurdism, what the government was doing was ridiculous, so they leaned into it. The paintings of dwarves soon became organized street parties. They would all wear orange pointy hats and walk through the streets with banners, chanting Dwarf Dwarf Dwarf! They would pool what little extra funds they had together and buy things that people needed like toliet paper and tampons, and would have street fairs with food and dancing, and hand them out. At Christmas, they would dress as Santas, and do the same. The police were flummoxed by what to do, if they arrested people for wearing hats and giving out tampons, they looked foolish and would be embarrassed, not sure what to do with these surreal forms of protest.
There is so much more to this, definitely read up on it, but it was an effective form of protest, creating community, spreading joy and absurdism, because authoritarian governments are absurd. Protests are going to look like a lot of different things, and this is just one of them.
In Russia, they have created Little Picketers, tiny rough clay figures holding banners, that they press into people's hands to remind them, that they aren't alone.
So, don't believe the propaganda, you aren't alone in caring, you aren't alone in wanting a different world, put on your goofiest hat, and let people know they aren't alone either.

2025-07-01 15:46:20 UTC

Just have to share a few of my favorite Star Trek memes. Feel free to share your own!
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2025-06-30 15:16:38 UTC

This is a very hard face to say no to:
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2025-06-28 12:31:36 UTC

Every time I meet I meet a Anarchist, they really just want small local government.
Every time I meet a Satanist, they are really actually agnostic or atheists, with a wicked sense of humor.
Every time I meet a Nihilist, I'm really worried about their long term depression.
Every time I meet a MAGA, they're a Nazi.

2025-06-20 01:51:27 UTC

Forget a Liberal Arts Degree, what classes do you need to take to get a Conservative Arts Degree?

2025-06-18 15:25:05 UTC

I can tell if someone has never been poor by how they talk about poverty. People who have never been poor have this weird fantasy of "Poor, but happy" "They are just simple folks who appreciate the simple things in life". They've created this false ideal that people in poverty have less to worry about somehow.
Mo Money, Mo Problems is privilege speak. There is also this idea that Wealth = Intelligence, but I'm pretty sure the last decade has disproved that in spades.

2025-05-30 14:00:41 UTC

So, I was watching this video by a historian I like on YouTube, and the video was about how high the infant mortality rate was in Medieval times, and I commented that a lot of women died young in childbirth as well. Seems pretty innocuous, and demonstrably true, right?
Apparently, I angered the men of the internet who raged that MEN ALSO DIED!
I had no idea so many men died in childbirth!

2025-05-22 14:02:42 UTC

This isn't a diet, it's a cry for help:
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2025-05-21 17:50:55 UTC

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To be fair, the man died of starvation in 1978, because he was sure someone was trying to poison him, and would only eat food his wife made, when she ended up in the hospital he just stopped eating.

2025-05-21 17:39:53 UTC

Welp...
Gödel's Loophole is a supposed "inner contradiction" in the Constitution of the United States which Austrian-American logician, mathematician, and analytic philosopher Kurt Gödel postulated in 1947. The loophole would permit the American democracy to be legally turned into a dictatorship. Gödel told his friend Oskar Morgenstern about the existence of the flaw and Morgenstern told Albert Einstein about it at the time, but Morgenstern, in his recollection of the incident in 1971, never mentioned the exact problem as Gödel saw it. This has led to speculation about the precise nature of what has come to be called "Gödel's Loophole." It has been called "one of the great unsolved problems of constitutional law" by American constitutional law scholar John Nowak.

2025-04-25 13:17:03 UTC

In Medieval Germany, they had what was called Marriage Duels, where a husband and wife could physically fight each other.
To make things fair, the husband had to stand in a hole with one hand tied behind his back, holding a sword in his free hand, while the woman hit him with a bag of rocks.
I'm going to bring this up every time someone has a problem with No Fault Divorce.
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2025-04-02 17:05:09 UTC

What is a good habit you've managed to cultivate for yourself? How did you do it, and why did you start?

2025-04-01 19:21:11 UTC

What are they hearing in the walls and ceilings, sci-fi/fantasy writing prompt answers only?
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2025-03-26 13:24:49 UTC

Slams on my brakes.
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2025-03-25 16:49:44 UTC

My Brother: What do they call those Catholic Glory Holes?
His BF: Are you talking about CONFESSIONALS?!

2025-03-22 15:36:32 UTC

Why does W have different rules than other letters?
Say these to yourself:
Fork
Cork
Work
Harp
Tarp
Warp
Cord
Lord
Word
Fonder
Ponder
Wonder

2025-03-20 15:25:28 UTC

If you asked someone to bring you a little treat, what things would be a little treat to you?

2025-03-19 15:36:53 UTC

Hubs: Why are you crying?!
Me: Vivaldi's Four Seasons
Hubs: What...

2025-03-17 12:50:54 UTC

Surprise Marriage Proposals feel weird to me. I get it as a token, but I can't imagine ever asking someone to marry me, unless we've had a long conversation about whether we'd like to commit to a long term relationship together. How often does surprising someone work out?

2025-03-16 04:27:23 UTC

We are often asked if we are willing to die for our truths, forget that, be willing to live for them. In a moment in our history where the few are trying to erase the accomplishment of the many, it is up to us to keep our stories alive. They want to hide the history and accomplishments of People of Color, women, LGBTQ+, and many others. We don't need the government to tell our stories, they should, of course, but we can tell them, we can archive, we can preach our own gospel. We will all die, this is our chance to live. Don't let them erase the good you and your ancestors put into the world. Don't let them take your history and your joy.

2025-03-15 00:45:54 UTC

Into The Unknown is a fan fiction story where Han Solo and Chewbacca crash land on Earth. Hans is killed by Native Americans, and then later his bones are discovered by Indiana Jones. Chewbacca becomes The Sasquatch.
It reminds me of Mormonism.

2025-03-14 14:43:41 UTC

We are scared and tired, and I'm seeing people lash out against each other here on Fedi, and it's not a good look. Before you start typing out an angry post about what Canada should do or America, or Europe, take a second to think, does this help or hurt? They want us divided and fighting amongst each other, we are easier to defeat that way. It's just not useful or helpful. So, what does help? Instead of blame game or just demanding someone fix this now, post concrete things people can actually do. If there is a boycott to take part in, a scheduled protest, a petition to sign, a politician to call or email, a cause to donate to, please share that in the comments and write your own post as well. We may not all agree on every detail, but I think overall we have similar values and goals, let's lean into that instead of away from it. I love you all, I want us all to live well and equitably.
Remember you can't fix everything, pick something you really care about and participate the best you can. Something is better than completely burning out, and not being able to do anything at all.
If you suggest acts of violence in my comments section, I will block you. What you do on your own account is up to you, but please respect my boundaries.

2025-03-07 21:48:42 UTC

How much is this worth?
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2025-03-05 16:32:22 UTC

I know that many of us are in precarious situations, and public demonstrations are out for a variety of reasons. So, if you can please take part in retailer boycotts. If you can avoid shopping at these places altogether, that's great, but anyone can do a day or even a week. Money matters to these people.
Here's a list of the upcoming boycotts:
Nestle: March 21-28
Walmart: April 7-14 and May 20-26
Second economic blackout: April 18
General Mills: April 21-28
Amazon: May 6-12
Target: June 3-9
McDonald's: June 24-30
Independence Day boycott: July 4
And this is probably obvious, but a list of companies Elon Musk owns, this would be a good time to make sure you aren't investing in him as much as possible:
Tesla
SpaceX
X (formerly Twitter)
Neuralink
xAI
The Boring Company

2025-03-05 14:44:54 UTC

I'm about to rant.
In every post about resistance there is a couple people in the comments who say something like,
Well, there won't even be fair elections. There's nothing we can do. People will never change. Nothing can be done. Why even try?
Are you fucking Russian plants?! What is this even for? If we are looking at the possibility of not having free elections, shouldn't we be fighting harder? Listen, I know you're scared, we all are, but instead of shitting on people who are actually trying, just admit your fear, instead of spreading nihilism and convincing people not to even try. Preparing yourself for the worst possible outcome, does nothing to stop the worst possible outcome, it just hastens it.
If you feel completely overwhelmed by all the terrible, maybe it's time to take a break, stop doomscrolling, and think about the kind of world you want to live in. Stop being a thief of hope.

2025-03-02 21:09:38 UTC

What is a small decision you made that had a huge impact on your life?

2025-03-02 02:59:49 UTC

Sometimes you know a job is toxic without ever having to work there.
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2025-02-25 22:35:48 UTC

One of the things that is really getting me watching these interviews with people who have been fired from their government jobs, is that so many of them took these lower paying jobs, because they wanted to do work they felt actually helped people. You don't often think of government work and passion as things that go together, but there really are people out there that care. These kind of people are worth fighting for. Keep speaking out.

2025-02-22 15:41:42 UTC

What is something you wished you understood sooner?
For me, I wish I understood that Contentment wasn't the default, it's something you work towards. I have to figure out what gives meaning to my existence, and that is something you never stop doing.

2025-02-19 17:48:26 UTC

The poor know how to survive without the rich, the rich cannot survive without the poor.

2025-02-19 13:36:52 UTC

What is it called when you're willing to let your child get a disease you never got because your parents gave you the cure, just to prove a point about Western Medicine that have been disproven decades ago?

2025-02-13 18:45:17 UTC

If you've been cooking for awhile, what's something you've learned that's made your life easier in the kitchen?
I'll start! Those fruits and vegetables you've been meaning to eat, won't get eaten if you don't prep them. If I have stuff like cucumber, carrot and celery sticks washed and ready to eat, everyone in the house is more likely to eat them. If I have a whole pineapple sitting in the fridge, it will keep sitting there, but if it's chunked up and ready to eat, it will get eaten really quick. I hate food waste, and this helps a lot.

2025-02-12 15:30:38 UTC

Hot Take:
It should be illegal to climb Mount Everest. It's been done, and now it's just covered in dead bodies and trash. It also costs 30k to climb the mountain, at the lowest end. This means the only people doing it are rich fucks. If you don't live there or you aren't a scientist, wtf are you doing, stop trying to prove your worth and do something worthy with an entire year's salary.

2025-02-11 14:59:04 UTC

It is painful watching people help dig their own graves, because they can't do 5 minutes of research.

2025-02-11 14:12:41 UTC

Day 2:
Hostess: Does everyone like Salmon and Bananas?
Guests: Sure...but you don't mean together, right? RIGHT?!
#VintageFood
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2025-02-10 14:32:16 UTC

I have a week's worth of amazing 70's food photos I must share.
Day 1: What is better than Noodles compressed into a ring so hard that it is now sliceable? Coating it in Velveeta and filling it with mushy Brussel Sprouts!
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2025-02-09 18:34:49 UTC

The concept of a dream job is so strange. If you have one that's cool, I don't personally dream of labor, but we can be different people with different interests. What we are really saying is that we want to get paid well for something we don't hate, but those jobs no one dreams about never go away. Someone will always be doing hard underappreciated work. No one dreams of cleaning toliets. There's all those pressure to find fulfilling work, but the reality is most work just isn't and never will be. Maybe you got lucky, and found one and I love it for you, but everyone acts like this will somehow be available for everyone if they just try hard enough. That is literally impossible. I don't really have a point, it just seems like one of those problems without a solution even in the most fair and balanced society.

2025-02-08 22:02:32 UTC

Stop telling people who are believing and working for a better future, all the reasons it can't happen! We need these people. You're angry, put your rage in the right place.

2025-02-08 21:36:23 UTC

Putting positive energy into the Universe.
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2025-02-08 17:25:12 UTC

The fact that Acting is a skill is so interesting. If you ask people to do human stuff, most of us are like, Nope, I have no idea how to do that, if I have to think about it.

2025-02-07 13:53:59 UTC

So tacky, who wears khakis to their own wedding?!
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2025-02-06 20:08:33 UTC

Since I'm on a rant today.
Remember who owns most media outlets.
Remember that they want you to feel hopeless amd helpless, like nothing we do matters.
Remember they want division.
Remember they want you to feel like everyone is against you, and there's no point trying.
Remember they are purposely not showing progressive wins, they are not showing protests.
Remember that seeds we sow take time to grow.
Remember it's okay to turn it off sometimes, and just enjoy the people and things you love.
Remember you are not alone.
"Empires always have the hubris to think they are indestructible, when in fact they are always unsustainable." - Marianne Williamson

2025-01-23 23:44:24 UTC

So, I'm staying at a rental for hub's birthday, and check out the art collection! Let me know which piece(s) speak to you the most.
Thread (I'm going to do my best on the alts here, but some of this is hard to explain)
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2025-01-22 14:21:33 UTC

Our time his finally come ladies!
https://media.beige.party/media_attachments/files/113/872/444/666/413/612/original/125fc4c84d3e0ae8.jpg

2025-01-05 15:19:30 UTC

Where do you fall in the Square?
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2024-12-25 02:27:07 UTC

Visiting the In-laws, and I've been told that COVID vaccines lower your immune system, and a rant about the Industrial Evangelical Complex, not because they're against religion, but because they're beliefs are so fringe now that they don't agree with any established religion.
I did get to eat some crab legs though.

2024-12-19 18:09:36 UTC

My favorite part about the Alpha Male culture is that some dudes said, No, actually I'm a Sigma Male, which is even better. Now they're having a Cat Fight about it online.

2024-12-18 01:05:50 UTC

Books are nearly the only space left where you can consume something for cheap or even free, and not be advertised to.

2024-11-28 18:11:16 UTC

Talking Points for Thanksgiving With MAGA Relatives:
Can't wait until we have to pay more for everything.
I heard Trump is giving Texas to Putin so we don't have to worry about illegal immigration.
97% of gender affirming surgeries on people under 18 are removing breast tissue for straight boys, I look forward to boys finally getting their boobs back.
Please add your own ideas.

2024-11-21 15:37:02 UTC

When I was born, my parents had a dog named Jamie, and Jamie took me on as a personal responsibility. When I got old enough to walk, if I went outside to play, Jamie would follow me the whole time. If I got near the edges of the yard, Jamie would grab my diaper and sit me on my butt, to let me know I wasn't allowed to leave the yard. She would also alert my parents if she thought I was getting into something, and they weren't paying enough attention. Later Jamie had one beautiful puppy we named JJ, and JJ thought that the diaper pulling was a hilarious game, and would chase me around the yard, and randomly sit me down, no matter where I was in the yard. Poor Jamie had to train both of us, she was such a sweet dog.
Tell me a nice pet story if you have one!

2024-11-15 18:18:18 UTC

This is my message to women, minorities, LGBTQ+, Disabled people, ect. Ruin their lives, tell on them, show them actions have consequences. Report everything you can, encourage others to do the same. This is my message to cis men, back them up, shame the assholes. Let's stand up for each other. Peer pressure can be used for good.
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2024-10-06 12:22:41 UTC

I never realized how much of my life revolved around my Mom. The empty space where she used to be is so present. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, not getting her up and ready. I'm in the grocery store, and see a coffee I'd think she'd like, and remember she's not there to drink it anymore. I've worked so hard taking care of other people for so long, I'm struggling on how to take care of myself. I know it's fresh, and I know one day soon, I'll appreciate the increased freedom more, but right now, all I can see is the empty space where she used to be. And the truth is, I don't want to feel better, and just get over it, I want to let the feelings work through me. They aren't bad, they are part of life, because death is a part of life, and people deserve to be grieved. I deserve to have the feelings I'm having, whatever they are.

2024-08-24 13:46:58 UTC

If you're ever scrolling online, and you see a piece of art, and you think, "Hey, that's nice, I like that!" Take the 30 seconds it takes to send that message. It can make such a huge difference to hear even one compliment. I know, I know, we shouldn't need so much validation merely to express ourselves through a medium, but art is a way to connect to other people for many people, and one nice comment can mean so much sometimes.

2024-08-04 21:30:13 UTC

Conservatives hate public good, if the government does something that helps the public cheaply or freely, they will try their hardest to privatize it. That's who they are, and what they work for. The most insane trick they ever managed was convincing way too large a group of people that they somehow don't deserve anything beneficial from the taxes they pay.

2024-07-31 19:35:17 UTC

I am sooo sick of watching people of color, women, LGBTQ+, and Disabled Persons having to explain to privileged fucks why they have the right to just exist.

2024-07-12 00:49:07 UTC

Things No One Tells You, But They Should:
All trauma you've repressed through your teens and 20's will come bite your ass in your 30's, you will not escape this reckoning.
What else do you wish someone would have told you?

2024-06-11 15:54:58 UTC

.Your Fat friends don't have to make you feel secure about your body.
.Disabled people aren't required to be "inspirational"
.And ffs People of Color don't have to make you feel better about your racist jokes and thoughts.
.LGBTQ+ People don't have to fit into your stereotype of them, to make you feel comfortable
.Women don't have to be maternal.
.Men don't have to be "strong and masculine".
.Older people don't have to be treated like children or be "sweet".
Feel free to add your own mini rant.

2024-06-04 16:15:11 UTC

99.9% of jobs do not require urgency of any kind, really they don't. We've all had a boss who acts like someone will die if we don't hit some made up deadline by people who don't even do the job. No one needs their meal 1 minute faster or the paperwork before tomorrow morning. Your time off actually doesn't need to wait. Sometimes I think about how legitimately bad most businesses are at time management and hiring, and I wonder how they manage to exist at all.