Dana Fried

Software wizard. Gym rat. Mom. Gamer.

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2026-03-31 14:12:37 UTC

TDOV reminder:
Trans men and nonbinary people exist.

2026-03-04 03:23:54 UTC

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it's the year of Linux on the Desktop (for real this time!)

2026-02-27 16:15:43 UTC

RE: https://front-end.social/@ksylor/116140779344249704
Apropos of nothing, the idea that you can measure developer contribution or value by number of PRs is fucking wild.
#note1vxj…5sdh

2026-02-11 07:56:05 UTC

Microsoft: I have made Notepad✨
Security researchers: You fucked up a perfectly good plaintext editor is what you did. Look at it. It's got RCEs.
https://www.cve.org/CVERecord?id=CVE-2026-20841

2026-01-24 02:02:27 UTC

Democratic Party candidates should be held to the same standard as my church holds its ministers.
If you've never been arrested at a civil rights protest, you at least have to make a convincing argument why not.

2026-01-15 14:18:08 UTC

Sometimes I daydream about retiring and opening a coffee shop with my wife called "Les Beans"

2026-01-05 17:11:41 UTC

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Look, I know many of you do not play the critically-acclaimed MMORPG with the free trial that goes to level 70 including two award-winning expansions, but holy shit if nothing else the music in this game absolutely fucks.
Like, to the point where the guitar player from Rage Against the Machine just composed and sent them a track, because he wanted to be a part of it.

2026-01-05 17:07:33 UTC

Now listening:
Pulse: FINAL FANTASY XIV DJ Remix - Vol. 1 & 2
ft: Lo-Fi Girl Spinningway
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvkuwIDPtLc

2026-01-01 23:49:13 UTC

- You remind me of the babe.
- What babe?
- The babe with the power.
- What power?
- The power to be surrounded by terrifying puppets without freaking out because he was (accidentally) bred for that specific purpose.
https://www.pdxmonthly.com/arts-and-culture/2014/06/toby-the-baby-from-labyrinth-grows-up-to-be-a-goblin-king-june-2014

2025-11-26 02:03:48 UTC

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This does suggest Democrats could win with a Mamdani-style platform of Medicare for All and free public transit.
(I mean we already knew this, but I'm glad someone is explaining it in a way the CFAs can understand.)

2025-11-26 01:41:22 UTC

This is an insightful but deeply upsetting article about why everyone in the US feels poor, and why the current political situation emerges as a direct result.
TL;DR: the *actual* poverty line in the US for a family of four with two young children is about $140,000, and there isn't much improvement in quality of life between $40K and $100K.
https://www.yesigiveafig.com/p/part-1-my-life-is-a-lie

2025-11-24 17:51:37 UTC

Some helpful advice for all you software devs:
- You cannot solve social problems with code
- You cannot improve a system until you understand why it works the way it does
- You cannot produce tools for someone else without understanding how they work and what they are trying to accomplish

2025-11-05 18:01:59 UTC

It looks like interaction between a planet's primary atmosphere and magma on the surface early in its formation could lead to the generation of a significant amount of water.
This would mean that a planet might not need to accrete water purely from the protoplanetary disk in order to be habitable.
We are starting to build better models of planet formation thanks to research like this!
https://phys.org/news/2025-10-large-quantities-natural-consequence-planet.html

2025-10-26 13:59:38 UTC

From the other site:
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/115/440/819/312/999/789/original/97e9ac98ecdf8e7a.png

2025-10-12 14:12:27 UTC

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I've found it so hard to find books I wanna read written in French that I've started buying translations of stuff I would have bought in English instead.
Fedi: does anyone here have recommendations for books in French by francophone authors (from anywhere) that fall into some subset of queer, cozy, and/or F/SF?
Not looking for serious horror, lit fic, or straight romance.
Thanks and please boost!
#askfedi #bookrecommendations

2025-10-12 14:01:29 UTC

I'd intended to read a few pages of this before I tucked myself in for the night, and when I looked up I'd torn through 130 pages.
It's good, y'all.
(English title: Deep Dark, by Lee Knox Ostertag)
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/115/361/555/900/991/896/original/a249e6e234205d7d.jpg

2025-09-23 03:53:27 UTC

One of the great things about Mastodon is if you need a computer to do something:
- Seventeen people will just tell you to use Linux
- Eleven people will recommend an app that won't run on your hardware
- Six people will recommend something you have to build and/or host yourself
- Three will recommend a service that costs $20/mo and does none of what you want
- ... and one will have built EXACTLY the thing you need, ten years ago, because they had the same problem
Gods bless this site.

2025-09-22 15:27:39 UTC

I assure you that banning one of the few medicines pregnant women are still allowed to take is not going to result in the birth of more white babies.

2025-09-18 18:22:29 UTC

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I cannot believe there are no One Piece fans here on fedi

2025-09-18 15:44:04 UTC

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I, and I say this in all seriousness and in full knowledge of how this makes me appear by posting it from my public persona, absolutely would

2025-09-18 15:43:57 UTC

I am far enough behind in One Piece that it took me two days to realize that all of the fem!law posting wasn't just creative fanart.
Eiichiro Oda is fuckin' wild, man

2025-09-09 18:27:29 UTC

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if hormones only did something for 2-5 years then 30-something women would look like 17-year-old girls.

2025-08-01 03:31:33 UTC

Just a reminder to anyone thinking of following me:
I accept all followers who at first glance seem reasonably likely to be an actual person. I probably let a few bots through by being lenient, to be honest.
However, an account with no profile and zero public posts is going to be a "no" every time.
I realize some people do not post public at all; that's fine. But understand that I have no idea who or what you are and as a result you go in the bit bucket.

2025-07-18 00:53:12 UTC

Hey Stephen Colbert,
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/114/871/497/411/733/192/original/46946a3ac44f3337.png

2025-07-14 12:06:37 UTC

My kid's summer camp is powered by a massive solar array. Underneath is a pen with chickens and a goat. The area is surrounded by wind turbines, farms, and rolling hills, and just generally looks like the backdrop from a Studio Ghibli film.
Solarpunk-ass nonsense. I love it.

2025-06-04 15:54:48 UTC

French dares to ask the question: what if a language lost all its finals but then completely failed to develop compensatory tone?
#linguistics

2025-05-21 13:07:11 UTC

I love how much you can tell about chip manufacturers by how they name their products.
Intel's latest workstation CPU is called "Emerald Rapids", evoking a pleasant - if perhaps at times bumpy - ride through a beautiful forest.
AMD named theirs THREADRIPPER 9000

2025-05-03 15:08:29 UTC

Since living in a place with wildfires I have an indoor air quality meter and a thing I have found is that those candles with the wood wicks absolutely destroy the air, while soy candles with cotton wicks don't affect it at all (200 μg/m³ PM2.5 vs literally 2)

2025-04-09 23:18:00 UTC

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A personal anecdote:
I spent a lot of my derby career skating in a pretty standard uniform: tank jersey, leggings or athletic shorts, long socks for protection.
But every once and a while I'd skate in booty shorts, or fishnets, or a bikini bottom.
I did it because I wanted to fuck with people, not because I wanted people to think I was sexy. Showing borderline inappropriate amounts of skin was a way for me to say "fuck you, I can kick your ass naked".
(And then I did.)

2025-04-09 23:10:46 UTC

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We can reclaim sexy! But we do this by taking these characters from being objects to being subjects.
This is why, e.g. Bayonetta is *both* porny and empowered*, while many other characters are not. It's why we still argue over whether early Lara Croft is good or bad representation**.
We need more sexy characters written by women even as we push back against porny characters written by and for men.
* if you ignore the most recent game, anyway
** she's both

2025-04-09 23:05:55 UTC

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The answer to that is that, society conditions us to see physical beauty and desirability as our most important attribute. We are rewarded for looking more conventionally attractive and punished for deviating.
So identifying with objects of desire; dressing as objects of desire - that feels good. Posing for the camera in our heads feels good. Getting positive feedback on our appearance from others feels good.
But it feels good because society tells us it's how we derive our value.

2025-04-09 23:02:54 UTC

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I don't think any of that is controversial. But maybe this is something that will be:
A common reaction to criticism of porny characters is to point to women who like those characters: who find them empowering; who cosplay as those characters; etc.
And, okay, I'm not gonna yuck anyone else's yum. But I would also beg you to consider: *why* do women find these characters empowering? *Why* do they want to cosplay them? *Why* can a degree of objectification feel good?

2025-04-09 22:59:22 UTC

Watching my favorite semi-reactionary lady YouTuber doing a video about sexualization of female characters in video games.
Not gonna engage directly with it, but I Have Thoughts™️
Women characters - in any medium - created by men for [straight] men feel icky.
There's a very clear difference between sexy and porny. When a character is very obviously something for men to fap to or a projection of the creator(s)' fetishes, you can tell. You *feel* it. And it's okay to not like that.

2025-03-17 02:03:53 UTC

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If you're using an LLM to write code, you need to treat the output exactly the same as a random answer from Stack Overflow, or some shit an intern wrote.
It might be great! It might miss corner cases! It might completely misunderstand the codebase and use APIs incorrectly, or just not compile, or solve the wrong problem!
If you're employed as a software developer, it's *your* responsibility to proofread anything you didn't write yourself (and also, to be fair, the stuff you did actually write)

2025-03-17 02:00:34 UTC

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I used to say that the most important skill I had as a software developer was google-fu, because 99% of the time someone else had already solved the problem I was trying to solve (sorry @npub1tq4…6nqn - you seem to be perennially in that other 1%).
But I never blindly submitted Code I Got From The Internet without at least trying to understand (a) what it did, and (b) why it worked. Also: (c) writing tests to ensure it actually did work.
Sometimes the code snippet from SO was actually kinda bullshit.

2025-03-17 01:56:19 UTC

I don't know who I have to say this to, but:
If you put your name on a professional product - whether that's a pull request, a legal brief, a business report, or anything else - you are responsible for the quality and correctness of that product.
Corollary: I doesn't matter if you use an LLM, task an intern, hire a temp, or crib from Stack Overflow. You had better be able to vouch for the final product.
If you cannot, you are making it clear that you cannot be trusted to properly do your job.

2025-03-02 07:02:55 UTC

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I am starting to believe that PC gamers think anything less than 120FPS at 4K with max settings is "bad performance" and "unplayable" and "looks terrible".
Either that or I just happen to have one of the most popular gaming laptops of 2022 with a really stock chip and as it turns out the game and all of the drivers are just kinda made for my hardware despite it being underpowered.

2025-03-02 06:58:56 UTC

Monster Hunter Wilds update:
I updated my drivers, and despite having just below the recommended specs the game runs... perfectly?
Like, yeah, the textures kinda suck and the characters look like Mass Effect (2007) but my understanding is that that's just the way the game looks; artistic vision and everything.
Given I'm running in 1600x1000 with dynamic resolution, so the game is probably dropping down to like 800x600 during heavy action but I'm not seeing stutters or significant drops.

2025-03-01 20:15:29 UTC

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lol
lmao

2025-03-01 19:57:54 UTC

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I have definitely used their refund policy before but I'm just not sure I want the emotional damage.

2025-03-01 19:37:18 UTC

Monster Hunter Wilds Question
Since I know a lotta gaming nerds follow me:
I got a two year old gaming laptop that allegedly meets the recommended PC requirements (just barely) - what is the chance the actual game will not run and/or look like shit on my PC?
For reference: the benchmark crashes immediately on start; doesn't even get past compiling shaders.

2025-02-20 21:11:04 UTC

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thank you for this perspective. It was hard for me to see why these media were so ineffective at getting their point across - I think a lot of us chalk it up to "media literacy" or lack thereof.
You've helped me see that the reality is that they weren't critiques at all.

2025-02-20 20:05:45 UTC

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it's funny because I initially read it as parody; a scathing indictment of the system.
The overbearing teacher abuses the terrified territories, while the Black child is forced to work instead of being educated; the foreign child is left outside in the cold; the Native child is being forced to assimilate without being given any resources; and the mostly white states sit happily ignoring all of this abuse.
And conservatives of the time saw this and were like, "that's good, actually".

2025-02-06 16:55:57 UTC

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It is not possible to have code deal with the real world on its own. The smartest guy cannot code a system that will handle, say, land title (regardless of what the crypto bros would tell you).
Corner cases (and people) will inevitably fall through the cracks; systems will fail; exceptions will happen, and you need humans to deal with that.
Even Amazon, who've come as close to perfecting supply chain as one could, have an army of customer service agents and generous policies to compensate.

2025-02-06 16:51:42 UTC

As someone who has worked in supply chain automation, there is no elegant code solution to real-world problems.
Even Amazon, who one might argue has perfected the art of moving and tracking large numbers of things, has done so through (a) massive investment in infrastructure and (b) hiring a massive number of human employees who are (c) held to inhumanly strict rules in (d) a mostly closed and highly-controlled environment.
Real life is messy; you need people (and often experts) to manage it.

2025-01-29 15:55:23 UTC

Apropos of nothing, every time I see "ducking" (in the sense of dropping audio levels briefly to ensure the user hears a sound) my brain immediately assumes it's an autocorrect error and I have to convince it otherwise.

2025-01-28 12:45:15 UTC

I just paid rent. It was free, through my bank app, and got to my landlord basically instantly. All I needed was my property manager's email address.
I could send money to a friend the same way.
This doesn't sound much different than ACH or PayPal but I assure you it is 1000% nicer.
One of the many things you don't realize living in the US is how much friction is added to basically everything you do to ensure some middleman or service provider can profit off of it.

2025-01-20 16:49:06 UTC

Yo
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/joe-biden-leonard-peltier-clemency_n_67608b04e4b0d06419ec6367?ds

2025-01-18 16:16:10 UTC

Considering signing up for a pixelfed account to replace insta for posting random pics (not that I normally do but...)
I would prefer to pick a server based outside the US. Is pixelfed.de a good choice, or do people recommend something else?

2025-01-02 15:43:33 UTC

Absolutely frigid take: there needs to be a coat/purse hook in every public bathroom.

2024-12-06 21:43:14 UTC

https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/608/056/675/002/866/original/d2ef3087db60b04a.jpg

2024-11-30 04:46:52 UTC

Looked up the 2024 model of my laptop. It's about 18% faster than the 2022 model. That's basically nothing. But it has AI tensor cores (lol).
Friends, we've officially hit the end of Moore's law. And I know this because they haven't figured out a way to offer faster computers to gamers.

2024-11-29 20:12:20 UTC

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I love that the only platform more male-dominated than X is Quora, aka "mansplaining as a service"

2024-11-29 20:11:04 UTC

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X users: maidenless

2024-11-27 18:04:22 UTC

tfw u have been doing computers for a very, very long time
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/556/231/116/351/225/original/1c19c442df68b30f.jpg

2024-11-26 09:47:37 UTC

Controversial opinion:
It's fine for social media servers to delete posts or censure users who post art that, while not technically illegal, appears to depict sexualized children, or sexualized characters who appear underage (even if they are supposedly a 5,000 year old dragon or sentient anthropomorphic car or some shit).
Likewise, it's 100% fine for servers to nuke posts that seem e.g. racist, even if the author intends them to be some kind of galaxy-brain-level parody.

2024-11-22 20:00:36 UTC

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also, ugh, that could be a whole thread in itself 🙃

2024-11-22 19:58:45 UTC

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I sometimes worry that a lot of what is possible is still being dictated by specific technological and architectural choices rather than "what would be best for people".
This is an issue I deal with all the time at work; the kind of "we want experience X but we currently have system Y" and IMO one difference between a good and a great developer is whether they choose Y or X as their starting point for building the thing.

2024-11-22 19:56:39 UTC

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I think they are certainly exploring new paradigms for dealing with especially things like context collapse; I think we also need to look back at ideas like G+ circles as ways to deal with some of the "whom can I see/who can see me" questions.
Regardless, we need to be very open-minded about experimenting with new (and old) tools and see what actually works to achieve the types of spaces we want and then be very deliberate about what we implement and use.

2024-11-22 17:02:54 UTC

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this is really good
I wonder whether "light forests" (savannas? glades?) - public, community focused networks with strong moderation - can exist long-term alongside the dark forests?
Like, do all of the safe spaces have to be in small caves and burrows, or can we keep enough of the monsters out of places like here and bluesky to stake out a region on the surface? Will context collapse and bad incentives always end up bringing the wolves and bears?

2024-11-20 09:09:20 UTC

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too true
(This was prompted by a French contributor trying to roll back all the gender neutral language in the French localization of the BlueSky code because it was not - in his opinion - approved by l'Academie and therefore improper French.)

2024-11-20 09:00:05 UTC

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see! It's easy!

2024-11-20 08:59:30 UTC

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You can just make up words in English. You can wordiate. See, I just did it right there. I wordiated.
More importantly, you understood me - and therefore it's English.
Isn't language cool?

2024-11-20 08:54:39 UTC

I think French is hilarious because there's like fifty guys who get to say what the language is.
Nobody can say what English is. We literally don't know. Stick out your gyatt for the rizzler? Sure, whatever. Nobody gives a shit.

2024-11-16 20:12:01 UTC

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I needed to be on there chasing clout months ago so I could be in a bunch of "women in tech" starter packs now; I have evidently missed the bus

2024-11-16 19:42:54 UTC

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So far they are deeply uninterested lol

2024-11-16 19:41:23 UTC

Doing a little A/B testing on the Other Site to see what gets traction; it is Extremely Different from on here.

2024-11-15 16:46:56 UTC

Clinic time!
I know OO programming is slightly out of fashion but in my experience it's the only good way to build flexible, extensible systems, especially in large, complex software projects.
Here are some of the best pieces of advice I can give based on decades of experience:
- think conceptually, not functionally
- decompose and encapsulate
- small abstract APIs at touch points
- mock, isolate, and unit test the shit out of all your little components
- always put readability above all

2024-11-09 19:00:48 UTC

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precisely!
In all seriousness: the reason moose does not umlaut is that it was borrowed from Algonquian "moos" during the Modern English period, over a thousand years after the sound change that produced umlaut.
There have been pre-Old English sound changes that have been generalized to other words, but that's typically Indo European ablaut (e.g. sing -> sang -> sung) which has spread to verbs like sneak and dive.

2024-11-09 17:09:54 UTC

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Fun fact: English has umlauts!
Goose -> geese is an umlaut; it's just that the öö sound has merged with ee in the modern language.
Same with mouse -> mice, etc.

2024-11-09 17:06:41 UTC

Explaining to my kid the difference between dieresis, umlaut, and heavy metal umlaut.
#linguistics

2024-11-05 15:49:57 UTC

Coming up for air to say:
USAmericans, if you do anything today, *please vote*.
And if you care for your fellow LGBT and immigrant fedi users, I beg you, even if you are in a "safe" state, *please consider voting for Kamala Harris*.
We may need commanding popular and electoral college wins in order to quell potential violence from election deniers, even after this is all settled.
Okay, gonna submerge and go silent again. Take care of yourselves, and if you haven't voted yet, godspeed.

2024-11-05 05:43:51 UTC

Going to go radio silent for my own sanity.
Take care; and I hope we still have a country on the other side.
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/428/749/391/637/172/original/84c77fdcffab1433.mp4

2024-11-04 19:50:30 UTC

If you want a really fun police procedural that also says ACAB, check out "Elsbeth" (available on various streaming services).
It's a spin-off of "The Good Wife" where an oddball former criminal defense attorney and current DOJ attorney gets embedded in the NYPD as part of a consent decree (because they are so incredibly bad at solving murders) and ends up doing their work for them (while simultaneously investigating them for corruption).

2024-10-30 16:58:29 UTC

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It's me.
Hi.
I'm the solution, it's me.

2024-10-30 16:49:35 UTC

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When I described the meme I intended to create, my wife pointed out that my code still generates the boilerplate, but deterministically, in the compiler.
Which I am 100% okay with.

2024-10-30 16:43:45 UTC

Posted without comment.
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/397/367/005/721/181/original/6d3adc26a2a6bee3.jpg

2024-10-29 22:40:58 UTC

It's rare to see such an honest infographic outside of, say, The Onion, but CNN Money just made this a feature of their daily market forecast
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/393/111/456/874/443/original/4670ae5a8e30ef18.png

2024-10-20 08:05:53 UTC

If (like me) you use #ASMR videos as relaxation aids, you may have noticed that the audio quality of some videos has become inconsistent or even jarring lately.
YouTube has introduced a normalization setting that forces all volume into a single more listenable range, like most broadcast radio uses. It's great for many videos, but terrible for ASMR (and probably classical music as well).
To disable it, tap the gear icon, go to additional settings, and turn off "stable volume".

2024-10-17 03:48:02 UTC

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injecting a soul into something soulless like a sorcerer of eld

2024-10-16 19:39:35 UTC

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oh sorry for some reason my mobile client responded to the wrong post 🙃

2024-10-16 19:17:39 UTC

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you say that like it's a bad thing

2024-10-14 16:54:15 UTC

Happy Indigenous People's Day!
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/306/814/907/794/307/original/a729f2265e67b3fc.jpg

2024-10-13 21:14:34 UTC

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do you have access to a full version of this? Because I do not.

2024-10-13 21:07:35 UTC

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what the ACTUAL fuck
EDIT: this piece is apparently a form of satire, and the fact that I could not read the whole thing due to not being a subscriber made it difficult to determine that
I suspect that, perhaps, this is not the best way for the LAT to present such material

2024-10-12 17:32:32 UTC

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it could be worse. Somehow I ended up a dance mom.

2024-10-10 00:18:03 UTC

Artist unknown
"Compliance" 2024
Federal property on concrete
https://files.mastodon.social/media_attachments/files/113/280/241/895/127/787/original/f03afca1123f5333.jpg

2024-10-08 15:22:16 UTC

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I think this is mitigated by account size and reach; certain accounts seem to be swamped with low quality replies, while others are not.
I get a lot of low-SNR replies but not as much reply-guying or mansplaining, but I suspect that's a product of my posting style and content. I also publicly shame egregious RGs, which probably helps.

2024-10-07 00:11:54 UTC

Anybody wanna help me start and/or fund a company to replace WordPress with something written in a sensible language, with modern architecture principles?
Potential market is evidently half the pages on the Web.

2024-10-05 04:02:05 UTC

If you want to do a thing online (and I do not care what that thing is) you can finance it in one or more of exactly five different ways:
1. Advertising
2. Subscriptions
3. Selling shit
4. Donations
5. Crimes
If your organization is large and would like some measure of stability, you're really limited to the first three.
This post is a general statement about the world, but also it is not *not* a post about the Mozilla Foundation.

2024-10-02 19:30:37 UTC

Sometimes it boggles my mind how in my lifetime, we've gone from "I wonder if any other stars have planets like our sun?" to "pretty much all of them lol"

2024-10-01 23:06:56 UTC

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Honestly, California is moving very quickly in the same direction.
We're only a few years from having massive publicly-sanctioned shantytowns in our major cities, with increasingly severe penalties for anyone caught sleeping or loitering outside them.

2024-10-01 23:04:46 UTC

Star Trek didn't get the Bell Riots completely wrong; Florida will be mandating the creation of Sanctuary Districts as of January 1st:
https://apnews.com/article/florida-homeless-ban-poverty-a70d27efb0ec5f41bfb3d6c2facc8f84

2024-10-01 18:59:17 UTC

Sorry that I am shouting about Zelda in everyone's timeline.
(not sorry)

2024-09-29 17:17:44 UTC

It never stops at just trans issues, or LGBTQ+ issues, or even abortion - Russia is now cracking down on people who talk openly about not wanting to have children:
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/russia-proposes-ban-child-free-lifestyle-rcna172616
This is the exact same movement and thought process that gives us Vance's "childless cat ladies". And believe me, if the natalist fascists in the US could ban the child-free movement, they absolutely would.

2024-09-23 20:04:44 UTC

Today is bi day of visibility and based on observations I can confidently say that bi people are extremely cute

2024-09-16 20:25:19 UTC

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we've always said, it's way better to let a few rich people get a benefit than put in the infrastructure to means-test it, because the latter will always both cost more and exclude people who actually need the program.
(Also giving everyone a benefit makes it much harder to characterize as "welfare" and therefore politically more challenging to gut when conservatives get into power.)

2024-09-12 22:15:44 UTC

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what exactly is your goal for working out your upper body then?
I can probably answer this if I know what you're aiming for.

2024-09-09 21:11:13 UTC

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Finally, while I'm sure there's some technical reason why it wouldn't work, I personally don't see why you couldn't build an open-source, fedi-compatible midi-blogging service with a format like cohost.
Very little of the functionality there is functionality we don't (at least theoretically) have over here, somewhere. That's not to say it wouldn't be a major effort to build it, just that "tumblr, but fedi and with custom CSS" is entirely manageable.
I hope someone does it!
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2024-09-09 21:08:03 UTC

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One of the things that makes no-ads, no-profit-motive social media possible is *acknowledging* that creating a social space is demanding and expensive - that some communities might dissolve - and planning ahead of time for that.
I've been on a number of message boards and moderated newsgroups. Nothing lasts forever. The important thing isn't a forever service; it's a combination of preserving what's there (which Cohost is doing) and providing people a way to exit gracefully.
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