Mati | The Autistic Coach on Nostr: A lot of autistic folx think they don’t have boundaries. But often what they mean ...
A lot of autistic folx think they don’t have boundaries.
But often what they mean is that we were punished every time we tried to have them.
So we learned to call their needs “too much”, to call discomfort “being difficult” & to call self-abandonment “coping.”
But it’s not too late.
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2026-05-02 18:03:28 UTCEvent JSON
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