I don’t have much emotional empathy, so if I found use for it I could certainly use you selfishly with no regard for your moment to moment comfort or pain. But my strong ethics means that I’d limit myself to things that made sure that, once you decided you’d had enough, you wouldn’t be trapped or damaged in a way that prevents you from being able to enjoy the rest of your life.
Is this amenable to you? Or does the idea of me looking out for your wellbeing at all ruin it?
