fiatjaf on Nostr: I'm trying to message myself (from a new random key) from Coop to Gossip and the UI ...

I'm trying to message myself (from a new random key) from Coop to Gossip and the UI says I "User's didn't have inbox relays to receive message.", but I do have a kind 10050 event with two relays in it (just published). What do I do now?