well you were the one who brought up the comparison with homophobia.
While I agree that there exist some extreme anti-c people who behave basically like antis in many ways, I don't think that's the majority. Even the ones who are too extreme anti-c in my opinion are just like that because of their past experiences, and they won't change by you getting mad at them or pointing out how wrong they are.
But regardless of which one of us is correct on that, my main point is that it should be possible to exist in online MAP spaces and work together on shared goals towards proper MAP rights *without* getting sucked into debates about contact stances. All of us MAPs - even the bigoted ones - deserve at least that small measure of safety from the relentless hate we get from society.
Elias :cl2:
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