I would my ideas to be either:
- reinforced by logic and compassion and then acted upon, OR
- dismantled by logic and shame and then forgotten.
Since LLM's offer none of those essential tools, they're not useful in decision making.
To your example: a good friend may tell me to not do the public speaking because it gives me stress I don't need and I'm allowed to opt out. ChatGPT would never produce such insight, so at best it's a risky waste of time.