Yea I had done all that. Still doesn't work.
Here's a thing I don't understand... I use Primal and ai can zap there and receive, it seems, Primal is its own wallet as well.
Now when I also use Damus and connect via Alby to my own LN node... when someone zaps me, how does Nostr know where the sats should go? Into my Primal wallet or into my Alby wallet??