mleku on Nostr: which, do you actually know? because i tried, i'm developing one and my only solution ...

which, do you actually know? because i tried, i'm developing one and my only solution ended up being a VPS with wireguard and a reverse proxy and domain name... if you only run the relay on 443/80 and nothing else then you can skip the domain name and TLS, since after all it's going through a tunnel after that, and just use a firewall port forward on the VPS