I hopped you can see how even the truth can end up twisted and exaggerated. My issues continue to be with how you handled the whole thing. You’ve seen how beings can twist annd exaggerate about you, even without necessarily realizing what they’re doing. It is not somehow different with an accusation. The idea that accusations should be believed outright and used as justification for what was done to me is exactly the sort of cultural aspect of mainstream social justice culture that marginalizes paras in a way we have to do away with.
I just want you to recognize that the way you dealt with the situation was wrong. That “believe victims” presupposes victims in a way that is no worse than presupposing guilt. You believe and take seriously enough to investigate, not enough to facilitate witch hunts.
đ’€Aco
npub1cy…urcga
2026-07-20 17:12:34 UTC
in reply to nevent1q…5az7
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