I had this discussion with a former friend that he needed to encourage his wife to give up on trying to hold a part-time job, stay at home, and raise and teach the kids.
The school was treating them as invalids and delinquents when they were putting them next to the troublemakers, but not disciplining. Meanwhile, his wife was having trouble holding a well-paying job and daycare costs $800 a month.
Maybe we need more stay-at-home mother's and fewer schools.