Conny with a Y :tinoflag: on Nostr: Well, most adults these days do online shopping. Would that be an option he'd accept? ...

Well, most adults these days do online shopping. Would that be an option he'd accept? Obviously, you'd need to agree on an appropriate budget first, as you do when you're an adult.
Being able to buy something with their own money provides a new level of agency for tamariki. I had underestimated how important it was for them.
A nice budget rule is: whatever money you get in a week/month is yours to decide about. Anything that costs more than that has to be discussed with parents.