... and for any fags and foids lurking and baffled about the above...
my point is that for men, emotional regulation is not a full-time job. It's a higher order effect of tangible successes and desired outcomes men attain in the real world.
Perhaps for you, emotional regulation and learning how to manipulate your own feelings properly is a skill that has to be learned independently. A time-consuming endeavor. That's because you're a fag or a foid