No you can't. You can influence a lot of things, but in the end you control nothing but yourself.
If you take on responsibility for things outside your control you will make yourself miserable. Fewer things in life I am more sure of. This is just the way it is.
hmichellerose / HannahMR
npub1tv…4jlst
2026-03-30 17:53:48 UTC
in reply to nevent1q…6d2k
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