You women can judge men however you want. But as a man, a man who complains about paying for a woman’s meal is basically poor and worthless. A women’s time is worth more then a meal, and she’s being generous by wasting it hanging out with some random who wants to put their dick in her.
Buying a girl a dinner shouldn’t impact your wallet … at all. If you can’t afford a few dinner dates, you’re worthless as a man in this world.
Sorry, but if you’re born with a dick, that’s the game you play.