Fi 🏳️‍⚧️ on Nostr: But the critical thing to note here is that you yourself aren't really bringing ...

But the critical thing to note here is that you yourself aren't really bringing anything new to the situation; you're holding their attention while they reflect their internal state off of you and then work out what it means.

The meaning is something they bring themselves; it's nothing you're actually involved with other than providing the time and space for them to suss that out.