If they are onboarding to a custodian, they are not on boarding in my opinion.
I don't shame them. I also agree with you that normies won't have a node. That's the problem with lightning. And I agree we should be working to on board as many people. I think lightning is a bad way to do it. That's the disagreement. Lightning will never be for normies. That doesn't mean push them to custodial lightning. It means come up with a solution normies CAN use custodially.
OceanSlim
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2026-07-07 14:27:05 UTC
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