I really do empathise, but I also think that being misread in bad faith is just part of being a writer. I've had some truly hideous misreadings of my work, and well... I don't know whether an LLM can do shit to stop that without completely defanging my work?
I'm now in the habit of running my posts through an LLM just to check for blind spots or ways my words might be misunderstood. It’s actually proving to be helpful.
It feels like once your audience reaches a certain size, someone is guaranteed to misread you, sometimes in bad faith. Some people get upset at subtext that isn't even there. Avoiding ambiguous wording appears to be helping.
But I do appreciate the irony: trying to avoid conflict by using an LLM on the Fediverse is almost certainly going to spark a completely different argument.