And when you make me play this game as a Fediverse admin of guilt by association, or issues between two admins, or whatever the fuck, I stop caring! Because while I wish all admins well, esp. those of servers we directly federate with, I do not want to be caught up in your drama! I do not care!
Stop defederating for personal reasons! And if you *are* going to defederate for personal reasons, please don't put it all over my feed! Thank you!!