La Brunette on Nostr: The sex scenery is legal and vast in here, but everything is filmed, and I'm not ok ...

The sex scenery is legal and vast in here, but everything is filmed, and I'm not ok with this. I tried a website at some point but it felt like it was more for lonely people to brag. Tinder used to be somehow nice but everyone felt fake. I had more fun recently in Italy in a lesbian bar. It was a one-time thing but I went all in. Black biker boots, black tight leather pants, black crop top, black eyeliner, and so on. I wanted to let them see every muscle that I worked on all these years and to impose "who's the boss" from the moment I stepped in. Sexually, it wasn't a big deal, but I had a lot of fun slapping a chick while her girlfriend was watching. Also, some hair pulling, choking, etc. I want to go harder on a different occasion, to test a few limits.
Anyway, it wasn't a proper BDSM experience, at least how I imagine it.