True love is not found while constraints are put on one of them. If you are not truly free and unoppressed, including by opportunity and financially, you are being coercively controlled. It’s so normalized in this world men EXPECT to coercively control women as a right. And they hate feminists & independent women who are capable of surviving that way despite the horrendous conditions they give to us.
Because we are seeking the love. Men are seeking a labourer..