Which is that masculinity is a zen state.
You can't achieve it by grasping for it, the standards set by other people are always shifting, and bowing to the standards of another person is itself unmasculine.
you achieve ultimate masculinity by not giving a shit about what does or doesn't look good to your buddies.
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