The above thread is hardly all someone would need to know about Bestie. I described one of her most difficult behaviors without any context.
There is a lot more to what Bestie & I have than that. The reason everyone HAS been accommodating her, even though it's uncomfortable, is because we all think she's great. We love her. We want her to be in our life.
I'm trying to increase the longevity & quality of this friendship, if I can, not blow it up.