to be extra considerate I try to add #ALT4you when I do this.
If you still get shit because someone is too thick to filter your account and/or that hash, they're easily blocked, which solves the problem just fine from my perspective.
FWIW, some of the most wholesome interactions on the Fediverse stem from #alt4me / #alt4you interaction. If someone's actively avoiding that or even pissing on it, it really is only their sad loss.