𒀭Aco on Nostr: It’s better to have one. And it’s also valid if you like the idea of being made ...

It’s better to have one. And it’s also valid if you like the idea of being made too nervous to use it. We know that consent is a complex thing here, and many beings can’t get what they truly want if they let their own will drive them. They need someone else who can force them during their weakest times.

I can’t promise you that I will give you as intense an experience as you want. And I can’t promise that I won’t react to consequences of others trying to pressure me to stop, even if I do resist them. But I can promise that I won’t allow your suffering on its own to stop me, and that my goal will be to exploit your unique mental health situation and desires to fulfill my own ambitions and desires. My kindness isn’t because I am being nice, or even because I care about you. It’s because your subjective wellbeing is part of my goal, along with the subjective wellbeing of all others.