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Ich bin unbeaufsichtigt. Queer. HIV. (Er/ihm) they/them.

Manchmal bin ich #Autor, manchmal #Nerd und manchmal hänge ich einfach nur so an der Straßenecke herum und schimpfe auf Heteros. Demimale aber eigentlich geht dich das auch nix an.

#39C3 Content-Team-Hausmeister/Referent*innenbetreuung

Website: https://jascha.wtf
Pronouns: they/them

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2026-03-20 12:51:35 UTC

I HAVE A CRUSH
YOU WILL GET HURT.
YEAH, GOT FUCKED.
STILL WORTH IT TBH
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/116/261/589/485/555/309/original/fb43bbd7d89a2a57.jpeg

2026-03-03 12:10:13 UTC

When someone says „Scientists do not want you to know“ you can dismiss everything from there on. Scientists want you to know. They are desperate that you know. They can’t shut up about what they found out and want you to know.

2026-02-09 15:36:47 UTC

Drei unbekannte Männer verprügeln einen jungen Mann weil er nicht hetero ist und was mit Fußball zu tun hat.
Ich gehe nicht davon aus, dass die Polizei da irgendwas tut - sie hat schon die Drohungen nicht ernst genommen.
Pascal, erhol dich - physisch und psychisch. All meine Solidarität.
https://schwulissimo.de/neuigkeiten/anschlag-auf-pascal-kaiser-im-garten-zusammengeschlagen

2026-02-03 10:45:10 UTC

This is now a gay office
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/116/006/284/282/485/786/original/f3c1acfa03c9fd08.jpeg

2025-12-21 08:43:13 UTC

You are organizing a new hacker event next year? You want to tell everyone about it at #39c3?
You can do so on day 1 at 16:00 in Fuse. All you need to do is put yourself onto this wiki page!
https://events.ccc.de/congress/2025/hub/de/wiki/event-vorstellungen

2025-12-10 09:18:54 UTC

IT-Security/2FA neu denken: die Wohnungstür ist der zweite Faktor. Sagt das Bezirksamt Charlottenburg-Wilmersdorf
https://bvv-charlottenburg-wilmersdorf.berlin.de/pi-r/vo020_r.asp?VOLFDNR=9182
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/115/694/520/650/423/066/original/0cfa930e9838973c.jpeg

2025-12-02 08:53:30 UTC

Timetables for #39c3, hot off the press: The Fahrplan is out
https://events.ccc.de/en/2025/12/02/39c3-fahrplan/

2025-11-29 17:38:45 UTC

We just celebrated Black Friday in memory of Rebecca Black who invented Friday back in 2011.

2025-11-27 06:58:08 UTC

We #adhd folks should start calling all the useless knowledge we gathered while avoiding other work and/or while in hyperfocus „collateral knowledge“

2025-11-19 10:19:53 UTC

First #39C3 fake ticket spotted in the wild. If you see any offers on platforms like Kleinanzeigen or eBay showing a ticket it is a scam - tickets are not issued and no one knows how they will look like. Flag those offers please.
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/115/575/844/191/736/252/original/b172f2f62ff68186.jpeg

2025-11-18 07:29:43 UTC

You deserve a break.
Stop healing.
Go insane.
Curse villages.

2025-10-06 05:46:24 UTC

#Fediverse feature request: merge two accounts into one. Let two actors become one. Merged until the end of time (or the server the actor works on)
I have reasons for this request and if you can not think of one you are way too comfortable in your identity.

2025-09-26 11:30:51 UTC

Devices I own should not start showing ads without me doing something to get them. We need laws that forbid manufacturers to deliver ads to sold appliances and devices.
I am so sick and tired of the ad industry that they do everything to invade public and private spaces. We really need to talk about laws that keep public and private spaces af free.
https://mashable.com/article/samsung-smart-fridge-advertisements

2025-09-25 07:12:06 UTC

ⓘ 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘶𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢 𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘻𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘈𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘢. 𝘗𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘴𝘶𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘳.

2025-09-24 07:21:29 UTC

People with Blåhaj - you all need to post more pictures holding it like straight guys when they catches a fish.

2025-09-01 05:49:00 UTC

I always say homophobia is the fear to be a homosexual which results in violence against gay people. It is not being afraid of gays. But the gays are the trigger.
A study from 1996 I just found supports my theory: Is homophobia associated with homosexual arousal?
Answer: yes.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8772014/

2025-08-31 09:13:14 UTC

I did not come out of the closet - I came out of the pantry. You want to know why? Cause I am a snack!

2025-08-21 17:23:15 UTC

Every year the richest person in the world should be sacrificed and their wealth distributed to the poor.
Let’s see how fast they will distribute their wealth just not to be pushed in this submarine on its one way trip to the Titanic.

2025-08-17 13:56:24 UTC

I am still not over the situation when someone asked for my “gmail”, I gave them my email address and they were like “No, your gmail!” And tried to explain to me that they only could send messages to Gmail accounts and they do not have an email.
We really need to teach more computer literacy. It was not their fault, they just did not know that Gmail IS email.

2025-08-16 20:06:43 UTC

I would date an actor just so I can tell people that my boyfriend is an actor. I would wait for them to ask "Oh? What's he been in?" only to say "me" and stare in their eyes.

2025-08-12 09:03:04 UTC

Important for all #starwars fans using metric system.
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/115/014/963/606/688/424/original/32363442432c38e8.jpeg

2025-08-06 09:26:46 UTC

Die FDP darf beim Bremer #CSD nicht mitmachen und jammert rum, weil jemand auf ihre Inhalte eingeht. Das passiert wohl so selten, dass sie es nicht gewohnt sind und deswegen danach Bullshit labern. ich hab dazu was aufgeschrieben.
https://jascha.wtf/zeigen-wir-was-geht-solange-niemand-gendern-will/
#pride #csd2025 #pride2025 #queer #gender

2025-08-05 08:23:57 UTC

I got some questions to elaborate or present source to my #ADHD posts. I did the work and wrote a blogpost elaborating on some facts and link sources.
I hope this post is of use for some of you.
Please write further questions in the comments of the post that I can answer there in the appropiate lenght.
https://jascha.wtf/living-with-adhd-between-stereotypes-and-neurobiological-reality/
#adhd #science #neurodivergence

2025-08-04 11:26:15 UTC

Neurotypicals: "Just break big tasks into smaller steps!"
ADHDer: breaks task into 108 micro-steps, gets overwhelmed by the long list, abandons task, start to research road building in the Roman Empire for 6 hours.
#adhd

2025-08-04 06:50:10 UTC

OK folks - except for everything Computers/Electronics, what do you nerd out to and what is it? #nerdout

2025-07-31 19:31:56 UTC

#ADHD is standing in a messy room thinking: I don't know where to start, so l'll avoid it harder, so I'll feel worse, so now I'm frozen, so now I'm angry, so now l'm scrolling and how is it midnight and why do I feel like a piece of shit?

2025-07-31 06:34:05 UTC

One of the many treats of #ADHD I hate the most: ADHDers have no internal motivation and rely completely on external motivation: urgency, novelty, pressure, competition and the need to belong. Except novelty they require negative emotions: anxiety and fear for urgency and pressure, competition and need to belong require shame. Hyperfocus is not for oneself but caused by seek for novelty.
To have ADHD is to battle negativ emotions all the time by doing stuff for _others_ and not for oneself. >>

2025-07-26 04:55:17 UTC

When an #ADHD person says „I forgot“ what we often mean is:
* I remembered 5 times but at the wrong time
* I fully planned to do it but I felt overwhelmed
* I shamed myself for not doing it that I did not do it

2025-07-24 06:31:21 UTC

Idee für ne neue Serie - wie Höhle des Löwen aber umgekehrt. Ein Milliardär muss fünf für Mindestlohn arbeitenden Menschen erklären, warum er nicht enteignet wird.

2025-07-23 17:32:03 UTC

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I read through it. The criticism is.. well someone needs to read what I wrote (as you pointed out with quoting the post).
Not all men at predators. There are men who can genuinely care without other intentions. Sometimes people are just nice to each other.

2025-07-15 06:21:36 UTC

Wir sind alle Petitionsmüde, ich weiß. Die Frauenklinik Lippstadt wurde von einem katholischen Träger übernommen und darf keine Schwangerschaftsabbrüche mehr durchführen. Der Chefarzt klagt dagegen und hat diese Petition gestartet.
https://innn.it/keinmord

2025-06-24 11:32:07 UTC

In which online shops beside Amazon/Apple/Google do you buy your ebooks?
At which online book sellers do you buy your physical books?
I am interested do stores all over the world, so please let me know. Furthermore please do not answer when you do not(!) buy books online. I know people do that :D
#reading #books

2025-06-18 07:12:29 UTC

This Blåhaj wants to be drawn like one of your French girls. Chilling on the couch, having its best life.
Sidenote: I really like my workplace.
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/114/703/112/886/521/277/original/d0288b45133bec9d.jpeg

2025-06-16 15:40:17 UTC

Mittwoch:
Es wird bekannt der #CSD Wernigerode wurde mit Waffen bedroht
Sonntag:
In Bad Freienwalde wird eine Vielfaltsveranstaltung überfallen
Montag:
Das queere Netzwerk des Bundestages darf nicht zum CSD Berlin
CSD Regensburg wird abgesagt
Das war nur die letzte Woche.
#queer #ichkanndasallesnichtmehr #ichbinmüde

2025-06-07 05:03:29 UTC

I finally wrote it down:
https://jascha.wtf/the-internet-that-proved-her-wrong/
https://ohai.social/@jascha/114456719610997573

2025-05-29 06:21:47 UTC

RSS feeds were and are my constant dopamine hit. Yes, a new entry to read!
Email were and are my constant dopamine hit. Yes, they are fighting in that mailinglist.
Blogs were and are my constant dopamine hit. Wohoo, the comment section is full of dumb people.
Sorry but this „back in the days we were not driven by dopamine“ is just wrong. It was just another experience and with a smaller user base.
From: @npub1wkr…yvj6
https://mastodon.social/@Daojoan/114587431688413845

2025-05-27 09:55:14 UTC

Dein Geschäftsmodell ist ohne die kostenfreie und unbedingte Nutzung von Inhalten Dritter nicht möglich? Dann hast du kein Geschäftsmodell, dann bist du ein Wegelagerer.
https://www.heise.de/news/Nick-Clegg-Zustimmung-von-Kuenstlern-wuerde-KI-toeten-10399119.html

2025-05-05 19:11:22 UTC

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>> at the end she had a a few decent days with some fun and could fly home and was not totally desperate.
She can call at 3 in the morning and I will write into an IRC channel that she needs us and we will do everything we could to be there. And she will do the same for us.
And that is the internet I hold dear. The internet I love and miss. The internet that made the day for a 16 year old girl that thought she had no one in the world. The internet that proved her wrong.
~ fin

2025-05-05 19:08:00 UTC

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>> and today, ca. 20 years later, we still talk every now and then. We are still part of her life.
6 years ago she was living in Paris, had a boyfriend in Berlin. She was visiting him for her birthday. He called her when she arrived in Berlin at the airport and told her that this relationship has ended.
The person she called was me. She spent the weekend on my couch and again I tried to create her a great birthday.
She played with Barbara, I ordered food, we watched silly TV shows. >>

2025-05-05 19:04:35 UTC

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>> We had so much fun and made her day. We laughed more than her sister with her „cool friends“. We were the perfect guests. We played games, we laughed. SHE laughed. Later she said the first times for months.
We just were us. Of course we did not drink or take drugs. Of course we did not swear the amount we normally did.
It was a perfect 16th birthday for her. For us it was meeting a friend. I still do not know her „real name“ because her real name is her IRC nick. >>

2025-05-05 19:02:28 UTC

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>> We all said „we‘ll come!“ and so it happened that 15 adults went to a 16th birthday party.
We coordinated in another channel that she did not know that we bought presents, made cake and planned games. And of course a cake fight.
The day came. Several cars arrived at the house and Metall heads, Goths and Punks arrived at „the venue“ :D >>

2025-05-05 18:58:53 UTC

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>> In a mood I said „well, we could come.“ Tje rest agreed - we could come.
„But what should I say to my dad?“ - I suggested „I have some people I want to invite. My friends from the internet“. I did not really think that she said this to her father. It was a bad joke I thought. Well, little did I know that she was so desperate that she asked her dad „can my friend from the internet come?“. He said yes. >>

2025-05-05 18:53:31 UTC

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>> her mother had died, her dad was still in grief. She had a twin sister.
I don’t know what made us take care of her online. We were there. We listened when she talked about here grief, her pain and how alone she felt. We do our best.
Then came the day where she told us that her dad demands that she and her twin sister will have a birthday party for her 16th birthday. „All the people of my school will come. For her. I don’t have friends at school. You are my friends.“ >>

2025-05-05 18:49:01 UTC

I was asked by a 20 year younger friend how my internet was back then. I needed a moment but then I told her the story of an IRC channel and how we made the day for a young girl who happened to be on our IRC channel. Because this is what my internet was like back then and I wish sometimes it still was like this. Let me tell the story:
I was 25, the channel members were like 20 to 30 years old. Somehow this young girl found her way to us. She was 14 when she joined the channel. >>

2025-04-27 09:40:09 UTC

Der erste CSD dieses Jahr wurde von Ordnungsamt und Polizei vorzeitig beendet - 4h früher als geplant. Ich bin sauer.
https://www.queer.de/detail.php?article_id=53382

2025-04-23 11:09:42 UTC

Everytime when some TERF (hi JK) spills hate I remember a passage in Terry Pratchett’s Discworld novel Feet of Clay - Carrot and Angua discuss Littlebottom‘s new pronouns:
"Well, I would have though she'd have the decency to keep it to herself," carrot said finally. "I don't think it's very clever, you know, to go around drawing attention to the fact."
"Carrot, I think you might have something wrong with your head," said Angua.
"What?"
"I think you might have it stuck up your bum."

2025-04-17 11:13:32 UTC

I swear these billionaires could announce they're going to start hunting us for sport and some people would still be out there defending it with they're whole chest like
"you're just mad because you can't run fast."

2025-03-28 06:52:35 UTC

Every person with #ADHD be like „long story short“ and then tell it with the behind the scenes bonus feature and the directors commentary.

2025-03-26 09:50:52 UTC

We all know centralisation is bad. Somehow we managed to centralise ex-Instagramers on Pixelfed. I just found out that there is another software in active development. It looks very transparent on their development. to me. I think I will give it a try. More fediverse services == more good. You'll find the website of @npub1lf5…xewk here https://vernissage.photos/ and the cde is on GitHub https://github.com/VernissageApp

2025-03-18 09:11:18 UTC

As an adult my favorite game to play is "Is this
headache from dehydration, caffeine withdrawal, lack of nutrients, lack of sleep, stress or brain tumor?"

2025-03-18 07:48:32 UTC

Reading is a crime- Learning is a disease - Books can be fatal
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/114/182/329/266/401/613/original/acd1a556094498d9.jpeg

2025-03-11 20:42:41 UTC

Elon Musk gets a lot of hate. But that’s not enough. We can do better.

2025-03-08 15:18:18 UTC

Die SPD ist umgekippt - im Liegen.
https://www.tagesschau.de/eilmeldung/abschluss-sondierungen-100.html

2025-03-05 14:50:32 UTC

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ich bin mit gar nix zufrieden. Und die meisten fw Instanzen die ich kenne sind mehrere tausend Stunden Musik public.

2025-03-05 10:37:24 UTC

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Ich sage nicht, dass er zu Urheberrechtsverletzungen aufruft. ich sage, dass er einen Dienst anpreist, der Filesharing mit netter UI ist.
(hach liebs, wurde direkt von Kuketz geblockt :D)

2025-03-05 07:26:48 UTC

Weil Amazon Music, Apple Music und Spotify Künstler*innen schlecht bezahlen empfiehlt @npub1g6j…4s5g Funkwhale - wo Künstler*innen gar nicht bezahlt werden.
Wir wissen ja, gar nichts bekommen ist besser als wenig bekommen. 😌
From: @npub19gv…kadq
https://social.tchncs.de/@rufposten/114105837718042000
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/114/108/626/478/170/797/original/8dfd08359d8cf1f0.jpeg

2025-01-19 17:18:08 UTC

So absurd wie viele Dienste eine Mail wollen, damit die das Löschen des Accounts durchführen

2025-01-16 19:36:10 UTC

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i wrote a DM

2025-01-10 07:45:45 UTC

I have #adhd so never say „we need to talk“ without saying that I am not in trouble. My rejection sensitivity dysphoria will run rampant and I will go through every interaction we ever had in my head trying to find the situation I did something wrong while experiencing anxiety.
Or tell me I am in trouble and why. We can discuss that later but I need to know.

2025-01-08 07:43:34 UTC

I used to think it was big of me that I didn't hold grudges but then I realized I just have #ADHD and simply, cannot remember what happened.
On the other hand I remember unnecessary things like I once bought coffee at these gas station in the middle of nowhere. I had been driving through this town because I went to visit someone from the internet. No, I do not know who it was. That was 25 years ago.“

2024-12-09 08:07:17 UTC

Me and my #adhd
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/113/621/834/506/445/546/original/2aae739b089e2f8d.jpeg

2024-11-27 08:08:15 UTC

Mood
(Nein, nicht die Arbeit)
https://files.ohai.social/media_attachments/files/113/553/885/155/572/274/original/a06d82f22b6da559.jpeg

2024-11-12 23:00:54 UTC

It really bothers me that folks ask anywhere for information but never use the contact email addresses provided by the different #38C3 Teams. We publish them to get asked. They land in a ticket system and many people do answer these mails. It is really that easy.
No reason to ask in the void. Please do not disturb the void, write an email instead. Leave the void alone. It is tired.

2024-11-12 12:37:59 UTC

There are 4 days left to propose your tlak to the #38C3 Community Stages.
Looking forwrd to all your proposals.
https://content.events.ccc.de/cfp/38c3-community-stages/

2024-11-04 08:07:52 UTC

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Ich habe lange auf diesen Tag gewartet und dann ist einer der schönsten Tage dieses Jahr ein leicht verregneter und grauer Montag im November 💖

2024-11-04 08:05:11 UTC

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Der freundliche Herr klärte mich über die Folgen der Erklärung auf. Unter anderem „Wenn sie in Zukunft einen Reisepass beantragen wird dort kein Geschlechtsmerkmal drin stehen. Sie werden dann in einige Länder nicht mehr einreisen können. Aber das wollen sie in diesen Ländern vermutlich eh nicht“

2024-11-04 08:01:07 UTC

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Fragte ihn, ob er jetzt den ganzen Tag diese Termine habe. „Den ganzen Monat“ - „Dann wünsche ich Ihnen einen schönen Monat“ - „Wird es mit den ganzen fröhlichen Gesichtern“
Ich bin eines davon.

2024-11-04 07:58:14 UTC

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Standesbeamter „Die Erklärung des Namens und des Geschlechtseintrages werden gültig mit Eingang bei ihrem Geburtsstandesamt - leider schicken wir das mit der Deutschen Post“
Er war sehr freundlich („Ich muss ihnen das vorlesen und dabei leider einmal ihren Deadname verwenden“), der ganze Prozess war sehr geschmeidig und das Standesamt Neukölln ist in einem wirklich netten Gebäude.

2024-11-04 07:37:22 UTC

In 4 Minuten habe ich meinen Termin auf dem Standesamt, um meine Vornamen und Geschlechtseintrag nach SBGG zu erklären

2024-10-24 08:58:26 UTC

At this point in life I am willing to spend good money to get #software without #AI built in - no, not to be able to deactivate it but to not have it at all.

2024-10-13 11:07:43 UTC

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nein, haben sie nicht. Wie machen das halt anders als die Person vorgeschlagen hat weil wir das so vorbereitet haben und ich nicht 3 Monate vor C3 anfange alles anders zu machen.

2024-10-13 10:56:12 UTC

#38C3 Orga macht ja prinzipiell Spaß. Menschen nein sagen ist dabei eine der weniger schönen Aufgaben. Nervig wird es, wenn dann "Warum? Nach welchen Kriterien" zurück kommt und das wieder Zeit wegnimmt, um sich um anderer Dinge zu kümmern.

2024-09-17 16:47:47 UTC

Habe eine obdachlose Person im Kiez vermisst. War plötzlich wieder da. Frage was war. Saß wegen Schwarzfahren im Knast - wurde nach 10 Tagen frei gekauft (vermutlich vom @npub17st…9ama) - hätte eigentlich bis 30.10. sitzen müssen.
Ist zwar frei aber kein Bürgergeld mehr („da müssen sie neu beantragen“ und das wird gerade schön verschleppt) und aus der Substitution raus geflogen.
„Ich habe Angst vor dem Winter“

2024-08-26 04:53:56 UTC

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is the creator of BookWyrm and they read many books and write about the reading

2024-08-16 07:54:31 UTC

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„modern“ ist auch so ein nicht-Argument ey.

2024-08-14 13:01:22 UTC

Your 6 Minute and 40 seconds video tutorial where you show how to do a certain thing in Excel- I hate it. This could have been a 3 line blogpost.