Burn This Dyspho Out 🏳️‍⚧️

28yo non binary, transmasc and intersex guy.

Autistic, plural, depressed (CPTSD) and disabled. Delivered with a few chronic illnesses like hEDS, but without instructions manuals.

Spoonie. Ambulatory mobility aids user.

Anar. Antifa.

Racists, sexists, transphobes, ableists, zionists etc: DNI.

#NoAI

Free Palestine, Ukraine, Lebanon, Cuba...

No flirt please.
Engaged.

PP: realistic avatar. Me, a white guy with long hair and a mask. Enby flag behind on which is written 'fuck gender'

Pronouns: he/him or ey/em + masc
FR pronouns: il/lui + masc
Picrew: by @cbrfufu

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2026-02-19 21:27:22 UTC

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No worries, I was genuinely asking. Didn't intend to make anyone feel guilty, especially people who can't mask, or not as much as they'd like. Thanks a lot for your answer! You're doing what you can, and that's good

2026-02-17 18:43:58 UTC

Do you still wear a mask?
I hardly ever see people with masks anymore, at least here, so I'd be interested in a more global answer. Thanks!
#CovidIsNotOver

2026-02-17 18:07:41 UTC

Does anyone here have emphysema stage 2 or 3, please? I'd have a few questions if you don't mind.
Unfortunately, bonus if you have hEDS, long covid or other chronic illnesses too.
Boosts very appreciated please. Thanks for any answer, take care!
Edited because of a typo, sorry

2026-02-03 22:34:50 UTC

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Oh I think I get it, that's cool! That'd be too difficult for me as I'd have to learn everything from scratch, but I really hope someone will be able to help you on this. If you ever make a post asking for help with it, feel free to let me know

2026-02-02 05:15:47 UTC

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It's still great to know someone's been able to make it, congrats!
I figured it maybe existed already

2026-02-02 04:38:52 UTC

When checking someone's profile, we can either see everything, or posts and replies only.
When I want more news from my friends, especially if I haven't checked on them for a while, I miss a lot and have to scroll for a while because they're way more active than I am. Don't get me wrong, it's great, and I like reading your interactions too.
It'd just be really cool to have a third option, allowing to see posts only, when in pain or out of spoons.

2026-01-22 15:48:20 UTC

RE: https://mastodon.social/@lina19942810/115938277828078340
Please help them, their situation is critical. They really need quick help. Any boost on the post I'm quoting, or donation can help save their lives. Together we can make a change
#note1g0t…c36a

2026-01-13 23:05:05 UTC

The other day my fiancée went out for groceries and got a discounted 3 pair thermic socks.
She didn't have change, so she couldn't help a guy we know. She gave him one pair, and he was the happiest.
Not saying it to brag about it, just thought I'd share the idea. We help whenever/however we can.
Maybe you have something in your bag you can give them that could make a difference already.
Kindness matters

2025-12-12 21:51:07 UTC

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Oh no, I hope she's going to be fine! Sending my best wishes to you all

2025-12-12 02:33:54 UTC

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Heyy thanks! Glad it's done. So how's the last Pokémon game? I still avoid spoilers but like to know what people think about it

2025-12-12 02:31:51 UTC

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I'm back and have enough spoons to chat for a while

2025-12-12 01:39:11 UTC

Gonna charge my phone and hang out the washing meanwhile, I'll come back when I'll be done. See you in a bit, I'll check my TL then!
(Edited to fix a typo)

2025-12-12 00:59:22 UTC

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I couldn't fit enough words so here's the detail if needed.
So we're asking:
90€ for my meds
100€ for Clyde's healthcare
160€ for three trips (bus and train on Xmas and once before) to my grandma because these will probably be the last ones and our last Xmas together.
30€ for shoes as my fiancee's ones take water and she's cold because of wet feet.
16€ for her phone bill.
70€ in gifts.
Thank you dearly!

2025-12-12 00:50:03 UTC

Hi everyone,
We're two disabled folks and a cat living on a single disability check.
We need help for survival, to go see my grandma who is very sick, and Clyde needs to see the vet again as her eye is having issues again.
Please we need to raise 400€ to pay for all our bills, medical and other expenses this month. Counting 10€ per gift per person (70€ in total) as we have to spend Xmas with my fam
Any help matters, thank you!!
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
#MutualAid

2025-11-29 21:30:18 UTC

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Feel free to infodump me about chess before the tournament (and even afterwards)
I'm focusing on lessons but would like to watch more games as well to sharpen my little skills gained so far.

2025-11-29 21:18:57 UTC

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I don't mind losing, because that means I can analyze what went wrong and then improve.
I'm very grateful when players with higher scores don't cancel their games against me, as it gives me a chance to learn.
I don't pressure myself, I know I won't do as good as I'd like, but I'll do my best. It's what matters. This, and having fun, of course.

2025-11-29 21:09:45 UTC

Registered myself to my first online chess tournament. It's from the 1st to the 4th this December. :blob_cat_ohnoes:
Freaking out a bit because I'm still not good at it, but I'm learning more about tactics. Some openings and responses, about mid-games strategy...
It's a lot, but I'm taking my time and enjoying it after years without playing. I never got lessons before, I was just playing intuitively which has lots of limits with chess!
Looking forward to it. It'll be a valuable experience!

2025-11-20 19:49:16 UTC

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That makes me happy for you. I haven't spoiled myself, but hope you'll enjoy the game! Take care

2025-11-20 19:13:53 UTC

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I'd say it's more about coping. I went back to Pokémon when my grandpa passed away.
It's fine, you're allowed to try to change your mind. I hope you'll be able to get it. Let me know if you want a boost or anything :blobcatheart:

2025-10-25 23:31:39 UTC

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Hey, I'm so sorry but my fiancée and I desperately need help.
We've been condemned by court to pay 144€ each (train for which we had tickets, see previous posts), if done in 30 days following October 16th. Later it'll be 180€
We can't pay, here are the letters I just hid our address and my fiancee's last name.
Please boost. If you're financially stable and willing to help, it'd be very appreciated
Thanks for any help!
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
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2025-10-25 22:23:09 UTC

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So we got a fine each. After everything with Mitzi and then Clyde's care, we haven't had time to go contest in time.
Yesterday, my fiancee and I got a letter each from court. We've been condemned to pay 144€ each, if paid within 30 days. I'll post the pictures. So we're scared as heck as we have no way to pay it.
Here are the news on our side. Hope things are brighter for you!

2025-10-25 22:21:27 UTC

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We've been controlled and accused of ticket fraud, told that if we couldn't show the tickets - which were undownloadble because the website was bugged and not showing past train tickets - it must have been us getting a refund beforehand.
Which was literally impossible btw, as it'd have to be done a day before, and we bought them on the night from the 23rd to the 24th.
2/

2025-10-25 22:20:46 UTC

Hey everyone, hope you're doing well.
We took a day off and crashed yesterday, and even more after reading the mail.
For context, on May 24th, we took the train to go see and help my fiancee's best friend for her wedding, which was this summer.
We bought "TER" tickets that are usable all day, but forgot to download them. We planned on taking the train at noon, but had to take the one at 3pm.
1/?

2025-10-20 22:45:49 UTC

I've been starting to befriend a nightingale lately.
Not coming on the window sill so far, but they stare at me from the top of a wall a few meters in front of it, daily. Sometimes even a few times a day.
They kinda nod so I do it back, and it keeps going. Now sometimes they make noise back when we mimic birds sounds.
If you have specific advices about them, please tell me. I mostly know about corvids, otherwise not that much about birds.
#Birds

2025-10-16 20:15:24 UTC

Happy meeting day to Clyde and my fiancée.
It all started nine years ago today.
They were about three months old, next to a dangerous countryside road at night.
Will you be able to guess where is Clyde and where's Bonnie, her brother? The names have been switched by mistake and kept that day because it was quite fun.
They've been called that way because they were partners in crime. Bonnie is with my fiancée's ex-roommate.
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2025-10-02 07:52:59 UTC

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Other people I'm willing to help learn self-defense, even if not trans or disabled:
- BIPOC
- Sexworkers
- All my queer siblings without any distinction
- Women
- All people escaping war/fascism or living under it.
I don't want anything in exchange, that's my only request. I just want to help out.
Wishing for your safety. I dearly care about y'all.

2025-10-02 07:39:17 UTC

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Another reason is that I've actually been through a group of around ten cops agression. I almost died, am still suffering from that, and they recognize me outside.
I knew those things happened, especially to BIPOC, don't get me wrong. But once it happens to you, it really shifts stuff inside.
I do not want any of my trans and disabled siblings to go through that. I don't wanna let fascism win without doing shit.

2025-10-02 07:31:28 UTC

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If I want to do it, it's because of many things.
First of all, I want to make sure at least some of you can be able to fight back and protect themselves and their loved ones.
I've received a lot of help, and I want to share what I know for our communities' safety.
With ICE and everything going in Gaza and elsewhere, I want to make an impact NOW the way I can.
Spent almost two decades on my researches. I wish to share it with you.

2025-10-02 07:08:49 UTC

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I will let you know when this won't be available anymore, but so far nobody asked so it's still possible!
Feel free to boost for reach, thanks if you do

2025-10-02 07:04:33 UTC

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I can provide multiple programs based on your goals and needs, motivation, tips, explanations, tutorials and probably things I don't think of right now.
We can do it here, on Signal or Discord, even if I try to avoid the last one now.
All is from my personal experience and things I've learned about my special interests, including martial arts and work out.
I do not have any diploma in this, just to be fully honest!

2025-10-02 06:51:55 UTC

I'm willing to coach for free one queer and/or disabled person in these dark and dangerous times.
If you are or know someone who could benefit from someone to build workouts for them or teach self-defense, feel free to reach out.
I want to help more than one, but I want to make sure I can make it fine before adding other people.
I'll also post free self-defense content here for y'all

2025-09-26 16:25:37 UTC

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Clyde eating by herself for the first time after a month of tube feeding. I'm watching it on loop.
She meowed, so I let her smell the bag before giving her, but she got inside the bag and started eating there!
What an unexpected turns of events!
We are so proud of her.
Thanks so much Clyde, we knew you'd make it. Together, always.
With all our love, thanks to you all again.
#Caturday #CatsOfMastodon #BlackCat
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2025-09-26 16:11:59 UTC

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I recorded the moment, I'll definitely have to post the video. Hope it won't be too heavy to be uploaded!
I'm crashing a bit right now, but tomorrow I'll have more free time and a refreshed brain! Sending all the love in the world, thank you for everything you've done.
Thanks for believing in Clyde, feel free to ask anything in exchange. I'll never find words strong enough to say what I feel at the moment. So grateful.
I'm speechless. Just thank you for saving our baby with us

2025-09-26 16:06:26 UTC

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At least I know I'm awake because my back hurts lol

2025-09-26 16:03:59 UTC

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Am I even awake or is this just a dream

2025-09-26 16:02:58 UTC

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With all this, I haven't been able to sleep last night so I'm more than exhausted, but so glad to have been able to see her eat. I even managed to record her to send the video to my fiancée!
She went to buy Clyde's favourite food. Can't wait to see her reaction. I'll go to bed afterwards.
It's so reassuring, from the worst to the best day!

2025-09-26 15:54:58 UTC

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The day has been chaotic, her tube fell out and the vet couldn't put it back.
She said we'd wait for Monday, as Clyde needed to be able to try to eat by herself.
We were awfully scared, but the vet is ready to put another one on Monday morning if she needs it.
It probably won't be necessary since she ate, gotta see if she'll still eat without the meds as two have been injected (plus antibiotics and cortisone)

2025-09-26 15:49:45 UTC

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The happiest tears ever

2025-09-26 15:49:17 UTC

Y'all
Clyde has eaten!! She did it, she did it!
She's eating regular food I can't believe it, she's chewing very well and she has no issues swallowing.
She's had meds to stimulate her appetite, after a chaotic day, she meowed at me for some new food. And she actually ate a good amount!
After a month of tube feeding, 300gr gained back, and many fears.
We're getting there. We're so emotional right now

2025-09-06 20:16:36 UTC

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Thank you so much for your support, Kat. It means a lot!
Thankfully this instance's admins are blocking his accounts really fast, and many other admins are on it as well.
He hasn't been able to text me ever since, despite still trying to follow. Still way less than when I've posted!
Sorry for answering after such a long time. Please stay safe too :blobcatheart:

2025-08-31 13:01:49 UTC

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Edit: The last vet bill has been funded, thank you so much! We're fundraising for the incoming one.
We still really gotta see the vet in emergency this morning as well. She has to be hospitalized again.
Please, if you don't mind, boost our crowdfunding again.
Thank you so much if you do, or just if you care and keep Clyde in your thoughts. :nonbinary_heart:

2025-08-30 23:40:55 UTC

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Thank you from the bottom of my heart, I've just read what he said again... No matter how many times I block him daily, he's harassing me non stop on so many instances.
Thank you so much for caring and telling us 💙

2025-08-30 23:40:55 UTC

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2025-08-30 23:02:49 UTC

Hi everyone,
I'm sorry to ask again, but we really need help to save Clyde.
Monday's and Friday's bills have been paid, but we owe 164,80€ to the vet for today, or should I say yesterday's bill. Plus we'll have to take her again next week to clean her esophageal probe.
Any boost or donation truly matters. Please don't donate if you're struggling yourself.
Thanks for any assistance!
@npub1fl2…yn62
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

2025-08-30 14:55:45 UTC

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Anyone please report the post and account I'm answering to. The guy's making like an account per hour to harass me + other mutual aid seekers.
Still using religion to justify transphobia, and saying that my cat is possessed and sick because of who I am.
I just can't with that guy's bots anymore. It's getting out of control. Can admins block his IP or something, please? Idk what to do
#FediBlock

2025-08-30 10:35:58 UTC

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We just got out of the vet.
Clyde survived the anesthesia, we're so reassured. She has to be fed by a gastric probe.
An ultrasound has been done to check, as she had a breathing tube as well.
It's gonna be a lot of work, but if everything goes well, we should be able to save her.
She's really tired and without balance, so we have to watch over her non stop for now. I'll be back for updates, chat and details ASAP.
Love y'all

2025-08-30 07:56:21 UTC

Okay so we just woke up as the vet called in emergency.
Clyde has fever (40⁰C) and still doesn't want to eat. She's gonna have a general anesthesia to put her on a cat food probe.
It's very risky, but the only way to save her. We're heading there. I'll see you later today for better news, hopefully...
Have a good day!

2025-08-29 19:21:36 UTC

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Today's bill was 334€, including the hospitalization and everything mentioned in my update earlier today. Thank you for all your help!
We may have to take her again on Monday, if it's not enough until tomorrow, as they're closed on Sundays.
Her blood test show a quite high glycemic index, which has never been the case. She may need a treatment for that, if it doesn't get lower. Unsure yet if it's diabetes or related to her coryza symptoms

2025-08-29 17:16:49 UTC

We've stayed as long as we could, but Clyde had to be hospitalized. We'll get her back tomorrow morning.
She's had a blood test, she's dehydrated so she's perfused and on other meds.
She's had an antibiotics shot for two weeks and had to stop her antiinflammatories.
Her kidneys are still working well, the vet said it's encouraging. She's hopeful, so we try to be as well.
We're only on our way home now

2025-08-28 17:07:35 UTC

@npub1l07…vv0y You think it's fun for me, having to beg online and being harassed for that? My disabilities make me very tired and spoonless, I wish from all my heart I could not ask for help.
Especially in times like these, I don't need to be insulted on being trans or be moralized.
My cat is almost dying and that's all you have to say?
Don't bother answering, I'm blocking and don't consent to be texted by you again. Please respect that.

2025-08-17 19:09:14 UTC

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We're at 370/400€ raised so far.
Thank you so much for all your donations, and for boosting as well!

2025-08-17 18:45:35 UTC

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Couldn't fit everything in the first post, but the minimum total amount needed is 320€, without including my following medical exam and a hard drive, which is needed as well, please. Gonna set a 400€ goal for now.
Please only donate if you're not struggling yourself, any boost on the previous post helps a lot.
Thank you a billion times for any help! Take care
@npub1fl2…yn62
#MutualAid #HelpFolksLive2025 #DisabledCrowdfund #DisabledMutualAid

2025-08-17 18:36:13 UTC

Hi y'all,
My health worsened a lot, and we need help please.
Docs tomorrow and on Tuesday: 60€. I'll have imagery so help is needed for that too.
With my food-supplemented drinks, I have to be at the highest dose for gastic meds and it's not refunded, + vitamines: ~ 110€
We also have Clyde's vaccines to do, we couldn't and have to do it from scratch. 150€
+ Our external hard drive died yesterday.
Thank you for any help
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

2025-08-05 07:22:19 UTC

Hey... I don't know how to put that.
Know I'm not asking this for no reason, but just can't get into details now.
What would you do if you only had a few months or years left? How to pick hobbies when you have many projects?
It's probably hard to imagine, so if you're going through that and have the spoons, please tell me, if you're willing to.
Edit: thank you for your answers, I'm responding slowly but surely

2025-07-25 22:10:10 UTC

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It's not really weird to me. I mean, it makes sense that it can make someone's day. We're very isolated, we know nobody in our city and a nice interaction like that is always reassuring. After a long social phobia, it personally helps a lot!
Thanks for being so kind, you're a really great human

2025-07-25 20:54:09 UTC

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Thank you very much for your support! It means a lot

2025-07-23 20:42:14 UTC

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Thank you so much for caring, Jigme! We thankfully had ice packs, and it helped avoiding a worse inflammation.
I saw the doc yesterday, I just have some tendinitis so that's reassuring, even if one is worse than the others!

2025-07-21 23:51:04 UTC

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My back just can't, my knees wouldn't handle the waiting room untill the morning as I can't sit.
I'll see a GP when I'll be able to, ASAP but after paying the power bill and the house insurance.
If I *really* have to see a GP tomorrow, I'll ask for separate help but would feel really bad about it as we have other priorities... We didn't need that, especially not now.
We'll see if I can sleep and move in the morning

2025-07-21 23:44:04 UTC

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Another reason is: if I'd like to go, they'd have to allow me first as I said, but then they'd tell me to take the bus. Which is impossible as we have 10 minutes to walk to catch it.
That'd mean paying a cab with night prices to go to the ER.
We don't have enough for our power bill due by the 23rd, and there's no way I'm gonna spend any money raised for power. We need electricity in priority as we still live without boiler.
We'll see how it'll go

2025-07-21 23:31:56 UTC

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I avoid going to the ER at all costs, because waiting half a day on a wooden chair ruins my back, and I've had so many bad experiences with doctors that I try to avoid them as much as I can.
You have to call them to get their approval, and most of the time they say no. They did when I had an internal bleeding...
Something may be damaged around my knee, so that's kind of worrying as I already have my sciatica on this leg.

2025-07-21 23:23:13 UTC

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So I've got up for the first time since we're back home from the grocery store.
I fainted once.
Managed to reach the bathroom with my crutch in my dominant hand. It's the less damaged one, thankfully.
My left hand is not usable for now, and my right knee can't hold so... same.
I can't bend my leg at all, which is obviously not good. It's like locked, and hurts *a lot*
I guess I should have gone to the ER, or should see a doc ASAP...

2025-07-21 21:11:27 UTC

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Will be back to update on this as soon as I'll know more.
I struggle to type but am home safely with my fiancee and Clyde. Thank you so much for your kind words!
Know that I'll keep the crowdfunding amount updated if there's any donation, but please don't donate only because of what happened, it's not my point!
I just wanted to keep you updated on what's going on.
Sending much love, please take care, friends. Have a good day or night! :blobhaj_hearttrans:

2025-07-21 20:38:35 UTC

Had an accident around four hours ago. Hard to hold my phone now
I was crossing the street and then fell on the pavement. Too weak.
Good news: I've been able to protect my head, and my phone still works.
Bad news: my hand's palm has been bleeding on like... Half of it. Fell on my hands and knees.
Can't move my right knee, we don't know how serious it is yet. My fiancee held me to get back home.
I may need a doc tomorrow *sighs*

2025-07-19 13:47:15 UTC

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Heyy just woke up, hope y'all are having a good day!
Gonna drink a coffee and come back afterwards ☕

2025-07-19 00:03:38 UTC

I'm sorry my wrist hurts too much now. I'll keep answering to your replies to my drawing tomorrow.
I'm gonna go get some rest, it's 2am here already.
Good night friends, or have a good day!
See y'all later. Thanks for your kind words, please take care :blobcatheart:

2025-07-18 17:02:43 UTC

How's your day going, friends? What are you up to?
As for myself, I'm gonna try to do something creative tonight. It's been a very long time. I don't know what it will look like in the end, but at least it'll be art, even if bad, and not AI generated!
Feel free to give me any feedback once it'll be posted, I'm always open to constructive criticism to do and be better. This goes for everything btw, always feel free to let me know if I mess up somewhere!

2025-07-17 21:32:37 UTC

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I need compressive clothes to reduce chronic pain and avoid subluxations and luxations.
I need some for my knees, wrists, elbows and ankles. In this order of priority, but all are essential as I have huge joints and bones issues, due to my chronic illnesses and some injuries.
Please don't feel pressured to donate, don't if you're struggling yourself.
If you're willing to help and can afford it, that'd be lovely.
A boost would help a lot too!
Thanks 🫂

2025-07-17 21:20:39 UTC

Hey friends,
We're a trans disabled couple struggling. My fiancee can't have any income and my disability benefits don't cover everything.
We desperately need 289€ for the power company, due by the 23rd
+ 120€ for our yearly home insurance renewal.
+ Clothes and compressive clothes that are my size ASAP. I've lost almost 10kg, don't have anything and am in pain
Please help if you can and want to, thank you!
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
#MutualAid

2025-06-28 18:30:45 UTC

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They kept my ID since we couldn't pay for everything at once, so yeah, that really sucks and makes it even more urgent. They've been nice on everything, except this.

2025-06-28 18:23:12 UTC

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Hey everyone,
We're at 292*/144€ for what's left of the vet fees, and have to pay for Mitzi's cremation as well.
You can contribute here if you can and want to, thank you so much if you do!
https://gofund.me/09e5532b
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
We're a trans and disabled couple living on my disability benefits. Any help would be deeply appreciated, please.
@npub1fl2…yn62
Sorry for the bother, thanks for everything.
#MutualAid

2025-06-28 15:36:33 UTC

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15/144€ raised for the vet fees, thanks for the donation!
Then we'll have to pay for the cremation and it'll be over... We don't know the amount needed for it yet. I will tell you when the time comes.
She's gonna be buried with Ascagne, and that's the only thing not bringing us pain. May they meet if there's a cat afterlife.
We did everything... She couldn't have handled permanent dialysis + transplant, she was suffering...

2025-06-28 11:39:49 UTC

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It's over.
Mitzi's creatinine levels were over the roof. Nothing could have make her better without suffering and having to go to the vet hospitalized thrice a week for palliative care.
Her cancer from February got metastatic, even if the tumor has been removed.
She was looking for a place to hide... We stayed with her as long as we could before and til the end.
We gave them almost all our money, we have 24€ left and still owe them 144€.

2025-06-28 09:13:31 UTC

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She's been on renal insufficiency for around three months. We don't know if she's in pain, but she's meowing a lot and seems in discomfort.
The blood test doesn't match with the last one we did, she's been that way for at least three months we're shocked.
My fiancee's taking a decision with her grandma, as Mitzi can live a few weeks only even hospitalized and on meds...
We're gonna have to put her to sleep, we're devastated...

2025-06-28 08:36:00 UTC

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We've had to leave her at the vet, at least for this morning. They're gonna do a blood test to begin with, they will let us know.
The vet first vet we called said it wasn't possible until two weeks, what the heck is going on here?
We're still urgently crowdfunding for her exam, please. We haven't received a donation since last time I've mentioned it. I'll give you news and the amount as soon as possible.
Fingers crossed for her...

2025-06-27 21:28:18 UTC

Mitzi didn't want to eat her meal today, we've tried everything.
Hopefully, she's gonna do it while we'll be asleep.
We're gonna call the vet back in the morning to get an appointment sooner than planned. I'll keep y'all updated.

2025-06-26 12:54:36 UTC

Boop from Mitzi!
Have a good and safe day, friends! :blobcatheart:
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2025-06-11 16:19:24 UTC

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You did it! Thank you, thank you! Mitzi's on the way to the vet! You made it right in time, it's a miracle.
My fiancee will pick her up tomorrow, we'll know then how much we owe them. I can't tell yet but will update ASAP!
Gotta go to the pharmacy, I'll update the GFM and thank individually once I'll get back home. Thank you for each boost/donation, you all are amazing. We are infinitely grateful!

2025-06-11 13:29:04 UTC

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Urgent
Please if we could get like 100 or 150€ within now 2 hours, it would be a miracle and would allow Mitzi to see the vet tonight for longer investigation.
I have to find the money by tonight, because it will be tomorrow if not tonight.
Should be the price for a night there and the appointment, then we'll have to pay for the exam.
Any help is welcome, please, we need to make sure she's alright to have the right meds, and keep her safe.
Please, we're at 35€ raised these last two days

2025-06-11 10:31:15 UTC

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Please, we need money for the vet tonight or tomorrow morning. Mitzi will stay there for some exam for three hours.
We still have to pay the way back home in a few days at most.
Received 35€ these last 2 days. If you can and want to help, please help us save Mitzi.
It would be lovely if you could boost, thanks if you do and sorry again...
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2025-06-09 16:44:33 UTC

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245/400€ thank you so much!
Update: she's just arrived safely, thanks! We still need help, please.
My fiancé has to leave tomorrow to be there on Wednesday for her disabled grandma and rescue her cat, please help us, we're begging.
Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!
@npub1fl2…yn62
https://gofund.me/38a4f944
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
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2025-06-09 08:41:49 UTC

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Traveling the whole country in last minute is really expensive, especially when the way home will have to be as quick as possible for Mitzi's safety.
My fiancé's uncle and her grandma are both disabled. They'll have to be at least two to move her belongings, anyway she has to be there because nobody else can.
Thanks a thousand times if you help us in any way! We're forever grateful. :blobcatheart:
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2025-06-09 08:33:47 UTC

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You can read more on the GFM description, and I'm here if you have any question.
Please share if it's alright, we really need help. Even 1€ would make a difference.
I'm so sorry to beg again, but we promised we'd take care of her. I will never give up on rescuing her. We gave our word months ago, and she's allowed to live. I'd give my life for her even if we didn't meet yet.
Btw, the GFM header is a picture of Clyde, just so you know; I put the ALT at the end!

2025-06-09 01:35:05 UTC

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Other ways to donate for the travel and Mitzi the cat:
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
DM me for my Lydia or Revolut please.
Thank you in advance for any help!
@npub1fl2…yn62

2025-06-09 01:30:20 UTC

Hi friends,
We've made an emergency crowdfunding to help my fiancé go to her grandma' and help move to the retirement home she was waiting on.
It's happening this week, my fiancé has to be there as her uncle is cardiac. We have to get Mitzi, her cat, home with us after seeing the vet if her health allows it.
Please boost/donate if you want + can! Thank you! 💙
@npub1fl2…yn62
https://gofund.me/81b62e5f
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2025-05-26 20:10:52 UTC

Hey friends, hope you're doing well.
I hate doing this, but have no other option... My fiancé and I are out of food, and we have to survive until the 5th.
We are both disabled, and I'm lactose and gluten intolerant, so prices are unfortunately higher.
If you could boost please, it would be great. Please only donate if you want + can afford it! Any amount matters.
Thanks for any help! 💙
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
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2024-12-12 13:58:57 UTC

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So glad for you! :blobhaj_hearttrans:

2024-11-10 15:23:15 UTC

Hey friends,
My fiancee's phone has been stolen in Liverpool and we have no way to get in touch with her family.
We've had to pay for a cab to try and get my meds. Our cash has been stolen and we have bank fees.
We're here to see her family but are stuck in West Kirby and have to go to the South of London.
Any help is deeply appreciated please, thank you so much!
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin

2024-09-07 19:48:40 UTC

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Hey friends,
If anyone wants to help a bit for my passport, it would be really appreciated, please. 56€ left to raise for it.
My fiancée's bday is coming mid September, I'd like to get it because it's important to her for me to see her family. I wanna get her gifts and can't afford to do both, with EMDR on Monday and the meds I have to pay for now as it's not fully refunded.
Thank you for any help, but please don't donate if you're struggling.
Take care 💙
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
#MutualAid

2024-08-23 18:22:48 UTC

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My August medical appointments, including transport fees have been covered, thank you a thousand times. The menstrual underwear is ordered but cost 30€ more than expected.
We still have 56€ to raise please, to cover these 30€, my orthosis asap for my injuries, and my passport.
Any help is deeply appreciated. :boost_ok:
Thank you so much :rainbow_heart:
@npub1fl2…yn62
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
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2024-08-21 20:25:05 UTC

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We're good for the endocrinologist appointment and transport fees (not for EMDR yet), thank you so much!
Still urgently need help for the other stuff mentioned in the main post, please boost if that's okay.
Thanks, friends! Take care :blobhaj_hearttrans:

2024-08-20 22:55:34 UTC

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The endocrinologist appointment is on the 22nd, so it's becoming kind of urgent as I desperately need it. Can't stay in the situation I'm currently in.
Please donate only if you can and want to. There's no small amount. Boosts are really appreciated too.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart :nonbinary_heart:

2024-08-19 22:56:06 UTC

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251/430€, thank you so much for your precious help!

2024-08-19 21:21:59 UTC

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As for the menstrual boxers, I've had really embarrassing genital/urinary issues since my endocrinologist raised my testosterone dose a few months ago. That's also why I'll see him this week.
I have to change underwear like 7 times a day, and pads or stuff like that are way too irritating.
Please help a disabled trans guy in distress if you can and want to, thank you for any boost on the main post (I'm embarrassed about this one)

2024-08-19 21:11:58 UTC

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I met her aunt only at my fiancee's dad's funerals, some other family members too, but not everyone's been able to make it back then.
Circumstances were awful back then too and they're all around the UK (natives), so it's kind of a trip to see them all.
That would help us both a lot if we could go see them, that's why I'm asking for money for a passport, please

2024-08-19 21:03:02 UTC

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Half of my fiancee's fam lives in the UK, and I haven't most of them yet. They want to see me too, we've been together for over six years.
They're saying we can come if we need a break, and I just can't stay in the apartment anymore. I'm having a burn out, and going away at some point by the end of the year would help a lot.
As for the orthesis, mine are unusable now and I'm injured (has to do with Gas, will explain). Need some for knees, elbows, wrists and ankles

2024-08-19 20:46:54 UTC

Hey friends,
We're a disabled couple in a really precarious situation. After a bank fraud and losing two of our pets, we aren't back on our feet yet.
We need help for:
- medical appointments, EMDR and endocrinologist this week, consultation (30€), transport to go to both (+90€)
- 3 menstrual boxers needed asap (30€ each)
- new orthesis
- a passport (87€) to at last be able to go see my fiancee's fam
https://www.paypal.me/VirgileMougin
Any help is welcome. Please boost. Thanks!
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2023-02-19 21:13:07 UTC

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You also can be genderfluxfluid, it's not incompatible.
In that case, the fluidity of your genders varies and you experience switches in your gender identities.
But since it's not my case, I won't go further into this.
Feel free to share your experience if you're genderflux as well, and add anything you think I missed in this thread if you want!
Thanks for reading!

2023-02-19 21:11:25 UTC

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Most of the time I feel 50% agender, 30% transmasc and 20% otherkin.
Important part: I always feel those three genders at once!
But the intensity varies, as I explained earlier. Sometimes I'm more transmasc, so let's say 70% transmasc, 20% agender, 10% otherkin.
I can also be more agender, or more otherkin, and the intensity is fluctuating. I'm genderflux.
Of course, all of us feel their gender differently, here's only what I know and my own experience.

2023-02-19 21:09:14 UTC

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Here's as an example: a boyflux person may identify as fully masculine to partially or slightly masculine. They feel fluctuating intensities of manhood.
Now if we take my case, here's what it means:
First of all, I don't have one gender. I have many, which is called being polygender, plurigender or multigender. I don't have a preference between those.
I am transmasculine, agender, otherkin (wolf) and also genderflux, as mentioned before.

2023-02-19 21:05:46 UTC

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Genderflux is a gender identity in which you experience a range of intensity within a gender identity, or many, which is my case.
It falls under the genderfluid umbrella and was used as a synonym for genderfluid for a while.
However, since 2014, genderflux more usually means that you experience a variation in the intensity within your gender identity, rather than between genders.