Hudlemel

https://fedi.yesmap.net/@Hudlemel

Public Key

npub1wynljc36d572yahymn4s36jg3kcjrngjgfmn565n2cl5wzxc9d8s9v0y5c

NIP-05 Address

hudlemel_at_fedi.yesmap.net@momostr.pink

Profile Code

nprofile1qqs8zflevgax609zwmjde6cgafygmvfpe5fyyae6d2f4v068prvzkncpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduqs6amnwvaz7tmwdaejumr0dsplu4ve

Publishing to

relay.damus.io

nos.lol

Author Public Key

npub1wynljc36d572yahymn4s36jg3kcjrngjgfmn565n2cl5wzxc9d8s9v0y5c

Show more details

Last Notes

2025-03-29 11:10:30 UTC

- reply

yeah i agree, i don't plan on leaving this server unless there is literally no one active here
I mean really an active server is required for the MAP movement to move forward instead of remaining in stagnancy is what I believe

2025-03-29 09:02:03 UTC

Can I ask something to the people in the server? Are there only like 10 members in yesmap? Cause there is almost no one who puts out any posts and it goes deaf ears
I'll be eventually moving to the mapsupport server as this one seems dead, i do wish there were more active people as pro-cs maps also need more recognition i believe

2025-03-26 07:34:32 UTC

- reply

well that's the issue, the practices that you mentioned were not adult specific but was made to be such by adults as underage youths did not have the physical and mental capabilities to challenge such adults as from a biological standpoint one is weaker than the other from a general sense

2025-03-25 15:26:41 UTC

- reply

well like social relationships, sexual relationships and other things that adults normally do like work, having complex conversations etc and overall having an understanding of the world around them which lets be honest toddlers do not have unlike youths at certain ages where they develop speech and intelligence enough to understand such practices

2025-03-23 18:40:51 UTC

- reply

again man i don't try to change their minds on anything, i only try to educate those who are new and often are misguided about pro cs and what it could actually be instead of what it actually is currently, that's what I proposed the idea of ethical pedophilia as it helps understand the problems that both pro cs and anti cs have and provide solutions to it
I don't seek to make any discussions with the admin here but only educate those who need an understanding over things, whether it's for them to listen or dismiss my ideas is all upto them here
Please don't think I'm wasting my time as education for people who are new to the servers isn't something that should be discouraged

2025-03-23 18:27:08 UTC

- reply

we will see what happens, i would prefer to have a neutral stance as i respect their contact stances whatever it may be and i believe we pro cs should look to improve our own flaws instead of judging them
They may have some legitimate criticisms towards pro cs MAPs who don't consider their critiques sometimes and it's something that does need to change for sure

2025-03-23 08:46:05 UTC

- reply

all of these statements really speak of how they push for propaganda against pedos as animals similar to how they used to portray in war times about Germans being seen as barbarians who would come to rape British women
The same thing is seen as throughout history it's been the same tactics employed by all sided who are anti pedophilic

2025-03-16 07:52:40 UTC

- reply

well it may not be the case but I do see a lot of people who seem to dismiss any other maps aside from males, trans MAPs and women MAPs are not considered at all sometimes and it's a shame considering that our community should be open for all people (not for bigots from all sides including misogynistic and misandric, transphobic and other kinds of people)

2025-03-15 19:13:16 UTC

- reply

regardless i do believe we should be more aware of such people entering our servers and radicalizing our audiences

2025-03-14 10:00:01 UTC

You know lately there has been a rise of conservativism and far right ideas in this server and many people have been known to be directly involved in it, so obviously for those pro-cs maps who are trans, women and other marginalized MAPs, for them i would only say that they must fight against such bigotry and conservativism for good
Expose those who are far right fascist MAPs and embarrass them and it they fight back then fight against them harder and make sure they don't show up back again
I probably don't see any other pro-cs server being around so i expect people to understand and get rid of such far right ideas for good as radicalism needs to be stopped
and in fact those ideas which actually help those marginalized should be promoted for underage youths to have a better relationship with adults instead of living in the same anti pedophilic environment which always oppresses MAPs of all differences and tries to label pedophilia as a mental disorder further censoring any legitimate scientific studies and research that MAPs have done for a long time
I do not believe mainstream maps would try to save us as really they are going with the "mental disorder" route more than providing better ways to implement ethical pedophilia

2025-03-13 19:05:32 UTC

- reply

yeah I can certainly understand that but the issue lies in how many people will read this article and then you know what happens, they take inspiration and push the agenda further for such treatments
I just hope someone edits this out for sure but I do believe it's a wakeup call for MAPs especially when people would be willing to consider such treatments as a normal thing and someone should probably make a video regarding this topic in fstube or somewhere similar

2025-03-13 18:13:36 UTC

Recent news: the MAP flag is used in the wikipedia article regarding pedophilia and the worst part is that they promote a drug named Depo-Provera which is not even FDA approved and is completely unethical with severe side effects with growth and development for young people and women and is promoted as a treatment for sex offenders and even underage MAP youths
Here are the links to the topics and this does need serious attention for all MAPs as they would surely promote and normalized this barbaric treatment
The second link is regarding the drug Depo-Provera which has been known to be behind developing brain tumors in people btw and also has shown to decrease bone density in women as a contraceptive
https://simple.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia
https://www.accessdata.fda.gov/drugsatfda_docs/label/2010/020246s036lbl.pdf

2025-03-13 16:37:31 UTC

- reply

he even favorited my posts for some reason

2025-03-13 15:09:47 UTC

- reply

even had one guy being blatantly racist here too

2025-03-13 15:08:43 UTC

- reply

haven't we already have enough of national socialists here, some people have been blatant about it for a while now, we even have people talking about Eugenics and other far right ideas around here
I have been stating this issue for a while now and it seems a lot of people are pushing for such bigoted ideas sadly, I would be careful to where the MAP community is headed now with such people around

2025-03-13 14:36:23 UTC

- reply

what happened exactly?

2025-02-13 18:17:57 UTC

- reply

in regards to sexual rights, the time period they were really in wasn't the most ideal as it was the same period where people were selling their kids to earn a living as it was ofc during the great depression, not to mention subsequent famines and the great war
So life was much rough for us to expect modern standards on situations which required people to focus on their survival and sustenance more than look for their sexual rights or other progressive ideas which again was not something that would have been present at least with the situation they were provided with

2025-02-13 15:46:49 UTC

- reply

Kruschsevs era was a revisionist overthrow of the socialist Soviet Union and replaced it with the Soviet bureaucracy similar to current imperialist China which carries out similar policies
And Kruschsevs era in 1960s also was way past the inhuman conditions of WW2 and the past famine which the Soviets were yet to recover from and only subsequently did so in the 1950s

2025-02-13 15:34:06 UTC

- reply

it was very early and they still didn't have a established government by that time, they also were pushed to the extreme by the capitalists too and the occurring civil war didn't help things either so prostitution was a requirement for the people to survive instead of something being seen as a positive thing here

2025-02-13 15:19:28 UTC

- reply

well his ideas of conservative patriarchal culture and racial superiority complex is considered as more acceptable than say the inverse
He proposes that we should allow the patriarchal culture and racial superiority among people and taking it away means that it is "policing" by his logic
But again the patriarchal culture and racial superiority itself is policing over women's rights and minorities rights too so his logic falls over his head as the so called "policing" that he claims that we do can be applied to his type too as they are far more oppressive than so called "liberals" who i myself hate too but again i would gladly choose them over than fascists

2025-02-11 14:29:02 UTC

- reply

well then if commies and leftists do not support MAPs then we create our own beliefs where we justify the existence of MAPs independent from those mainstream leftists and commies as you claim, and again i care less about leftists as they are mostly neoliberals really
the current commies that are around are phonies who rely on the old century beliefs of socialism without updating it in any manner, that's were some ancoms differentiate from them as we believe in encouraging youth rights more in the lines of the ideas that Soviets had and in fact update it to suit the material conditions and disregard the legal barrier that was around Soviet times and not just believe in the same systems that Soviets have which some of them aren't progressive enough for MAPs
The current socialists are western based and adopt western ideas of exploitation theory and all the nonsense that is justified by opportunists
the age of consent was created in the US and other western countries, not in the Soviets where the consent age depended upon what was possible from the underage youth
even if the Soviets were antis as they claim we do not disregard the rest of their ideas which are far more progressive especially towards women and can be applied to underage youths than anything Nazism can do

2025-02-11 10:49:49 UTC

- reply

that's because they believe in the old century patriarchal culture of child marriage and other anti feminist ideas where women do not have their rights established, the same concept also applied to trans people and other marginalized people too
In fact if pedophila was legalized with the idea of Nazism around then we would be seeing the same situation that we see in Iraq where child marriage and pregnancy is encouraged where the underage youth has no control or say over what they wan to do or who they want to be with, the underage youth is excluded from any parts of society other than being a sexual object for the adult and being controlled by the husband while in the current system we have the parents controlling the underage youth
Nazism and other fascistic ideals are capitalism at decay and it's a known fact

2025-02-11 04:15:45 UTC

- reply

and again i do stress a difference between pedos and predators
A pedo loves the underage youth and understand and cares for their feelings and respects them for who they are while providing them their rights which antis and the establishment does not do, a pedo also may have sexually repressive feelings but also deep down understands that there is a better way to approach a underage youth and not like a creep and in fact seeks to socialize with that youth while developing a positive relationship with them, a pedo also does not solely go after the underage youth for their body as they do understand that they should show the same care for such youths even after they become older and value them based on their identity instead of solely their age

2025-02-07 15:13:15 UTC

- reply

again these are the opinions of women whom u people dismiss and find it frustrated that you can't have your patriarchal order like before lol, i mean sure man I can respect your desire for pedophila but if it is filled with patriarchal ideas and yall will have the same mentality towards underage girls then obviously it wouldn't be encouraged, in fact ur people end up dragging everyone under as we all will be seen as the abuser like yall do

2025-02-04 16:09:12 UTC

- reply

well man i don't see women going around cheating with multiple people unless they are from privileged middle class and have better physical features for sex appeal, you don't see the average woman always filing for divorce unless the person they married is actually abusive

2025-02-04 16:04:56 UTC

- reply

honestly man it's better if you don't express your opinions if you only troll

2025-02-04 16:03:52 UTC

- reply

well i say it's a bad take, by your logic men should not be trusted either as men are more likely to cheat on women as women often do get pregnant if they aren't careful unlike men who don't suffer any such consequences

2025-02-04 07:00:21 UTC

- reply

well in that case idk what I can suggest really, things never work out the way we want for sure but i guess we can surely try as much smh, peoples minds change especially with the current culture they are around in so maybe that's a factor to be considered and other factors which may play in what they believe and their actions etc

2025-02-04 06:51:20 UTC

- reply

idk i do feel the stigmatization is something that i personally face too, i don't think u should be honest with everyone but only those who maybe share those views, like say their reaction towards youth rights or relationships with adults
But idk the idea of facing off again stigmatization is something that i do agree is problematic and i certainly do take it back about being honest with everyone

2025-02-04 06:44:16 UTC

- reply

well it just means u weren't truly honest with your partner with what you have, the idea of a relationship is to compromise and set aside biases to understand ones beliefs and if you wouldn't get a partner like that then obviously the relationship wouldn't end well, you kept secrets from your partner then it would have surely surfaced the more you involve them in your daily lives and i can certainly understand that it isn't easy but being honest at least sets the demons on your closet free
It applies to even friendship and enemies too lol, if a person isn't being honest about what their ideas are then they would have a fractured alliance which would eventually break when ideas clash

2025-02-04 06:18:44 UTC

- reply

well in that case u should have made your thoughts and motives more clear enough as this lack of understanding between both parties is what led to the mess, the error falls on your part too as judging by what you say there isn't any financial motives for her to consider being in the relationship for long
If anything the inverse seems more true from what story you stated as you also seem to face financial issues too right?
If anything the motives should have been more clear on both sides and what they want

2025-02-04 06:11:01 UTC

- reply

well fhat would mean u actively chose to do something wrong instead of breaking off with the relationship sooner which wouldn't have created the circumstances in the first place that you complain about

2025-02-04 06:09:48 UTC

- reply

misandry isn't even the topic here lol, most people do not believe in the gender biases being the sole reason for their problems unless they are told by societal norms to be the case which is what I see here
Misandry in fact is equally as opportunistic as misogyny

2025-02-04 06:07:34 UTC

- reply

lol how is this cuckery tho, people just don't want shit coming at them at all sides and if they wanted their needs then they would make it clear to that person before being in a relationship with them
In fact believing in intentional violence against people is just as worse which is what I believe u advocate for

2025-02-04 06:03:51 UTC

- reply

well again man i don't bring the idea of gender biases at all, the biases are from what societal norms has dictated and i do consider it to be a problem too but it should not mean we ignore the problems that lead to those biases being considered

2025-02-04 06:02:39 UTC

- reply

well man i can understand dark humour and all sorts of stuff but it does become a problem when people actually start believing the stuff
Hell i would joke around about sending women to the kitchen too or making me a sandwich but i never actually believe in the idea of it lol which again idk whether u do too but judging by your posts it does seem like it

2025-02-04 06:00:21 UTC

- reply

well man i did say its for you to figure out what your relationship was based on, if it was for monetary purposes then obviously that relationship wouldn't have been healthy for long at least

2025-02-04 05:58:35 UTC

- reply

i never did claim that you had committed any violence, but your actions of cheating and not being clear about what relationship you wanted to have is something that is what led to the circumstances
But I do believe this generalised view of basing things on gender is not helpful at all

2025-02-04 05:54:39 UTC

- reply

and i didn't refer to enslavement and more like the wife does not share any mutual connection with their husbands in modern relationships, which if they did then that wouldn't be enslavement, but what would be enslavement is those relationships which are based on material requirements like we see with those sugar daddy relationships that we see around in modern culture which isn't as common in modern relationships but surely is considered as a normalcy

2025-02-04 05:45:15 UTC

- reply

lol i do believe ur a troll kid, i do hope you consider turning over a new leaf for sure lol as u sound surely racist af

2025-02-04 05:44:06 UTC

- reply

well again man action and reaction is what I see here, you did something bad which was surely opportunistic she thought she should do something equally bad instead of considering that it isn't worth it and it only escalated
So it is better that it did end on a neutral stance than being in escalation but such behaviours which lead to the reaction obviously should be criticized

2025-02-04 05:26:26 UTC

- reply

personally I seen both men and women being shitty and some justify their violence whether for one's gains or to let their frustrations our and although the woman is favoured more by societal norms the fact does remain that such behaviours like violence and the actions leading to it are the main core problems
the gender bias created by it surely is problematic and there's no denying it but it is not the main primary reason for the violence, it just happens to be a factor which people consider while dealing with the situations which creates abuse and the reactions from being abused and vice versa

2025-02-04 05:14:55 UTC

- reply

well in that case u should have just not done the cheating in the first place, not that i say the violence is justified in any manner but the actions leading to that violence certainly can be stopped and that includes civil discussions which if the other person does not do then it's better off leaving than say escalating the situation

2025-02-03 20:36:32 UTC

- reply

not exactly lol, the inverse is more true as is with the gerontocratic culture

2025-02-03 20:34:15 UTC

- reply

there is certainly a gender bias but understandably for sure as there have been assholes who actually hit girls and get away with it while those who are not told to be as abusive as those bastards are picked off by those who then take advantage of their generosity
But again I do believe avoiding the fight altogether is the better option ofc

2025-02-03 20:16:25 UTC

- reply

well man if you didn't know, Europe didn't escape socialism, it crushed and killed millions of communists with authoritarian Fascism as with the German revolution and the birth of the Nazi Germany
It was not because Europe escaped as they were colonialists in the past and still are colonizers looting foreign countries which the west does not acknowledge enough as they don't see themselves as authoritarian fascists, Trump just said the quiet part out loud for everyone to hear while the democrats were keeping quiet on their imperialist ways

2025-02-03 20:07:11 UTC

- reply

i mean personally i don't believe that to be the case as really to know about their story you would have to be on their shoes i say, people have their different views on how they want to be treated
Honestly i wouldn't want to be in the position of serious fent addicts as that shit does turn people into literal zombies ngl

2025-02-03 19:57:40 UTC

- reply

and from economic conditions i refer to places like seriously downtrodden places where there's constant homelessness and drug addiction on the streets, not average stable communities so STDs are far from the worry

2025-02-03 19:55:26 UTC

- reply

Syphilis isn't exactly a problem unless your economic conditions are poor, for middle classes i never did deny that STDs would be much issues other than Herpes which is deadly especially when infected into the brain yikes

2025-02-03 19:50:29 UTC

- reply

well sex work depends upon the fact that u don't need to have a qualification other than marketing which is essential but again there are other skills which may be useful, but again the harmful aspects sadly are downplayed by liberal feminists who prioritise their own opportunistic agendas than helping out every person of gender colour and ethnicity, regardless of who it is there is at least someone who is exploited while the other benefits and this relationship as proven by scientific research is only toxic and destructive to the people involved

2025-02-03 19:47:30 UTC

- reply

lol he's a socdem who also advocates for war, I'm sorry but social democrats aren't going to save anyone, only socialism can as it has proven throughout history

2025-02-03 19:45:45 UTC

- reply

well again u can point out which arguments do not have factual basis, I'm sure to listen to it and provide me the link to it

2025-02-03 19:44:31 UTC

- reply

if im honest I can't say much for your personal life other than just hoping for the best, but I do believe that this idea of sex work being considered as a confirmed pay job is not true at least from what many peer review researchers state, again I'm always open for new research to come forward and provide a newer viewpoint but personally i would rather always have a critical viewpoint on any type of job as blindly trusting on things isn't what i personally do as i always remain in skepticism even about other facts like socialism too
Being skeptical is always a healthy thing as it does provide better understanding of the situation and in fact more vigilance on actual abuse which may come to people

2025-02-03 19:39:09 UTC

- reply

well man i would argue that it is more opportunistic than say paying well, you aren't guaranteed anything here other than just taking a gamble which I did state that with socialism that guarantee is fulfilled and in that scenario sex work wouldn't be required
But I do think that the harmful aspects of sex work should not be ignored especially for those who do consider it as a job as making people always in a fairy tale view of the world is providing them falsehoods like liberal feminists often did while increasing their own class positions by being elected as the representatives for sex workers who trusted the individual

2025-02-03 19:28:06 UTC

- reply

and also it pays well for the middle class or those who are privileged and can afford to keep themselves healthy unlike marginalized groups who are unable to fulfill basic health requirements and do sex work as it does not require much qualifications other than knowing base instincts that humans have

2025-02-03 19:24:49 UTC

- reply

what do you want me to say lol, that i oppose sex work?
Personally i am neutral towards it but again by observing various peer reviewed journals and articles obviously the stance of being anti abuse which is more healthier for people as also researched by experts is more beneficial for everyone, so thus such studies are put forth which you believe is morally based regardless of the fact that it's far from anything but moral

2025-02-03 19:21:47 UTC

- reply

i did state my idea isn't moral but overall based on objective facts on what is currently possible, the current system does not allow women and other marginalized groups to have a functional job without being low on their wages so they resort to sex work as there are countless studies which do prove it
I also put forth the source which argued that such sex workers are blacklisted by companies and by societal norms as their brand would be at stake for hiring employees afflicted with sex work, but you believe that I take a moral stance on this despite the arguments being far away from morals and more strictly towards documenting the abusive practices of such jobs

2025-02-03 19:18:22 UTC

- reply

again you miss the point completely with this one, my statements overall has never been moral in any way, all i have stated are just sources which do back up my arguments, that sex work is inherently predatory in nature as seen by the practices that take place in sex work
In fact dismissing peer review research is more morally based than say someone who does have legitimate arguments as seen by direct observations and studies about such topics

2025-02-03 19:15:38 UTC

- reply

but then why do you believe on sex work being an instrumental positive job then? Her work clearly states that it is an oppressive work which does not contribute to any societal progress other than promoting anti social elements between men and women
The idea that sex work is marketed as a positive thing "expressing sexuality" as stated by opportunistic feminists instead of being only a monetary job is something that only forwards the gerontocratic culture that has been prevalent for most of humanity

2025-02-03 19:05:36 UTC

- reply

the only major reason why socialism failed was due to the warmongering nature of the Western countries which waged war and invaded foreign lands and overthrew any successful socialist party being established in that nation
The constant war like state that socialist countries were put in is what lead to other opportunist elements gaining power and the so called "failure" being claimed argument was sprung up
There has been no denial that western countries have been against socialism and take any measures to prevent any successful socialist state from being created

2025-02-03 19:02:37 UTC

- reply

and yet the treatment for severe cases is much more expensive than what is seen as the preventive measures which most people in marginalized groups wouldn't really believe in, again I'll provide the source to it ofc

2025-02-03 18:53:23 UTC

- reply

and providing more pills isn't fixing the fact that having these diseases create secondary infections and people often die from such complications than the diseases itself, so maybe the fact that the work which they do which gave them such life threatening diseases should be the goal and not just providing enough pills to temporarily fix a problem which is with the system itself, sex workers should be uniting on betterment of their conditions and other jobs not related to sex work, not ask for cheaper pills

2025-02-03 18:50:09 UTC

- reply

that's cause I'm from a middle class family,the same thing can't be said for poorer communities who depending upon location can have exorbitant prices

2025-02-03 18:48:11 UTC

- reply

I'm sorry but believing anything from the UN especially after their failures with the COVID pandemic is just wishful thinking even from an objective standpoint

2025-02-03 18:35:41 UTC

- reply

and unless you don't have an NGO outright working for peoples benefits it is unlikely that on average people get such cures if I'm honest, the WHO didn't even deal with the COVID pandemic properly so how are we to expect they handle these welfare programmes
in fact the opposite is even more true with sexual abuses being documented by the UN peacekeepers and NGO activists
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_abuse_by_UN_peacekeepers

2025-02-03 18:32:47 UTC

- reply

i mean again man i do state that modern medicine has developed enough to cure even severe cases but the issue lies in affordability not on the treatment itself which was the issue in the past times

2025-02-03 18:31:37 UTC

- reply

well thats the issue isn't it? The distinction of third world and the first world, the fact that we do have wealth inequality which again even in the US is also an issue especially amongst the coloured communities
Many get afflicted with such diseases often fall into drugs and as the system is opportunistic does not provide them any significant healthcare benefits other than claiming they should earn their health instead which under the system of capitalism does show how lower preference there is towards social welfare for the people

2025-02-03 18:15:49 UTC

- reply

again man if you do believe that I make up sources then ur clearly mistaken, i always made my stances clear that i would be against abuse
Sex work although it is required by individuals in modern times as to survive in an economy which requires taking a sufficient amount of debts (unless they come from privileged backgrounds)
The fact that the harmful effects of it is dismissed for more encouragement and decriminalisation which in European countries have shown to have minimal changes in the exploitative nature of sex work which again requires acknowledgement by sex workers instead of more false positive promotion done by corporate monopolies to secure their brand

2025-02-03 17:43:56 UTC

- reply

about the second statement it is pretty obvious that the cures involved were more harmful and life threatening to the sex workers than the diseases themselves as treatment with Mercury never ends well considering its toxicity
the point is not that sex work was worse than other jobs in the past but the fact that venereal diseases were untreatable especially for those who were marginalized and even today the same problems arises especially in the US healthcare system with basic treatments for STDs being expensive for those who are from marginalized groups
These are the articles which I would suggest for further information
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9169245/
This one discusses about the lack of healthcare facilities for sex workers in Maryland and is a pretty recent study

2025-02-03 16:06:47 UTC

- reply

well if you do want to discuss about mental health sex work has also been more harmful in the past too, with many sex workers suffering from serious life threatening venereal diseases which didn't have any cures especially for those who were in the marginalized class, severe diseases like Syphilis and gonorrhea left behind permanent scars and disfigurations to women involved in sex work
And the conditions of the past times were much different than today's where life expectancy has significantly increased so camgirls although they aren't suffering nearly as much as women did in the past still does not mean we do not believe that we should fix their current economic conditions which under socialism can be much more possible especially with youth rights it would provide youths more freedom than living in patriarchal control

2025-02-02 17:49:25 UTC

- reply

again unlike today's standards Rome was a slave society which would mean 80% of the population were slaves so sexual objectification and sexual slavery was commonplace
And women did not possess nearly as much rights considering they were a property of the man in ancient Rome

2025-02-02 17:47:12 UTC

- reply

I'm not referring to solo sex work, but with actors
With solo sex work there would be no need for any kind of requirement for birth control but again with more competition people wouldn't just stick to solo sex work for longer as it would not be an option if they are to have a stable audience

2025-02-02 17:45:04 UTC

- reply

well Rome had a slave society and the culture was very different from what we have today so the standards would not apply in the same manner, I would like to go in depth about this some time soon

2025-02-02 17:42:36 UTC

- reply

but again for those people who have to perform such work as a career they aren't left with much options but taking the pill more than physical IUDs

2025-02-02 17:41:20 UTC

- reply

thats because prostitution has been more acceptable in online spaces, sex work has become more acceptable as an alternative although it has become more inequal throughout as the platform only prefers individuals who are getting more popular in the online spaces
And yes plastic surgeries does involve in such sex work

2025-02-02 17:35:19 UTC

- reply

but the risks for IUD has been known by people many times before especially for women during periods which often becomes more harmful to them which discourages many women to take such procedures, majority of them opt for hormonal IUD as its much less painful but also carries significant side effects which i stated before

2025-02-02 17:28:59 UTC

- reply

when I referred to plastic surgeries i meant with breasts and butt implants and how risky it has been for women who undertake such operations despite the risks, facial plastic surgeries although carry risks do not carry significant risks as bodily modifications do

2025-02-02 17:23:08 UTC

- reply

well man the issue with IUDs is that even if research suggests that it is safer than before, it isn't the same with individuals who often face side effects from chemical like hormonal inbalances (and long term effects of chemical IUDs) and physical rupture which requires more surgery to fix these issues
So there isnt exactly have been a non risk method which also requires significant healthcare costs, for the average sex worker it would mean taking significant debts which they would have to earn sufficient wages which may take them years to cover up the costs, not to mention it would be harder for them to find job opportunities considering companies outright blacklist individuals involved in sex work

2025-02-02 17:15:58 UTC

- reply

the problem isn't about engaging with sex work, but what sex work has been offering individuals lately and with recent studies it's only ending up being more harmful to individuals with their physical and mental health in decline than any significant positive progress
Again i do consider all jobs are becoming just as worse but the sex industry is currently become much worse on their standards which doesn't get reported enough I feel, the monetary incentive is certainly understandable but even that is fading away with less opportunities for the people involved and creating an inequal nature within itself

2025-02-02 17:03:40 UTC

- reply

well i agree with that sentiment too, males can be taken advantage off but only those who are younger and often by those women who are predatory at least in the business
Women have just too many risks in sex work, avoiding getting pregnant by taking contraceptives which aren't even researched well enough by pharma companies on their long term effects, sexual addiction is also risky and also the rising demand for more life threatening plastic surgeries which they would have to take to avoid being left out of the competition as under capitalism it is the main key, all these methods also require taking serious debts from healthcare and also some sex workers even take education loans to gain a base which does not involve having to stay on the business for long
Also ageing is also a sad truth with sex work as those who are older often find it much harder to continue with such work especially when the rising demand obviously encourages mostly younger individuals

2025-02-02 16:59:25 UTC

- reply

women have to look out for avoiding getting pregnant and take contraceptives which have shown to have side effects which also does not get enough research to study long term effects too
So it's unfair for the women who engage in sex work more than men in this case

2025-02-02 16:55:45 UTC

- reply

regardless your labour is still being taken advantage of by the people who own the platform, and even if you do have a lot of wages in sex work the risks are too high especially for women

2025-02-02 16:51:34 UTC

- reply

so the platform takes up the majority of the profits made from the videos which is supposed to be owned by the sex worker but in actuality is owned by the company

2025-02-02 16:50:17 UTC

- reply

with sex work u still have to pay the platform which the service is being provided to the audience and also wouldn't get anywhere close to fulfilling debts on education, healthcare housing etc

2025-02-02 16:47:24 UTC

- reply

i just think that seeking sexual gratification from others like as if they are sex objects is a negative practice which only commodifies the individual into a sexual object disregarding the persons actual identity
And not to mention sexual addiction and predatory coercion of those young is done by such men too which also creates abuse like situations cause the young girl who is initially solicitized into sexual services with the hopes of marriage with that individual is betrayed and often feels being taken advantage off

2025-02-02 16:41:01 UTC

- reply

i understand what it means but some ideas does have some validity like with sex work I'm against it in the sense that under capitalism it's essentially just abuse for the sex worker who gets little in return
In fact relationships throughout history are more tied to sexual needs more than seeking a positive relationship where the identity of the person is prefered than say ones physical and mental capabilities, it's this commodification is what creates conditions of abuse which does not come from a puritan standpoint

2025-02-02 16:37:23 UTC

- reply

well i don't believe the idea of marriage should even be a thing, all its done is create this idea of ownership of each other as property instead of treating each other as living human beings with different ideas and beliefs
I do believe that people can form a relationship however they like but pushing down a person to maintain the relationship out of monetary purposes and other one sided needs which then becomes a one sided relationship is obviously only abuse to the individual involved who wants to escape the control of marriage as its usually bound to money

2025-02-02 16:35:02 UTC

- reply

well i don't believe that to be the complete case tho, progressive ideas are not just authoritarian and sure if it's applied poorly and through force without educating the masses then I can agree
But conservative ideas although some do share some positives have overall been suppressive and I'm more in line with progressivism

2025-02-02 16:28:18 UTC

- reply

bruh how were they based, you believe that a loli should always be the dutiful wife of the husband who can abuse or do whatever he wants with her? And if the loli maybe finds someone else in love with than their abusive husband so they should be hanged or other worse crimes against them just for the act of loving someone else cause the current one is abusive?

2025-02-02 16:10:54 UTC

- reply

in fact I'm already ditching this idea of conservatism and libertarianism aside as I may have kept changing my views based on what I found was anti abusive and positive
Sure conservativism does have a lot of anti progressive ideas but I do think even progressive ideas may have a lot of negatives too which we don't usually discuss as we often dismiss them as an attack towards the left

2025-02-02 15:44:39 UTC

- reply

i mean honestly I don't blame all anti contacts as some I talked to are individuals who have suffered sexual abuses from adults in the past, so my views come from the fact that we should consider their opinions instead of rejecting them believing them to be radicals
And i do think that the MAP community itself has been getting more far right instead of having any leftist ideas which is threatening trans people so I do believe we should unite and find a way instead of having infighting around for long, at least with those individuals who are reasonably anti contact for the abuses they suffered and want a better world overall

2025-02-02 15:41:59 UTC

- reply

i do believe that lack of research is what's leading to more disparity amongst both sides as they would end up being radical cause they are stagnant with the current research that we have
If we are to develop and bring solidarity amongst those anti contact individuals who actually believe that underage youths may face abuse from some of the practices that adults carry out and not those individuals who take anti contact stance out of religious beliefs of a perfect child then more organization is required as conducting these research would require that we have a better system which provides such capabilities

2025-02-02 15:23:03 UTC

- reply

well maybe cause the current study and research that we have maybe has flaws which we never consider?
Again we look at it from a shallow perspective which concludes things way sooner than what it actually means
Most of the research is funded by individuals who are themselves been involved in patriarchal views so it also does not help anti contacts either
There is reasoning and justification behind those who actually faced direct abuses from people who are opportunistic and i can certainly understand their stances on it

2025-02-02 15:15:20 UTC

- reply

maybe u should consider the fact that they are anti contact for a very good reason

2025-02-02 15:09:12 UTC

- reply

well again i been on that server and i haven't seen anyone like that, again they do obviously don't want to tolerate conservative ideas but again if we actually had a reconciliation with each other based on purely scientific non biased viewpoints then I'm sure the doubts would be pretty clear

2025-02-02 15:04:26 UTC

- reply

i don't believe that to be the case, from what I heard from the admin themselves they do believe that fedi yesmap does have intolerance towards other paraphilias which again from a scientific basis shows it's the other way around
Again i don't deny that nnia also does not have any radicals but fedi equally is just as intolerant

2025-02-02 14:52:51 UTC

- reply

i do hope we give each other a try as i overall base my ideas on scientific basis and am completely neutral on both servers and their stances and the current situation demands that there should be at least some unity among the left instead of more radicalism which is not aimed at antis but fellow pedos for disagreeing with each other

2025-02-02 12:27:39 UTC

- reply

i guess he's a troll, although I do like the owner they do come across as a bit radical on their beliefs which again i can certainly understand as some of them were victims of CSA but i do feel that we should have a more neutral approach towards them instead of just being hateful, again i did hear that some of the people in yesmap aren't saints either and I'm really been new for a while so I look at this as both servers having their negatives and positives
So i do believe it is imperative that we gain solidarity towards them instead of just being hateful which again isn't making things any better for us with antis always seeking to divide those who are MAPs and criminalize all of us which is what I fear
we do have a golden opportunity which we are letting go off by being spiteful of each other based on our beliefs

2025-01-30 05:59:36 UTC

- reply

yeah as if they are not radicalized by conservative groups right?

2025-01-29 18:29:26 UTC

- reply

these are old conservative ideas which do not have any input from the underage youths themselves and only speak from decisive claims by people