Madeleine Morris

DO NOT GIVE THESE FUCKERS YOUR DESPAIR. IT’S WHAT THEY WANT. REFUSE IT.

Reader, worrier, lefty, PhD. Lacanian, complicator. Interested in politics, pottery and sewing. Slightly strange. Uncomfortably intense.

Fiction (inactive): http://www.remittancegirl.com
Kimono Sewing: https://kimonomad.com.remittancegirl.org
Languages: English, Spanish, French, Vietnamese

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2026-03-14 11:19:02 UTC

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Good morning, sweething!

2026-03-13 15:48:01 UTC

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I think many countries - especially colonised countries - learned a LOT from the fall of France, Belgium, Holland, etc. to the Nazis during WWII.
The first was to absolutely believe your country CAN be taken from you. The second was to determine that you'd rather die than relinquish it. The third is that the invading enemy has a lower tolerance for loss than you have.

2026-03-13 15:45:26 UTC

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I spent 20 years living in a country that defeated and ejected an American force of over 1/2 a million at one point. I studied the history of that war, and the war to oust the French before it.
With a tiny percentage of its resources, its military technology, etc. The reality is, people who love their country (not necessarily their governments), can and do bear unbelievable levels of misery to hang onto it.
It's not theoretical for them. It's their country.

2026-03-13 15:34:31 UTC

Firstly, I want to be incredibly clear on something: the regime in Iran is murderous, misogynistic, autocratic, anti-diversity, torturing, kidnapping bastards.
All that being said, I don't know when the US and the west in general is going to learn that you cannot defeat an enemy determined to defend its own territory via aerial bombardment. Period.
It has never happened. Never. Not once.
The US has even tried it with boots on the ground - in Vietnam, in Afghanistan, in Iraq. It doesn't work

2026-03-13 14:05:09 UTC

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Well, democracies only function when the people living under them take responsibility for them.
The fact that 1/2 the fucking country wasn't out on the street protesting after Pretti's murder is proof of this.
People COULD get out and protest en mass, but they chose not to.
In non-democracies, you can't. You get shot.

2026-03-13 11:41:57 UTC

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Meanwhile, in the US, where you literally DO HAVE A LEGAL RIGHT to document ICE acting badly, they shoot you for it these days.

2026-03-13 11:40:33 UTC

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And yet I can understand that people living expat lives come to believe the rules don't apply to them. I saw it often, Westerners who believed themselves to be above the laws of the country that was hosting them.
And with smart phones it is very easy to think that because you can take a picture of anything, you should and have a right to.
But you don't.

2026-03-13 11:37:00 UTC

RE: https://mstdn.social/@Remittancegirl/116221646008456537
I have mixed feelings about this. I spent 20 years living in Vietnam, not photographing the things I was prohibited from photographing.
Because I was visitor. It wasn't my country, and I was allowed to live there under the forbearance of the government. So, you know, I obeyed their laws.
Dubai isn't a democracy. Your rights are whatever the government says they are. If that offends you, go home.
#note18pk…vz7e

2026-03-13 11:33:00 UTC

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/mar/12/british-tourist-among-20-charged-in-dubai-over-videos-of-iranian-missile-strikes

2025-09-26 19:35:13 UTC

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If who deserves justice depends on whether you like them or not, then there isn’t justice. There is only tools of oppression.
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2025-09-24 15:05:40 UTC

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I’m just waiting for Stephen Miller to call us cockroaches and start offering government-subsidized machetes.

2025-09-24 11:52:53 UTC

If I have to be completely honest, I’m not a fan of late night talk shows.
But I want people to really understand that this was a victory - and it was a fight fought (and won) by ordinary people who let a corporation know that their obedience to Trump’s administration was going to cost them.
Regular people did this. Not some asshole on a white horse. YOU did this.
What else could we do?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1tjh_ZO_tY

2025-09-22 07:16:44 UTC

I just have to say it:
If taking paracetamol (tylenol) while pregnant caused autism, the vast majority of us would be autistic.
I am so deeply tired of this shit. Bone tired of the blatant lack of logical thought predominating American culture right now.

2025-09-20 08:16:27 UTC

Please give this woman some love. Leaving an in-group can feel alienating and hellish. But kudos to her for making the change - and at the age of 50! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXQa7jW_QmY

2025-09-04 15:11:08 UTC

It’s a smart approach for people who embrace rational thought and the principle that being a complete hypocrite indicates a moral failure. But they don’t vote for Trump. GOP / MAGA reject logic as woke.
It doesn’t bother them at all that principles aren’t applied with equal weight or that their stances require a rational defence.
A huge proportion of the US is not offended or bothered by blatant hypocrisy. They feel entitled to their feelings - however absurd. https://bsky.brid.gy/r/https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:bbp2b224lro3bfnzcqwwnkfo/post/3lxzfwettms2y

2025-09-04 07:30:25 UTC

Today I’m embarking on another sewing project. This time a lined kimono for a young person in their teens. I wanted to focus on the idea of the litoral between girlhood and womanhood. So I went for playful stylised flowers, lined with a bold deep cherry red.
Because this is all cotton, it is strictly speaking a yukata, but they are seldom lined. So this is a bit of a hybrid.
Like the previous garment, I aim for something completely reversible. #Kimono #Yukata #Sewing
https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/144/831/554/117/156/original/aea9e9f540d8a3bb.jpeg

2025-08-28 06:35:25 UTC

https://apnews.com/article/denmark-greenland-us-trump-6c9544314792cf1e287e21af06111c1e

2025-07-25 07:36:33 UTC

I don’t think I’m remotely alone in finding the pathetic and spineless response of world leaders to the war in Gaza absolutely disgusting.
How fucking hard is it to simply DO THE RIGHT THING?
Why? Why the fuck can’t they do the right thing?
Yes, there will be consequences. Yes there will be pushback. Yes there will be spurious accusations of antisemitism. But so what?
I’m so disgusted with almost all of them.
https://journa.host/@fulelo/114912490328160077

2025-07-17 11:48:41 UTC

I love living in a city where everyone who arrives at the bus stop greets everyone already there #malaga

2025-07-11 13:32:38 UTC

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actually, I live on a street predominantly populated by migrants from other places. And you know what?
They’re nice people. Hardworking, good neighbors, care for their families. They’re exactly what I want in a neighbor.
Exactly what you are not.

2025-06-23 22:25:30 UTC

https://apnews.com/live/iran-israel-war-updates-6-23-2025#00000197-9ed9-dc99-a79f-9fdde45d0000

2025-06-05 10:29:09 UTC

So, I actually have no sense what other people think about unisex toilets. Personally, I’m perfectly okay with them as long as they’re cleaned regularly.
So, what do you think?

2025-05-25 06:40:08 UTC

I haven’t ranted in a while, so here goes:
The Project 2025 Junta bears an uncanny resemblance to a fundamentalist Islamic tradition.
With the only difference being that most fundamentalist Islamic organisations are more liberal, in that they do not exclude by race.

2025-05-23 20:33:27 UTC

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I think most people have come to believe that wealth is a mark of virtue.
They often won’t admit they do, but they live there lives as if this was true.
And I’m absolutely sure it is quite the opposite.

2025-05-08 09:31:33 UTC

Really excellent episode on the lessons learned from #democratic #backsliding elsewhere that the US needs to learn. Refreshingly concrete and actionable suggestions that one might not suspect
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-lawfare-podcast/id498897343?i=1000706781384

2025-05-06 10:03:34 UTC

It kind of blows my mind when younger people say that civil disobedience was not inherently as dangerous in the past.
It was always dangerous. From Soweto to the Edmund Petis Bridge, from Kent State to Tiananmen Square. Getting rid of power hungry assholes has always been dangerous.

2025-05-05 20:35:40 UTC

There was a time in my life when only the young had the passion for civil disobedience.
Now it seems it’s only us ladies of uncertain age.
"A constituent was forcibly removed from Mike Lawler’s town hall.
He has inadvertently created an instantly iconic image of the resistance.” via @keithedwards.bsky.social‬
https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/114/457/129/966/733/378/original/74cdbd289346189d.jpg

2025-05-03 10:10:27 UTC

I get the sense I must state the obvious:
I’m not a particularly smart person. I grapple with how to understand and make sense of the world around me, and I try to find novel frames that will help me understand the complexity.
Some of those frames, and the way I develop them are useless. Some are deeply flawed. Some are little sparks of a different way of looking that broaden the ways to look at something.
None are proscribed ideology. I am not posting some ‘deep’ truth about anything.

2025-03-04 13:54:49 UTC

Now... THIS...
This is exactly a curtailment of free speech. When the government threatens to incarcerate you for saying something it doesn't like.
That is a perfect example of the limitation of free speech.
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2025-02-26 07:36:40 UTC

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I have come to think that 'greater good' is something that a very significant percentage of the population essentially infers a negative for them personally.
It implies the a choice not in their interest because the rhetoric around individuality - politically and commercially - has brainwashed them into not seeing themselves as part of a group.

2025-02-18 15:05:41 UTC

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I responded: Michelle Obama can afford security. I'm worried someone is going to take all the white hate being directed at Michelle Obama and play it out on the bodies of far more vulnerable Black women. Because these people have so dehumanized them, that killing one is just as good as killing another.

2025-02-08 22:03:35 UTC

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I don't want to demonize these people, but I really do get the impression that they've always had a bit of a taste for cruelty, and then Trump gave them permission to really enjoy it.
And so they've taken that permission and decided to run with it.
And a people who get an appetite for cruelty - it never ends well for them. But they hurt a lot of people on the way down.
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2025-02-01 13:47:08 UTC

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I think it is pretty clear that the bulk of the Democratic party as it stands right now believes that some shade of business as usual is possible. This is delusional and tells me they are not cut out to be the people who are going to lead us out of this.
My guess is that the Dems will never again see the levels of fundraising they saw during the Harris campaign. People feel betrayed.

2025-01-20 22:50:31 UTC

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I second this. I am also on mstdn.social with stux.
And it's great. Wonderful admin.

2024-07-28 15:40:19 UTC

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I do think you’re honing in on a certain very contemporary psychological outlook. I see that there is an unacknowleged enjoyment in a position of paralysis. I personally despise both parties positions on Gaza/Israel. I could choose to condemn them all equally. But how would that help change anything? The best you can do is vote for the most viable progressive candidate on offer to edge the less murderous party closer to something fairer.

2024-07-05 06:47:29 UTC

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I've boosted this because i think most people have no idea how speech impediments work. What exacerbates them, and what calms them down.
Plus, like anything else, like an injured limb, it can become more symptomatic with age.
The fact that people mistake verbal fluency for intellectual capacity makes me so damn angry.