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Lady Mae - Growth Teacher on Nostr: Push politely and elloquently without losing your sh*t. Some people do not get the ...

Push politely and elloquently without losing your sh*t.

Some people do not get the cue and keep pushing your boundaries.
It is a test how far you can hold it in.
Avoidance perhaps your best shot to avoid confrontation.
But some people will continue to test your limits.
If this is you, standing your ground and confront people are your way forward.
Communicate your boundaries politely.
You do not always have to agree and put up with their temper.
Push politely and elloquently without losing your sh*t.
It takes a lot of practice and preparation.

So before you do that, practice privately and prepare for possible come back.
Importantly, you can watch and say less.
Let them talk themselves out.
The less you talk, the better.
Remember, you are responsible for your emotions and not theirs.
So keep it together.
Yes, you will be dreaded doing this at the start.
You will be boiling inside.
But that is also your ego trying to drive you to respond.
Don't give in to the impulses.
And it gets better the more you practice.

My dear reader, you got this! 💪

Take care you — beautiful soul. ☺️🫂

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