Thanks for the detailed reply and engagement!
Do you have a preferred (recommended) iOS client?
(I do not recall if I already mentioned this to you but I’m bouncing between YakiHonne (about to ditch that as it’s the least accurate and too many UI leading to UX issues), Damus, and Primal.
For example this reply came on Primal but not Damus…
If I can get my lightning node (and thus wallet solved) on Damus, theoretically I could go 100% there and only access Primal for double checking I didn’t miss anything and looking up npub and note IDs to paste into Damus