hodlbod on Nostr: Because the relay *is* the group. Discord calls their groups "servers", I don't see ...

Because the relay *is* the group. Discord calls their groups "servers", I don't see why this should be so confusing. NIP 29 has poisoned everyone's minds by putting every group on groups.0xchat.com I guess. I want a more sophisticated type of group where admins have more control.