Why marry a person that is not similar in many ways to you? It's a recipe for disaster, and then add kids to the mix and there is a fight around every corner. In this cultureless country, there is nothing foundational except the pursuit of wealth and consumerism. Furthermore, women are motivated politically by emotions and feelings, Men are more pragmatic and logical, how can you have a coherent conversation about touchy topics that trigger an emotional person that won't be able to tolerate your logic.